Lifefuel / Motivation how do you obtain the energy to do shit?

[benny]

i literally have no energy/desire to text people back

i got invited to go on a boat tonight and have fun but i literally just want to stay in my room and do nothing

how tf do u fix this i wasn't like this before

 

[Thestral]

Are you depressed for another reason? Probably

 

[benny]

Are you depressed for another reason? Probably

yeah 100%

i just feel stuck though i know why but nothing seems to excite me anymore

i don't even want to play video games everything just sounds like too much work

 

[vamp]

might seem crazy but you just have to do it no matter what ur mood is,

you will always regret not doing stuff, i used to be in the same situatiuon as you, no motivation for anything, now i activly hang out and socialize.

you just gotta get ur ass up to have a good time.

if i had to recomend anything it would be to lower ur screen time

 

[vamp]

yeah 100%

i just feel stuck though i know why but nothing seems to excite me anymore

i don't even want to play video games everything just sounds like too much work

i can relate so bad,

 

[benny]

might seem crazy but you just have to do it no matter what ur mood is,

you will always regret not doing stuff, i used to be in the same situatiuon as you, no motivation for anything, now i activly hang out and socialize.

you just gotta get ur ass up to have a good time.

if i had to recomend anything it would be to lower ur screen time

i def need to just do it, i'll try and force myself out tonight

lowering screen time sounds good too, i need to force myself to be bored

 

[arisu]

i literally have no energy/desire to text people back

i got invited to go on a boat tonight and have fun but i literally just want to stay in my room and do nothing

how tf do u fix this i wasn't like this before

just don’t do anything unless it’s something U HAVE to
ur prob tired

 

[benny]

just don’t do anything unless it’s something U HAVE to
ur prob tired

i've been tired for months then, i don't know if that is it

 

[Thestral]

yeah 100%

i just feel stuck though i know why but nothing seems to excite me anymore

i don't even want to play video games everything just sounds like too much work

that reason is a she, I bet

 

[benny]

that reason is a she, I bet

yup you are correct. LTR of 4 years ended nearly 5 months ago.

I was depressed while we were dating too, to be fair

But it made it way worse

 

[vamp]

i def need to just do it, i'll try and force myself out tonight

lowering screen time sounds good too, i need to force myself to be bored

i installed a few screentimeblockers, they are rly good, i recomend screenzen if you are on android.

other then that i always recomend to not think about what you need to do in a large step but many small steps,

 

[Thestral]

yup you are correct. LTR of 4 years ended nearly 5 months ago.

I was depressed while we were dating too, to be fair

But it made it way worse

Women… they give you so much energy, but they’re also capable of ruining you

 

[benny]

i installed a few screentimeblockers, they are rly good, i recomend screenzen if you are on android.

other then that i always recomend to not think about what you need to do in a large step but many small steps,

i like this, i think i do need to be more present. I find myself counting all the little tasks and getting overwhelmed, and just opting to rot instead of doing anything, even if it might take me only an hour.

Very good tips i'm glad i am not alone as well, thank you Vamp

 

[arisu]

i've been tired for months then, i don't know if that is it

you might have mild depression
or maybe it’s a vitamin or mineral deficiency
or excess screen time

 

[Pinksunglasses]

i literally have no energy/desire to text people back

i got invited to go on a boat tonight and have fun but i literally just want to stay in my room and do nothing

how tf do u fix this i wasn't like this before

Benny dont be a fat hog

 

[benny]

Benny dont be a fat hog

i don’t eat either dont worry, still 18 bmi

 

[Pinksunglasses]

i don’t eat either dont worry, still 18 bmi

Benny dont be a skeleton

 

[sinedKunt]

Start walking around alone, like randomly and don't look at yo phone for the time its so referehosn

 

[Pinksunglasses]

Start walking around alone, like randomly and don't look at yo phone for the time its so referehosn

Yo Benny dont look at “yo” phone gangyton

 

[benny]

Yo Benny dont look at “yo” phone gangyton

improper english is an artistic choice

Start walking around alone, like randomly and don't look at yo phone for the time its so referehosn

i do go for walks, but i always bring my phone. I’ll start leaving it behind, thank you