How do people

[Arya]

Genuinely stay together for years on end like 4-7 years, and leave eachother.
Like sounds so hard, how can you breakup or divorce unless its really messy like abuse/cheating

 

[submissivechud]

Genuinely stay together for years on end like 4-7 years, and leave eachother.
Like sounds so hard, how can you breakup or divorce unless its really messy like abuse/cheating

because they are retards that don't know how to understand their own emotions

 

[ecoli]

i would kms

 

[True Spaniard]

Because everything becomes transactional and they start getting bored of each other since they focus on other things like work, kids, etc…

 

[kafka]

i (45m) have been with my wife for 30 years now were still going strong, idk how people break up after so long

 

[benny]

idk ask my ex

 

[Arya]

idk ask my ex

How did u cope with that even

 

[benny]

How did u cope with that even

i still am why do u think i went from being a promoter and throwing college parties to rotting on com all day

 

[Jayan_3]

99 percent of the time it's abuse/cheating only

 

[Arya]

i still am why do u think i went from being a promoter and throwing college parties to rotting on com all day

Does she not miss you?

 

[splanky]

i still am why do u think i went from being a promoter and throwing college parties to rotting on com all day

whhait r u actually a promoter

 

[benny]

Does she not miss you?

i’m sure she does, she used to text me every couple weeks till i blocked her because it was slowing down my healing process talking to her

who knows, i just want her to be happy.

 

[benny]

whhait r u actually a promoter

yes

 

[splanky]

Genuinely stay together for years on end like 4-7 years, and leave eachother.
Like sounds so hard, how can you breakup or divorce unless its really messy like abuse/cheating

once i have kids with someone i genuinely will not leave them like even if they do me wrong
esp given the amount of time you’d probably have spent w that person by then, the investments you’ve made in them, and ur kids future etc
very sad stuff tho

 

[Arya]

i’m sure she does, she used to text me every couple weeks till i blocked her because it was slowing down my healing process talking to her

who knows, i just want her to be happy.

Sounds painful to even think about

 

[Arya]

once i have kids with someone i genuinely will not leave them like even if they do me wrong
esp given the amount of time you’d probably have spent w that person by then, the investments you’ve made in them, and ur kids future etc
very sad stuff tho

Sometimes you have to, like for your kids too
but yeah i get it