Serious How I lost my stacylite over one stupid text at 1AM don't be like me

[zoiton]

Been talking to this blonde, blue-eyed Stacylite on Snapchat for a while now. She wasn’t just cute; she was perfect. She sent me pictures of her dog, asked me about the countries I’ve visited, and even said maybe we should go to Spain together after I mentioned I loved it there. We bonded over music—Kanye, Tyler, Carti—the connection felt real. She was literally the girl version of me. Everything about her just seemed perfect. Then one night around 1AM, we’re having one of those deep, quiet convos and she says, “You know, no one’s ever complimented me the way you do.” That hit me hard. I got bricked instantly. I was on a call with some friends at the time and I started panicking. I didn’t want to mess it up. I asked one of them what I should say and he told me to share my screen. So I did. He told me to reply with “gn” and a heart. I sent it, and she sent the same back. At that point, I thought things were actually going somewhere. Then he tells me, “Now say ‘what are you wearing’ — that line has worked before.” I hesitated. I knew it was risky. But I was dumb, bricked, and caught in the moment. So I typed it: “What are you wearing.” Sent it. My heart was racing, hands shaking, waiting for a reply. After four minutes, she finally answered: “That’s so weird.” I immediately deleted the message and started apologizing, telling her that my friend told me to say it. My friend laughed and told me that was the worst thing I could’ve said, that no girl wants to hear you’re showing her messages to your boys. A few minutes later she hits me with, “I’m sorry, I don’t like talking to people who make me feel uncomfortable. And you’re making me feel uncomfortable.” Then she blocked me. Just like that. The only Stacylite I ever had a real shot with, gone in four minutes. All because I didn’t trust my own instincts and listened to someone else. Take this as a lesson: one wrong move is all it takes. FUCKKKKKK

 

[Deleted Member 71653]

haha

 

[Rivers of Nihil]

niggа used chat gpt to write ts

 

[slopslinger]

holy dnr

 

[zoiton]

niggа used chat gpt to write ts

Yea i did but it was my idea cuz i was too lazy to write it

 

[galaxygirl]

not a molecule

 

[zoiton]

not a molecule

Calm down g-cookie

 

[AuggyDauggy]

It doesn't take one wrong move for everything to be over, she just wasn't attracted to you enough.

I've seen my good looking friends get away with farrr far worse and the girl STAYED.

 

[galaxygirl]

It doesn't take one wrong move for everything to be over, she just wasn't attracted to you enough.

I've seen my good looking friends get away with farrr far worse and the girl STAYED.

facts auggy facts

 

[zoiton]

It doesn't take one wrong move for everything to be over, she just wasn't attracted to you enough.

I've seen my good looking friends get away with farrr far worse and the girl STAYED.

Maybe its cuz i dont look good fuck my looks fuck being 14

 

[AuggyDauggy]

facts auggy facts

I'm always right

Maybe its cuz i dont look good fuck my looks fuck being 14

you're 14? oh who gives a fuck then you'll have more chances

 

[TonyDr]

Been talking to this blonde, blue-eyed Stacylite on Snapchat for a while now. She wasn’t just cute; she was perfect. She sent me pictures of her dog, asked me about the countries I’ve visited, and even said maybe we should go to Spain together after I mentioned I loved it there. We bonded over music—Kanye, Tyler, Carti—the connection felt real. She was literally the girl version of me. Everything about her just seemed perfect. Then one night around 1AM, we’re having one of those deep, quiet convos and she says, “You know, no one’s ever complimented me the way you do.” That hit me hard. I got bricked instantly. I was on a call with some friends at the time and I started panicking. I didn’t want to mess it up. I asked one of them what I should say and he told me to share my screen. So I did. He told me to reply with “gn” and a heart. I sent it, and she sent the same back. At that point, I thought things were actually going somewhere. Then he tells me, “Now say ‘what are you wearing’ — that line has worked before.” I hesitated. I knew it was risky. But I was dumb, bricked, and caught in the moment. So I typed it: “What are you wearing.” Sent it. My heart was racing, hands shaking, waiting for a reply. After four minutes, she finally answered: “That’s so weird.” I immediately deleted the message and started apologizing, telling her that my friend told me to say it. My friend laughed and told me that was the worst thing I could’ve said, that no girl wants to hear you’re showing her messages to your boys. A few minutes later she hits me with, “I’m sorry, I don’t like talking to people who make me feel uncomfortable. And you’re making me feel uncomfortable.” Then she blocked me. Just like that. The only Stacylite I ever had a real shot with, gone in four minutes. All because I didn’t trust my own instincts and listened to someone else. Take this as a lesson: one wrong move is all it takes. FUCKKKKKK

