How ppl genuinely find a bf

[Ekatearina]

How to get to know guys ,(nice and respectful) in rl.Like all my friends are girls and some ppl I know are guysbut never guy friends or smth…I genuinely don’t know how ppl find bf or smth.a friend of mine got one after snapping and praying 1 year for him.They in the same school but SHE had to build the contact and run after him.Is that bc I don’t go out or why am I unable to find connections.Sp just are on instagram liking each others story’s but I feel were I live it’s pretty old school.I am just curious bc it feels the only option is to run after a boy like he was the girl…or mb I’m just inexperienced and talk shit idkk

 

[Rololongs]

How to get to know guys ,(nice and respectful) in rl.Like all my friends are girls and some ppl I know are guysbut never guy friends or smth…I genuinely don’t know how ppl find bf or smth.a friend of mine got one after snapping and praying 1 year for him.They in the same school but SHE had to build the contact and run after him.Is that bc I don’t go out or why am I unable to find connections.Sp just are on instagram liking each others story’s but I feel were I live it’s pretty old school.I am just curious bc it feels the only option is to run after a boy like he was the girl…or mb I’m just inexperienced and talk shit idkk

So you wanna talk to dudes

 

[Ekatearina]

So you wanna talk to dudes

I just think it’s strange that I have zero guy friends and idk how ppl find a bf than like how does such a contact start

 

[Jeezie066]

How to get to know guys ,(nice and respectful) in rl.Like all my friends are girls and some ppl I know are guysbut never guy friends or smth…I genuinely don’t know how ppl find bf or smth.a friend of mine got one after snapping and praying 1 year for him.They in the same school but SHE had to build the contact and run after him.Is that bc I don’t go out or why am I unable to find connections.Sp just are on instagram liking each others story’s but I feel were I live it’s pretty old school.I am just curious bc it feels the only option is to run after a boy like he was the girl…or mb I’m just inexperienced and talk shit idkk

i just sit around and pray a dude will come up to me

 

[v3daddy]

just talk to random guys, most will say yes

 

[Rololongs]

I just think it’s strange that I have zero guy friends and idk how ppl find a bf than like how does such a contact start

I mean you don't have to have but most contacts start because of they are introduced or they have socials

 

[Rololongs]

I mean you don't have to have but most contacts start because of they are introduced or they have socials

Like for example usually a guy with DM a girl or sometimes a girl will dm a guy or in school they're both in the same class then the teacher partners them up if that goes well they might both be interested in each other or want to be friends

 

[Simen]

How to get to know guys ,(nice and respectful) in rl.Like all my friends are girls and some ppl I know are guysbut never guy friends or smth…I genuinely don’t know how ppl find bf or smth.a friend of mine got one after snapping and praying 1 year for him.They in the same school but SHE had to build the contact and run after him.Is that bc I don’t go out or why am I unable to find connections.Sp just are on instagram liking each others story’s but I feel were I live it’s pretty old school.I am just curious bc it feels the only option is to run after a boy like he was the girl…or mb I’m just inexperienced and talk shit idkk

Привет, ты из СНГ?

 

[Rololongs]

Like for example usually a guy with DM a girl or sometimes a girl will dm a guy or in school they're both in the same class then the teacher partners them up if that goes well they might both be interested in each other or want to be friends

Or maybe outside to like this example they see each other so often outside eventually and they they are going to start the talk

 

[Jeezie066]

Like for example usually a guy with DM a girl or sometimes a girl will dm a guy or in school they're both in the same class then the teacher partners them up if that goes well they might both be interested in each other or want to be friends

ts sounds way too complicated ill just stay celibate for life

 

[Ekatearina]

Like for example usually a guy with DM a girl or sometimes a girl will dm a guy or in school they're both in the same class then the teacher partners them up if that goes well they might both be interested in each other or want to be friends

It’s not that easiii somehow nb dm each other it just feels strange and in school we choose partners our selves

 

[Ekatearina]

Or maybe outside to like this example they see each other so often outside eventually and they they are going to start the talk

So should I go out more?

 

[Rololongs]

ts sounds way too complicated ill just stay celibate for life

Yeah I never have the conferences to do that imagine they screenshot your message and it spreads around god

 

[Rololongs]

So should I go out more?

I mean yeah find places that usually your age group goes often

 

[2short2fuck]

what women do not understand is that they have the upper hand

if you are a female, no matter what you could easily find a boyfriend

if you are not hypergamous and go strictly for some chads any oofy doofy will date you

 

[Jeezie066]

Yeah I never have the conferences to do that imagine they screenshot your message and it spreads around god

true this why spending your day on incel forums is the best wayy to socialise

 

[Rololongs]

It’s not that easiii somehow nb dm each other it just feels strange and in school we choose partners our selves

Well in the US it's really common that someone gets their socials and does the first move

 

[Rololongs]

true this why spending your day on incel forums is the best wayy to socialise

 

[Ekatearina]

Well in the US it's really common that someone gets their socials and does the first move

It’s like seen as cheap in my social circle

 

[Rololongs]

It’s like seen as cheap in my social circle

I think the best move is to go up the person and be random and just start out random conversation

 

[Rololongs]

I think the best move is to go up the person and be random and just start out random conversation

