How do people not learn?

[Aryy]

i know there is obvious emotional attachment but if someone is doing you wrong 3-4 times its obvious it will never change and too much damage has been done

i get it if its your first or something but still do people not have enough how are you in something like that for years on end

 

[Post-punkcel]

i know there is obvious emotional attachment but if someone is doing you wrong 3-4 times its obvious it will never change and too much damage has been done

i get it if its your first or something but still do people not have enough how are you in something like that for years on end

Tell that to my 87 yo husband now

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

i know there is obvious emotional attachment but if someone is doing you wrong 3-4 times its obvious it will never change and too much damage has been done

i get it if its your first or something but still do people not have enough how are you in something like that for years on end

this happens when people who have no leverage (i.e, they cannot switch friends groups, because they have no other friends) meet mean and manipulative people

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

i know there is obvious emotional attachment but if someone is doing you wrong 3-4 times its obvious it will never change and too much damage has been done

i get it if its your first or something but still do people not have enough how are you in something like that for years on end

The bigger the mog the less they notice type beat

If a mtn sneezes in the wrong way foid will be able to calculate future abuse but if a chad spanks the bitch she will say he just had a out of character moment

 

[catlady]

i know there is obvious emotional attachment but if someone is doing you wrong 3-4 times its obvious it will never change and too much damage has been done

i get it if its your first or something but still do people not have enough how are you in something like that for years on end

Explained by psychanalysis , will answer this later

 

[Aryy]

The bigger the mog the less they notice type beat

If a mtn sneezes in the wrong way foid will be able to calculate future abuse but if a chad spanks the bitch she will say he just had a out of character moment

it cannot be that good bro i see n*****s be with literally the devil for 7 years before finally getting dumped

 

[midori]

i enjoy the ride of schizophrenics thats why i always allow them back in my life im main character so im fine

 

[Nenestar]

I'll just stay there for the experience

 

[Aryy]

I'll just stay there for the experience

experience of being treated horribly?

 

[Aryy]

i enjoy the ride of schizophrenics thats why i always allow them back in my life im main character so im fine

yh it would never affect you

 

[Nenestar]

experience of being treated horribly?

I mean it's not like you get constantly treated horribly. You'll still go out, have fun, be with their friends etc. It's way better than being an invisible hermit

 

[Aryy]

I mean it's not like you get constantly treated horribly

still affects you alot even when you do other stuff
wouldnt being single be better

 

[Nenestar]

still affects you alot even when you do other stuff
wouldnt being single be better

not really. being single is boring af

 

[knightmaxxer]

this happens when people who have no leverage (i.e, they cannot switch friends groups, because they have no other friends) meet mean and manipulative people

cant get manipulated if you have nobody

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

cant get manipulated if you have nobody

you'll become mentally ill then the voices will manipulate you no escape brah

 

[knightmaxxer]

you'll become mentally ill then the voices will manipulate you no escape brah

 

[victorique]

i know there is obvious emotional attachment but if someone is doing you wrong 3-4 times its obvious it will never change and too much damage has been done

i get it if its your first or something but still do people not have enough how are you in something like that for years on end

i think it's because ppl only remember the good moments and not the bad one esp when it's their partner

talking from experience so it can be a cognitive bias

 

[Aryy]

i think it's because ppl only remember the good moments and not the bad one esp when it's their partner

talking from experience so it can be a cognitive bias

well i relate too but at one point someone must have enough

but looking back i dont even remember the bad times even tho they were horrible

 

[victorique]

well i relate too but at one point someone must have enough

but looking back i dont even remember the bad times even tho they were horrible

yeah that's what i was saying , humans are so weird , i wish i wasn't human

 

[Aryy]

yeah that's what i was saying , humans are so weird , i wish i wasn't human

do u wanna be an animal

 

[victorique]

do u wanna be an animal

no i want to be a sort of omnicient being

 

[Aryy]

no i want to be a sort of omnicient being

i want to know everything

 

[junebug]

i know there is obvious emotional attachment but if someone is doing you wrong 3-4 times its obvious it will never change and too much damage has been done

i get it if its your first or something but still do people not have enough how are you in something like that for years on end

Bro I've had to watch so many of my friends get abused by actual subhumans I could never do that to myself.
Might just be me though.

They had several golden opportunities ti just block them and leave btw,

 

[Spongebob CirclePants]

Now what if we were all gay

 

[Aryy]

Bro I've had to watch so many of my friends get abused by actual subhumans I could never do that to myself.
Might just be me though.

same i see it alot too
and its not even their looks, i feel like their just so attached but on what? he barely lovebombed you or something

 

[victorique]

Bro I've had to watch so many of my friends get abused by actual subhumans I could never do that to myself.
Might just be me though.

They had several golden opportunities ti just block them and leave btw,

I will abuse you

 

[junebug]

same i see it alot too
and its not even their looks, i feel like their just so attached but on what? he barely lovebombed you or something

Victims of abuse often cling onto small glimmers of hope and remain in denial when it's not as hopeful as it should be. I don't blame them for being abused in the past but when every single one of your friends hates your boyfriend you need to gain at least a little bit of consciousness.

 

[knightmaxxer]

Bro I've had to watch so many of my friends get abused by actual subhumans I could never do that to myself.
Might just be me though.

They had several golden opportunities ti just block them and leave btw,

this happens??

 

[junebug]

I will abuse you

@Ghoultune

 

[Aryy]

Victims of abuse often cling onto small glimmers of hope and remain in denial when it's not as hopeful as it should be. I don't blame them for being abused in the past but when every single one of your friends hates your boyfriend you need to gain at least a little bit of consciousness.

i dont blame them either but its sad to see them waste their time and metal health, plus alot of them even drop their friends over this

 

[junebug]

this happens??

Yes one of my friends was cheated on multiple times, verbally abused and manipulated, and abandoned on her anniversary. I cannot make this shit up she still stayed.

 

[junebug]

i dont blame them either but its sad to see them waste their time and metal health, plus alot of them even drop their friends over this

Exactly my thoughts.

 

[knightmaxxer]

Yes one of my friends was cheated on multiple times, verbally abused and manipulated, and abandoned on her anniversary. I cannot make this shit up she still stayed.

why doth god make all the actually loyal women also simultaneously retarded when it comes to picking who to be loyal to

 

[junebug]

why doth god make all the actually loyal women also simultaneously retarded when it comes to picking who to be loyal to

Because being loyal to a fault is correlated with deep insecurity and lack of self respect.

 

[knightmaxxer]

Because being loyal to a fault is correlated with deep insecurity and lack of self respect.

very plausible reason as to why im loyal to a fault

 

[Ghoultune]

@Ghoultune

I will Not view ignored content.

 

[Aryy]

I will Not view ignored content.

not me right

 

[Ghoultune]

not me right

Not You

 

[junebug]

I will Not view ignored content.

He said he'd abuse me

 

[Ghoultune]

He said he'd abuse me

I'll Rip their Throat