How do you go out when you are insecure about your looks?

[Deleted Member 128134]

If I go out nowadays, it's because of frequent grocery trips, but I don't hang out, dress up and put make up on. I don't like the way I look, and I can't go a day without thinking about how it would be different if I did this or that surgery.

I want to save up money to look better, but I can't get a job despite applying.

I want to have fun, but my looks don't help.

 

[OmgWhatttYwarrr]

1. In person, until you have some real asymmetry or flaw, nobody else notices every minor flaw of you until they come from this forum or you ask them to.

2. In the pictures you're just a 2d thingie captured in camera, but irl you're a 3 dimensional person who is walking, talking, laughing and people see that...not your flaws that you noticed In close up pictures or mirror after brutally analysing yourself for hours

3. Idk wyll now, but if you don't socialize, enjoy yourself and just stay depressed thinking about the same thing, you'll end up looking even worse....

So think about all this stuff and girl go out and have fun, nobody really cares about how you look until they gotta date you and flex you...

 

[Deleted Member 128134]

1. In person, until you have some real asymmetry or flaw, nobody else notices every minor flaw of you until they come from this forum or you ask them to.

2. In the pictures you're just a 2d thingie captured in camera, but irl you're a 3 dimensional person who is walking, talking, laughing and people see that...not your flaws that you noticed In close up pictures or mirror after brutally analysing yourself for hours

3. Idk wyll now, but if you don't socialize, enjoy yourself and just stay depressed thinking about the same thing, you'll end up looking even worse....

So think about all this stuff and girl go out and have fun, nobody really cares about how you look until they gotta date you and flex you...

Thanks man, I appreciate it.

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

If I go out nowadays, it's because of frequent grocery trips, but I don't hang out, dress up and put make up on. I don't like the way I look, and I can't go a day without thinking about how it would be different if I did this or that surgery.

I want to save up money to look better, but I can't get a job despite applying.

I want to have fun, but my looks don't help.

I have the same issues but I force myself to get into a hangout or something so I can’t back out

 

[Тоска́]

You have all the light / feminine features you could ask for. All that is needed is styling honestly. this is judgement on the self feels like it is based on sensationalised fear rather than actual output from others honestly, needless.

 

[had]

If I go out nowadays, it's because of frequent grocery trips, but I don't hang out, dress up and put make up on. I don't like the way I look, and I can't go a day without thinking about how it would be different if I did this or that surgery.

I want to save up money to look better, but I can't get a job despite applying.

I want to have fun, but my looks don't help.

in reality, unless you're extremely malformed nobody gives a fuck

also pregabalin

 

[Saucy]

Brah unless you have actual facial deformities nobody's cares how you look.

Think about it: when you walk past a person you don't find attractive, what do you think? How long will that person stay in your memory?

Also, it would be ideal if you're content with your appearance right now and not wait till you reached a certain point...

 

[MoggerNode]

يا أخي، ما لم تكن لديك تشوهات حقيقية في الوجه، فلا أحد يهتم بمظهرك.

فكر في الأمر: عندما تمر بجانب شخص لا تجده جذاباً، ما هو شعورك؟ كم من الوقت سيبقى هذا الشخص في ذاكرتك؟

كما أنه من الأفضل أن تكون راضياً عن مظهرك الآن ولا تنتظر حتى تصل إلى مرحلة معينة...

يبقى في ذهني يوم كامل واقول في نفسي اريذ ان اتحسن لكي لأصبح لذالك مضهر قبيح

 

[Deleted Member 128134]

Brah unless you have actual facial deformities nobody's cares how you look.

Think about it: when you walk past a person you don't find attractive, what do you think? How long will that person stay in your memory?

Also, it would be ideal if you're content with your appearance right now and not wait till you reached a certain point...

Thank you Saucy.

 

[nasaltiprotation]

If I go out nowadays, it's because of frequent grocery trips, but I don't hang out, dress up and put make up on. I don't like the way I look, and I can't go a day without thinking about how it would be different if I did this or that surgery.

I want to save up money to look better, but I can't get a job despite applying.

I want to have fun, but my looks don't help.

I basically just don’t give a shit maxx