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how to appeal to guys as a girl?

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charisma if your ltn, how you smell, aesthetics, or just go for guys that like niche stuff but make sure you fit in that niche genre
 
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cherrybomb said:
it's not currently working unforch
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You're also 14 years old, getting into an immature relationship shouldn't be a priority for you. Just study well and have fun with your friends and find some cool hobbies.
 
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Blackpillirony said:
You're also 14 years old, getting into an immature relationship shouldn't be a priority for you. Just study well and have fun with your friends and find some cool hobbies.
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idrc about a relationship i just want to be liked. even though my male friends get along with me more, they talk to my prettier friends more about the same stuff.
 
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if your the most attractive person in the room then objectively people would approach you no matter what you say. there is a limit to your attractiveness to people because some people still go for personality as in the oofy doofy theory but you should be able to talk to people no matter what. being funny is also good.
cherrybomb said:
i'm like hltb allegedly and i'm really funny irl but i just get nervous around ppl i like tbh and just spew bs
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cherrybomb said:
idrc about a relationship i just want to be liked. even though my male friends get along with me more, they talk to my prettier friends more about the same stuff.
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if you want to be liked use your charm. being charming is the best way to make people like you. (if your not rlly atrractive)
 
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cherrybomb said:
idrc about a relationship i just want to be liked.
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Don't seek out male validation only to feel yourself exist or validated. Might seem corny but just be who you are and be confident, people will be much more tempted to go talk and interact with you if you seem like a magnetic and pleasant person.
cherrybomb said:
even though my male friends get along with me more, they talk to my prettier friends more about the same stuff.
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That just means they're more attracted to looks than anything, don't bother with them.
 
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Kingdom of Lotharingia said:
It's still a truthnuke so I don't give A FUCK! You want good advice or not?
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Objectively that is not good advice either way, if you use your body for validation the vast majorly of people will only see you for your body. Further more when they find someone else with a better body they will stop talking to you. She's also fourteen probably a freshmen in high school. Good advice would be to actual focus on your grades and mindset. As intelligence is one of the most important things.
 
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heroinchic said:
telling a 14 yr old to seek validation by showing off her body is not truth
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That is a strawman of what I actually said. It's not "showing off her body for validation", it's the correct style choice for achieving the goal she is asking how to achieve!

Whether she should be asking the question is a different story.
 
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Kingdom of Lotharingia said:
That is a strawman of what I actually said. It's not "showing off her body for validation", it's the correct style choice for achieving the goal she is asking how to achieve!

Whether she should be asking the question is a different story.
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Basically, what your saying is the only best way to appeal to a guy is showing off your body? Appealing to someone is almost the same thing as wanting validation.
 
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heroinchic said:
Objectively that is not good advice either way, if you use your body for validation the vast majorly of people will only see you for your body.
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Every person on Earth is only seen for their body. Your body and face is who you are, her future orbiters who would sacrifice their life savingsfor her may not realize this, but it's true.
heroinchic said:
Further more when they find someone else with a better body they will stop talking to you.
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No they won't, most orbiters are very loyal!
heroinchic said:
Good advice would be to actual focus on your grades and mindset. As intelligence is one of the most important things.
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Your perceived intelligence is heavily correlated with your looks, and grades/schoolwork is pointless grind with tough competition that few succeed in. Success is dependent on looks anyway!
 
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heroinchic said:
Basically, what your saying is the only best way to appeal to a guy is showing off your body?
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Nope, but it's an effective way!
heroinchic said:
Appealing to someone is almost the same thing as wanting validation.
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Who cares? Whether or not you are validated and appeal to other is extremely important.
 
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Kingdom of Lotharingia said:
Every person on Earth is only seen for their body. Your body and face is who you are, her future orbiters who would sacrifice their life savingsfor her may not realize this, but it's true.

No they won't, most orbiters are very loyal!

Your perceived intelligence is heavily correlated with your looks, and grades/schoolwork is pointless grind with tough competition that few succeed in. Success is dependent on looks anyway!
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Thats a form of biological determison whichliterally ignores the complexes of human consiousness, probality etc. while appearnces are first impressions it does not indicate long term charcter or identify. You may of defined how halo effect is but you did not conclude how grades and schoolwork is.
 
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Kingdom of Lotharingia said:
Every person on Earth is only seen for their body. Your body and face is who you are, her future orbiters who would sacrifice their life savingsfor her may not realize this, but it's true.

No they won't, most orbiters are very loyal!

Your perceived intelligence is heavily correlated with your looks, and grades/schoolwork is pointless grind with tough competition that few succeed in. Success is dependent on looks anyway!
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relying solely on looks is bad either way, once your not good looking you have nothing to rely on. which is proof that you need both. Intelligence and attractiveness.
 
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heroinchic said:
relying solely on looks is bad either way, once your not good looking you have nothing to rely on. which is proof that you need both. Intelligence and attractiveness.
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Once you lose your looks at 60 they don't even matter, you just cruise off the status and wealth you built up as a good-looking person.
 
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Kingdom of Lotharingia said:
It's a spectrum, not a binary. Some people are fucked by their looks, other see only small benefits, some win because of them.
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Like you said, some win. not all. meaning you shouldn't base everything on your looks but maxx out other things, your personality, intelligence levels, your ability to perceive things between good and wrong. Even if you are the best looking person wrong choices can literally backflip your success and turn you back to the start.
 
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Kingdom of Lotharingia said:
It's a spectrum, not a binary. Some people are fucked by their looks, other see only small benefits, some win because of them.
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in conclusion its stupid to literally sit around and keep talking about this because yes looks matter we all know they do but so does intelligence, just think about how many celebrities blessed with god looks destroy their face based on bad choices
 
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heroinchic said:
Like you said, some win. not all. meaning you shouldn't base everything on your looks but maxx out other things, your personality, intelligence levels, your ability to perceive things between good and wrong. Even if you are the best looking person wrong choices can literally backflip your success and turn you back to the start.
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in conclusion its stupid to literally sit around and keep talking about this because yes looks matter we all know they do but so does intelligence, just think about how many celebrities blessed with god looks destroy their face based on bad choices
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Go back to r/inceltears!
 
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heroinchic said:
Objectively that is not good advice either way, if you use your body for validation the vast majorly of people will only see you for your body. Further more when they find someone else with a better body they will stop talking to you. She's also fourteen probably a freshmen in high school. Good advice would be to actual focus on your grades and mindset. As intelligence is one of the most important things.
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Kingdom of Lotharingia said:
Buddy you can't even write proper grammar. You are probably in remedial english.
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oh nooo man u caught me im sooo scared oh no im stupid oh my god im s stupid fucking chud im just a stupid chud and fucking brainrotted and i need to rope oh nooo noo save me from this despair noo only u can
 
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