How to approach a woman?

[Deleted Member 59191]

what is the best place to do so and what are the things i should talk about i know i have the confidence to do it but i dont want to finish getting to know her right there because that is the only thing i am good at talking about once i get to know a girl and i got no more questions which usually lasts about 3-4 months i cant get past that and she just gets bored and leaves can anyone also explain how i can get better on that

 

[Deleted Member 59191]

I feel like @James Othy is going to know about this

 

[g4rl1c]

I feel like @James Othy is going to know about this

work on ur self ur prolly boring

 

[Deleted Member 59191]

work on ur self ur prolly boring

How can i solve being boring i also feel like im boring sometimes

 

[Sigma Girl]

As a girl, just don’t ignore her. Reply to her right away when she texts, be yourself, and try to be funny or something (it’s very attractive). I’m not sure if other girls think like me, but talk to her like she’s your friend and try not to be too nervous. And if you're nervous, try to hide it. Personally, I’m not attracted to guys who don’t know what they want

 

[g4rl1c]

How can i solve being boring i also feel like im boring sometimes

learn to do shit. listen to podcasts/comedians to train ur brain to make interesting/funny observations. be in tune to the people around you and understand how to communicate with them (code switching), pretend to be interested in what ppl have to say and ask question abt them, don't trauma dump 24/7,

 

[g4rl1c]

As a girl, just don’t ignore her. Reply to her right away when she texts, be yourself, and try to be funny or something (it’s very attractive). I’m not sure if other girls think like me, but talk to her like she’s your friend and try not to be too nervous. And if you're nervous, try to hide it. Personally, I’m not attracted to guys who don’t know what they want

Ignore women. They lie. Be a little mean to them. Seem occupied don't listen to her women lie

 

[Deleted Member 59191]

learn to do shit. listen to podcasts/comedians to train ur brain to make interesting/funny observations. be in tune to the people around you and understand how to communicate with them (code switching), pretend to be interested in what ppl have to say and ask question abt them, don't trauma dump 24/7,

I do code switching and i do pretend im interested and ask a lot of questions but i trauma dump a lot how tf did you know this

 

[aladdinmaxxer]

what is the best place to do so and what are the things i should talk about i know i have the confidence to do it but i dont want to finish getting to know her right there because that is the only thing i am good at talking about once i get to know a girl and i got no more questions which usually lasts about 3-4 months i cant get past that and she just gets bored and leaves can anyone also explain how i can get better on that

just ascend to a chad and demand her p*ssy directly

 

[James Othy]

I feel like @James Othy is going to know about this

Best to be in a large city. Girls generally aren't as open to being approached these days. A lot of times girls will give you an opening, make eye contact and smile in a way that let's you know she's not only being polite. Go over and talk to her. Ask for her insta or whatever the hell people do.

Before you could go and approach random girls. But unless you catch her eye first and see her giving you a signal to approach her she's probably not gonna be too open to be taken off her trajectory. Smart phones have done this to people.

Then again there's always the good old blue ray bit. "Jet over to my place..." That one never fails.

 

[TonyDr]

what is the best place to do so and what are the things i should talk about i know i have the confidence to do it but i dont want to finish getting to know her right there because that is the only thing i am good at talking about once i get to know a girl and i got no more questions which usually lasts about 3-4 months i cant get past that and she just gets bored and leaves can anyone also explain how i can get better on that

Don't try to cold approach in the streets tbh, women are stuck in their own head and in a rush. Better talk to them in parks, bars, library any social things etc. Best if they already siled at you and looked at you multiple times

 

[neymar]

Approach them while they’re at work. They’re bored and will love the attention if theyre attracted to u it’s a guarantee slay

 

[Deleted Member 59191]

Approach them while they’re at work. They’re bored and will love the attention if theyre attracted to u it’s a guarantee slay

Which kind of workers do you think would have the better women to approach

 

[TonyDr]

Approach them while they’re at work. They’re bored and will love the attention if theyre attracted to u it’s a guarantee slay

risky unless y'all are coworkers. At work most women are just polite

 

[neymar]

Which kind of workers do you think would have the better women to approach

risky unless y'all are coworkers. At work most women are just polite

I cold approached a women working in a chocolate shop and we had soooo much chemistry and we spoke on insta briefly. I ghosted her cause I was serious about my ex at the time

 

[TonyDr]

I cold approached a women working in a chocolate shop and we had soooo much chemistry and we spoke on insta briefly. I ghosted her cause I was serious about my ex at the time

Gl dude ramblings dnr tbh

 

[PimpMyLoox]

As a girl, just don’t ignore her. Reply to her right away when she texts, be yourself, and try to be funny or something (it’s very attractive). I’m not sure if other girls think like me, but talk to her like she’s your friend and

Shit advice

try not to be too nervous. And if you're nervous, try to hide it. Personally, I’m not attracted to guys who don’t know what they want

Good advice

 

[PimpMyLoox]

You’re probably low T OP, get it checked.

 

[Deleted Member 59191]

You’re probably low T OP, get it checked.

Im probably not tho

 

[neymar]

Gl dude ramblings dnr tbh

I was just on MDMA
unparalleled confidence and social skills/ banter

 

[TonyDr]

I was just on MDMA
unparalleled confidence and social skills/ banter

If i talk to women on MDMA i go to jail
I'm discriminated

 

[neymar]

If i talk to women on MDMA i go to jail
I'm discriminated

After reflecting on our convo I should be jailed too