She never felt the same thing than you bud, never

 

[zoiton]

I'm always right

you're 14? oh who gives a fuck then you'll have more chances

i hate the way i look i get no female attention other than my eyes im so fucking pissed off

 

[galaxygirl]

She never felt the same thing than you bud, never

yo icl from a girls perspective

she’s been wanting to drop you for a while she just used this as an excuse

 

[zoiton]

nting to drop you for a while she just used this as

thank you galaxy

 

[AuggyDauggy]

i hate the way i look i get no female attention other than my eyes im so fucking pissed off

I was completely boneless till I was 17-18 you have time n***a dont give up just yet

 

[zoiton]

I was completely boneless till I was 17-18 you have time n***a dont give up just yet

I wanna just bonesmash my face and see improvement what can i do? other than nutrition and sleep ik the basics

 

[AuggyDauggy]

I wanna just bonesmash my face and see improvement what can i do? other than nutrition and sleep ik the basics

fucking r****d. Go ahead, and give yourself permanent asymmetry. The only (Sorta) valid places to bonesmash is chin and zygos and even then it's mostly swelling

look at your parents and grandparents has at least one of have decent bones?

 

[AuggyDauggy]

Why is bonesmashing so popular these days?

Proper nutrition and roids is the way to go if you want bonemass

 

[NARCISSlST]

It doesn't take one wrong move for everything to be over, she just wasn't attracted to you enough.

I've seen my good looking friends get away with farrr far worse and the girl STAYED.

ong if ur gl bitches will be obsessed with u regardless of small gay shit like that, personality matters but ur personality has to be literally perfect if ur chopped and i have to show way more interest

 

[AuggyDauggy]

ong if ur gl bitches will be obsessed with u regardless of small gay shit like that, personality matters but ur personality has to be literally perfect if ur chopped and i have to show way more interest

literally.

a gl n***a could say the most icky things to a girl that's attracted to him, leave her on seen for hours, be a shitty person and she'll still stay.

OP is young so I wont completely fry his shit, but this post was cope

 

[zoiton]

literally.

a gl n***a could say the most icky things to a girl that's attracted to him, leave her on seen for hours, be a shitty person and she'll still stay.

OP is young so I wont completely fry his shit, but this post was cope

Dw im already fried in and out fuck me

 

[zoiton]

Why is bonesmashing so popular these days?

Proper nutrition and roids is the way to go if you want bonemass

roids? where? Plus wont it fuck my hormones

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

dnr

 

[AuggyDauggy]

dnr
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looks like GPT tbh

 

[sjnny404]

dnr
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Am i genuinely autistic bc i didnt understand this was a sexual question until chatgpt put it in my face

 

[Spuffy]

Been talking to this blonde, blue-eyed Stacylite on Snapchat for a while now. She wasn’t just cute; she was perfect. She sent me pictures of her dog, asked me about the countries I’ve visited, and even said maybe we should go to Spain together after I mentioned I loved it there. We bonded over music—Kanye, Tyler, Carti—the connection felt real. She was literally the girl version of me. Everything about her just seemed perfect. Then one night around 1AM, we’re having one of those deep, quiet convos and she says, “You know, no one’s ever complimented me the way you do.” That hit me hard. I got bricked instantly. I was on a call with some friends at the time and I started panicking. I didn’t want to mess it up. I asked one of them what I should say and he told me to share my screen. So I did. He told me to reply with “gn” and a heart. I sent it, and she sent the same back. At that point, I thought things were actually going somewhere. Then he tells me, “Now say ‘what are you wearing’ — that line has worked before.” I hesitated. I knew it was risky. But I was dumb, bricked, and caught in the moment. So I typed it: “What are you wearing.” Sent it. My heart was racing, hands shaking, waiting for a reply. After four minutes, she finally answered: “That’s so weird.” I immediately deleted the message and started apologizing, telling her that my friend told me to say it. My friend laughed and told me that was the worst thing I could’ve said, that no girl wants to hear you’re showing her messages to your boys. A few minutes later she hits me with, “I’m sorry, I don’t like talking to people who make me feel uncomfortable. And you’re making me feel uncomfortable.” Then she blocked me. Just like that. The only Stacylite I ever had a real shot with, gone in four minutes. All because I didn’t trust my own instincts and listened to someone else. Take this as a lesson: one wrong move is all it takes. FUCKKKKKK

good for her for standing her ground. its good you recognize a mistake you made.

It doesn't take one wrong move for everything to be over, she just wasn't attracted to you enough.

I've seen my good looking friends get away with farrr far worse and the girl STAYED.

