How I got over my body dysmorphia

[RetardedBloatcel]

I got off this forum for a long while. Deleted TikTok and instagram for 3 weeks.

Didn’t look at myself in the mirror for a week. Except to brush my teeth and shit.
Spent 2x more time outside, even if that meant I was went on laps around the city, just observing people. Detoxing the brain from rating randoms and yourself, for a couple days really did work. I recommend everyone that does that shit to try it.

Eventually, once I wasnt analysing each facial feature like an autist (since I’m a uni student) I’d do assignments in public spaces like parks or coffee shops, just to further detox my brain from bullshit blackpill tries to tell you.

A lot of those stats don’t correlate to real life as much as people think. If anything, it’s much more comfortable to hide behind those stats as a reason why people are scared to talk to women than actually just trying anyway.

I didn’t realise just how wide my options were till I stopped thinking like a chud.

Wise words from a n****r

 

[Nbernical]

Trvke from the goat

 

[RetardedBloatcel]

Trvke from the goat

Thanks Nber

I like this name more than Yani

 

[chudlite67]

I got off this forum for a long while. Deleted TikTok and instagram for 3 weeks.

Didn’t look at myself in the mirror for a week. Except to brush my teeth and shit.
Spent 2x more time outside, even if that meant I was went on laps around the city, just observing people. Detoxing the brain from rating randoms and yourself, for a couple days really did work. I recommend everyone that does that shit to try it.

Eventually, once I wasnt analysing each facial feature like an autist (since I’m a uni student) I’d do assignments in public spaces like parks or coffee shops, just to further detox my brain from bullshit blackpill tries to tell you.

A lot of those stats don’t correlate to real life as much as people think. If anything, it’s much more comfortable to hide behind those stats as a reason why people are scared to talk to women than actually just trying anyway.

I didn’t realise just how wide my options were till I stopped thinking like a chud.

Wise words from a n****r

who are u

 

[RetardedBloatcel]

who are u

An old user that decided to come back for a couple days

 

[chudlite67]

An old user that decided to come back for a couple days

ya but which one

 

[RetardedBloatcel]

ya but which one

 

[Arya]

I didn’t realise just how wide my options were till I stopped thinking like a chud.

Elaborate on this
Like before you were just too shy or overthinking it too much for talking to women so you dint realise your chances?

Did u approach more women after yourself
how was it different from before

 

[chudlite67]

oh ok : P

 

[RetardedBloatcel]

Elaborate on this
Like before you were just too shy or overthinking it too much for talking to women so you dint realise your chances?

Did u approach more women after yourself
how was it different from before

Precisely. I’d be outside or at a club thinking “right shes high mtb” and thinking about my level, where I stand and hypergamy and shit so I wouldn’t make a move or it’d be a very calculated move but by that time, she’s either already walked past or at clubs that’s past the time a guy gets to approach a girl. (The window is literal seconds).

I was always in my own head. Second I cut that line of thinking I’ve been slaying prettier girls than I thought I could.

 

[Arya]

Precisely. I’d be outside or at a club thinking “right shes high mtb” and thinking about my level, where I stand and hypergamy and shit so I wouldn’t make a move or it’d be a very calculated move but by that time, she’s either already walked past or at clubs that’s past the time a guy gets to approach a girl. (The window is literal seconds).

I was always in my own head. Second I cut that line of thinking I’ve been slaying prettier girls than I thought I could.

So how did your opinions change after leaving this space,
Like your opinions on hypergamy
how many personality matters
etc

 

[RetardedBloatcel]

So how did your opinions change after leaving this space,
Like your opinions on hypergamy
how many personality matters
etc

Yes, everything. Tbh, it’s also the fact I’ve ascended I stopped caring about that shit as often since most people would say I’m a good looking guy. But my friends that are average slay just as much or even more than I do. I’d hardly say I’m blackpilled. To me, you’re truly fucked if you’re like 5’5 and ugly. That, I can understand fully

 

[pauseboicarti]

ya but which one

starts with an A and is black

 

[pauseboicarti]

Precisely. I’d be outside or at a club thinking “right shes high mtb” and thinking about my level, where I stand and hypergamy and shit so I wouldn’t make a move or it’d be a very calculated move but by that time, she’s either already walked past or at clubs that’s past the time a guy gets to approach a girl. (The window is literal seconds).

I was always in my own head. Second I cut that line of thinking I’ve been slaying prettier girls than I thought I could.

do u cold approach or only when u get iois first

 

[RetardedBloatcel]

do u cold approach or only when u get iois first

It’s a mix of both but I usually approach first. She’ll reciprocate after