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It is not a good guide by any sort, as im extremely nd.
But im going to tell you the story of how i conquered my fear of getting bullied for being extremely weird, ok so ill put you in context.
In high school i was pretty reclusive. Im basically a nerd. I was in the debate team, math and shit like that i was almost never in class as i was always away for tournament, or too busy trying to get a place to crash for the night as my mother kicked me out.
All of this to say that i was not the most social guy until my second to last year of high school.
I basically made it a challenge to get a crazy hair doo every three weeks at that time i got i pretty long so i just tried everything to be more noticeable as i wanted the top spot in my school as high school president. But not good looking hair does i mean skullet, and shit like that, and i forced myself to just hang out and sit with people once i knew someone i tried alternating in between everyone, and just making myself as confident as possible through trial and error. There i really found my stride and as everyone always saw me i got recognized and said hello in my city pretty much by everyone in my area.
It also helped that i brought victory to the debate team, which brought respect to me, as well as completely making fun of my competition in the lead up to my election where i almost won unanimously garnered 95% of the votes. Now, im pretty much impervious to being perceived as cringe as im so accustomed to getting myself out there that i don't even think of it.
But im going to tell you the story of how i conquered my fear of getting bullied for being extremely weird, ok so ill put you in context.
In high school i was pretty reclusive. Im basically a nerd. I was in the debate team, math and shit like that i was almost never in class as i was always away for tournament, or too busy trying to get a place to crash for the night as my mother kicked me out.
All of this to say that i was not the most social guy until my second to last year of high school.
I basically made it a challenge to get a crazy hair doo every three weeks at that time i got i pretty long so i just tried everything to be more noticeable as i wanted the top spot in my school as high school president. But not good looking hair does i mean skullet, and shit like that, and i forced myself to just hang out and sit with people once i knew someone i tried alternating in between everyone, and just making myself as confident as possible through trial and error. There i really found my stride and as everyone always saw me i got recognized and said hello in my city pretty much by everyone in my area.
It also helped that i brought victory to the debate team, which brought respect to me, as well as completely making fun of my competition in the lead up to my election where i almost won unanimously garnered 95% of the votes. Now, im pretty much impervious to being perceived as cringe as im so accustomed to getting myself out there that i don't even think of it.