She never felt the same thing than you bud, never

yo icl from a girls perspective

she’s been wanting to drop you for a while she just used this as an excuse

i completely disagree. a talking stage is a really delicate time where almost every impression matters. if someone is already picking up on signs of immaturity, it’s going to reflect poorly. sure, it was harsh of her to block you even though you apologized, but it was healthy. She explained how she felt and gave her reasons. It’s possible she did like you, but it’s still early and it’s understandable not to want to deal with anything that feels off so soon (especially since you tried to make things sexual and she might have to deal with that often with boys)

Also if shes a stacylite, especially if she’s active on snapchat, she probably knows she could find someone else she clicks with who doesn’t make her feel even a little uncomfortable. I don’t think this was an excuse to ghost you. And honestly, you probably liked her more than she liked you, but there’s nothing wrong with that. i wouldnt let all of these others persuade you into thinking its something that its not. its cope; and instead you should just reflect on yourself

 

[NARCISSlST]

good for her for standing her ground. its good you recognize a mistake you made.




i completely disagree. a talking stage is a really delicate time where almost every impression matters. if someone is already picking up on signs of immaturity, it’s going to reflect poorly. sure, it was harsh of her to block you even though you apologized, but it was healthy. She explained how she felt and gave her reasons. It’s possible she did like you, but it’s still early and it’s understandable not to want to deal with anything that feels off so soon (especially since you tried to make things sexual and she might have to deal with that often with boys)

Also if shes a stacylite, especially if she’s active on snapchat, she probably knows she could find someone else she clicks with who doesn’t make her feel even a little uncomfortable. I don’t think this was an excuse to ghost you. And honestly, you probably liked her more than she liked you, but there’s nothing wrong with that. i wouldnt let all of these others persuade you into thinking its something that its not. its cope; and instead you should just reflect on yourself

why are you so smart all of a sudden

 

[Spuffy]

why are you so smart all of a sudden

i tend to act dumb and silly on discord. ive always been like this on .com when i want to

 

[sjnny404]

good for her for standing her ground. its good you recognize a mistake you made.




i completely disagree. a talking stage is a really delicate time where almost every impression matters. if someone is already picking up on signs of immaturity, it’s going to reflect poorly. sure, it was harsh of her to block you even though you apologized, but it was healthy. She explained how she felt and gave her reasons. It’s possible she did like you, but it’s still early and it’s understandable not to want to deal with anything that feels off so soon (especially since you tried to make things sexual and she might have to deal with that often with boys)

Also if shes a stacylite, especially if she’s active on snapchat, she probably knows she could find someone else she clicks with who doesn’t make her feel even a little uncomfortable. I don’t think this was an excuse to ghost you. And honestly, you probably liked her more than she liked you, but there’s nothing wrong with that. i wouldnt let all of these others persuade you into thinking its something that its not. its cope; and instead you should just reflect on yourself

I agree somewhat tbh
I used to chat with a guy who was relatively attractive (gymmaxxed, tall, good physique, outgoing and NT) and I had good vibes with him until he shot his shot in a kinda gross way (we were talking about what we'd get our friends and fam for xmas and he said this explicitly sexual thing to me) and i dropped him immediately. If he had any other personality i could have seen myself being attracted to him overtime but it turned me off and i never replied ever since

 

[Spuffy]

I agree somewhat tbh
I used to chat with a guy who was relatively attractive (gymmaxxed, tall, good physique, outgoing and NT) and I had good vibes with him until he shot his shot in a kinda gross way (we were talking about what we'd get our friends and fam for xmas and he said this explicitly sexual thing to me) and i dropped him immediately. If he had any other personality i could have seen myself being attracted to him overtime but it turned me off immediately and i never replied ever since

i agree. i just dont see the point of putting up with bullshit if you 1. arent even dating or 2. havent met in real life. its obviously different if one or both of those things are true.

 

[Mandy?]

Why the fuck did you listen to your friend like that’s clearly fucking retarded

 

[Mandy?]

roids? where? Plus wont it fuck my hormones

Depends on the steroid itself and usually and with usually I mean 95 out of 100 you’ll end up fine with PCT no matter the compound.

 

[Decay]

You’re a fucking idiot, dude. Holy fuck.