I'm honestly not the best person to talk about this anyways I barely even make new friends or even talk to girls or even dudes

 

[2short2fuck]

what women do not understand is that they have the upper hand

if you are a female, no matter what you could easily find a boyfriend

if you are not hypergamous and go strictly for some chads any oofy doofy will date you

@Jeezie066 tf are you jfling for

 

[Ekatearina]

what women do not understand is that they have the upper hand

if you are a female, no matter what you could easily find a boyfriend

if you are not hypergamous and go strictly for some chads any oofy doofy will date you

But why is it not like it was earlier,why do girls have to do that it just feels wronggg
I also don’t mean just boyfriend I mean guy friends in general…every guy I’m “friends” with just don’t feels like a friend

 

[Rololongs]

But why is it not like it was earlier,why do girls have to do that it just feels wronggg
I also don’t mean just boyfriend I mean guy friends in general…every guy I’m “friends” with just don’t feels like a friend

Simple solution just don't do anything

 

[2short2fuck]

I also don’t mean just boyfriend I mean guy friends in general…every guy I’m “friends” with just don’t feels like a friend

there is no guy friends

every guy you will be friends with will want to fuck you

But why is it not like it was earlier,why do girls have to do that it just feels wronggg

what do you mean by this

 

[Ekatearina]

I think the best move is to go up the person and be random and just start out random conversation

Nonon I’m on a school with few students and all families kinda know each other or live next to each other I could not live knowing everyone saw me getting rejected

 

[Ekatearina]

Simple solution just don't do anything

Ok

 

[Ekatearina]

there is no guy friends

every guy you will be friends with will want to fuck you

what do you mean by this

Like in the 50/60ies

 

[Rololongs]

Nonon I’m on a school with few students and all families kinda know each other or live next to each other I could not live knowing everyone saw me getting rejected

Dude I got friend zone by a girl all my friends made fun of me for that for one year it hurts but you got to stay strong and take it like a champ

 

[2short2fuck]

Like in the 50/60ies

huh what do you mean lol

 

[Ekatearina]

Dude I got friend zone by a girl all my friends made fun of me for that for one year it hurts but you got to stay strong and take it like a champ

but I would feel like a man going to a random guy talking to him…like what should I do next take his bag

 

[Rololongs]

but I would feel like a man going to a random guy talking to him…like what should I do next take his bag

Then act cute

 

[Ekatearina]

huh what do you mean lol

We’re guys approached and were like respectful or even ran after girls

 

[Hurly Saint]

I just think it’s strange that I have zero guy friends and idk how ppl find a bf than like how does such a contact start

Dont be autistic

 

[yyoloo]

just talk to random guys, most will say yes

this doesn’t work

 

[Ekatearina]

Dont be autistic

sure

 

[Ekatearina]

this doesn’t work

I did not even know what to talk

 

[Ekatearina]

I’m just curious In general like all ppl I liked are bc of eyecontact or one friendship so I have no clue how ppl meet in general

 

[Ekatearina]

Like I’m what caffe do I have to got to bump in a stranger who is also my soulmate

 

[Rololongs]

I’m just curious In general like all ppl I liked are bc of eyecontact or one friendship so I have no clue how ppl meet in general

Sadly it's more about being confident

 

[Rololongs]

Sadly it's more about being confident

Just got to go up to the person take the chance it's hard but that's the only way

 

[Rololongs]

Just got to go up to the person take the chance it's hard but that's the only way

It's it's not like those stories where you guys look at each other's in the eyes and decided to come friend or partners it always starts with the conversation

 

[Ekatearina]

Sadly it's more about being confident

I’m getting confident,even girls I consider less attractive (imo) have bf,BUT HOW do the meet

 

[Rololongs]

If you can't start a conversation or or even pursue something or anything then there's no hope for you sadly it's the hard truth

 

[Ekatearina]

It's it's not like those stories where you guys look at each other's in the eyes and decided to come friend or partners it always starts with the conversation

Sadly

 

[AListhegoat]

How to get to know guys ,(nice and respectful) in rl.Like all my friends are girls and some ppl I know are guysbut never guy friends or smth…I genuinely don’t know how ppl find bf or smth.a friend of mine got one after snapping and praying 1 year for him.They in the same school but SHE had to build the contact and run after him.Is that bc I don’t go out or why am I unable to find connections.Sp just are on instagram liking each others story’s but I feel were I live it’s pretty old school.I am just curious bc it feels the only option is to run after a boy like he was the girl…or mb I’m just inexperienced and talk shit idkk

Annndd your dms are full of simps

 

[Rololongs]

I’m getting confident,even girls I consider less attractive (imo) have bf,BUT HOW do the meet

You got to talk to a guy you like and just have a normal conversation with him been overtime just continue and just hope that he will have feelings for you eventually

 

[Ekatearina]

If you can't start a conversation or or even pursue something or anything then there's no hope for you sadly it's the hard truth

Ig I will just stay by eyecontact till it gets too obvious

 

[AListhegoat]

You got to talk to a guy you like and just have a normal conversation with him been overtime just continue and just hope that he will have feelings for you eventually

Or just be good looking and make his heart flutter within seconds of seeing you(happens to me reguralry)

 

[Rololongs]

Ig I will just stay by eyecontact till it gets too obvious

That's atleast something don't be creepy with it though