 

[sjnny404]

dont do roids tho youll deffo have side effects no matter what iirc

your estrogen and T actually need to have the right ratio to one another, artificially increasing your T will increase your estrogen by default. when u stop T your estrogen may remain inflated, its why ex body builders have man boobs

also not having the hormones to supplement your newly grown frame would probably lead to osteoporosis or something along those lines so youll have to take it habitually and end up chopped by the time youre 40-50 when you vouldve been aging gracefully

 

[sjnny404]

i agree. i just dont see the point of putting up with bullshit if you 1. arent even dating or 2. havent met in real life. its obviously different if one or both of those things are true.

literally talking stage is the time where you have to filter out the weirdos the hardest, guy is 14 so ill give him some slack but the friend is correct, the "my friends told me it was a good idea" was a horrible double down i would cut it off for the privacy breach alone

 

[zoiton]

good for her for standing her ground. its good you recognize a mistake you made.




i completely disagree. a talking stage is a really delicate time where almost every impression matters. if someone is already picking up on signs of immaturity, it’s going to reflect poorly. sure, it was harsh of her to block you even though you apologized, but it was healthy. She explained how she felt and gave her reasons. It’s possible she did like you, but it’s still early and it’s understandable not to want to deal with anything that feels off so soon (especially since you tried to make things sexual and she might have to deal with that often with boys)

Also if shes a stacylite, especially if she’s active on snapchat, she probably knows she could find someone else she clicks with who doesn’t make her feel even a little uncomfortable. I don’t think this was an excuse to ghost you. And honestly, you probably liked her more than she liked you, but there’s nothing wrong with that. i wouldnt let all of these others persuade you into thinking its something that its not. its cope; and instead you should just reflect on yourself

shoudlve asked u for advice that night thank u

 

[Decay]

shoudlve asked u for advice that night thank u

Don’t ask anyone for advice. Do whatever you want to do.

 

[zoiton]

dont do roids tho youll deffo have side effects no matter what iirc

your estrogen and T actually need to have the right ratio to one another, artificially increasing your T will increase your estrogen by default. when u stop T your estrogen may remain inflated, its why ex body builders have man boobs

also not having the hormones to supplement your newly grown frame would probably lead to osteoporosis or something along those lines so youll have to take it habitually and end up chopped by the time youre 40-50 when you vouldve been aging gracefully

what do i do then

 

[zoiton]

Don’t ask anyone for advice. Do whatever you want to do.

buddy i need training i cant dude

 

[Decay]

buddy i need training i cant dude

Not at all, keep things real when you talk to women.

 

[sjnny404]

what do i do then

the only treatment is good genes, time, and nutrition bhai

 

[VeilziPork]

Yea i did but it was my idea cuz i was too lazy to write it

Unfortunately I read a single words luckily I stopped reading to save my brain capacity

 

[sjnny404]

buddy i need training i cant dude

stop listening to us or your friends, trust your gut, and practice (healthy) levels of dettachment/the ability to have female friendships without expecting anything from it

 

[VeilziPork]

stop listening to us or your friends, trust your gut, and practice (healthy) levels of dettachment/the ability to have female friendships without expecting anything from it

The most normal actually good bit of advice I’ve read today

 

[zoiton]

stop listening to us or your friends, trust your gut, and practice (healthy) levels of dettachment/the ability to have female friendships without expecting anything from it

thank you

 

[AuggyDauggy]

good for her for standing her ground. its good you recognize a mistake you made.




i completely disagree. a talking stage is a really delicate time where almost every impression matters. if someone is already picking up on signs of immaturity, it’s going to reflect poorly. sure, it was harsh of her to block you even though you apologized, but it was healthy. She explained how she felt and gave her reasons. It’s possible she did like you, but it’s still early and it’s understandable not to want to deal with anything that feels off so soon (especially since you tried to make things sexual and she might have to deal with that often with boys)

Also if shes a stacylite, especially if she’s active on snapchat, she probably knows she could find someone else she clicks with who doesn’t make her feel even a little uncomfortable. I don’t think this was an excuse to ghost you. And honestly, you probably liked her more than she liked you, but there’s nothing wrong with that. i wouldnt let all of these others persuade you into thinking its something that its not. its cope; and instead you should just reflect on yourself

Very valid points. He's dumb as shit for saying what he did, and she's allowed to have her boundaries.

However, it seems like this kid had little to no leeway when it came down to this relationship he was forming. He stated that they've been "talking for a while, " assuming a couple weeks. For absolutely nothing to have escalated in that time and her supposedly being attracted to him... I kinda find that hard to believe.

The "every impression counts" mindset mostly applies when attraction isnt that strong to begin with and it clearly wasn't enough to get past one misstep.

And that's okay. It's not about blame but understanding their dynamic. She clearly wasn't as into him as he was into her; those kinds of relationships drag on too long.

I honestly think even if he had perfect texting, this relationship would've gotten nowhere, he had a one-way ticket to the friendzone.
You can guage someone's attraction to another by how much they will overlook. If one mere mistake was enough, then he shouldn't mentally masturbate so much over this, since he didn't have as much of a chance of this working out as he wants to believe.