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how to attract girls

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hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
 
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hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
Naturally. Treat them like a human being don't be weird treat them with honesty don't lie it's evident when ppl lie. Just spend time with them show interest in them and let them talk about their lives. Girls love talking
 
Naturally. Treat them like a human being don't be weird treat them with honesty don't lie it's evident when ppl lie. Just spend time with them show interest in them and let them talk about their lives. Girls love talking
Also girls get nervous too bro, don't worry you'll figure it out
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
gaslightand trauma bond
 
if they’re approaching you deadass just follow through because that means they alr want you and are willing to put effort in
 
You don't, be like me and have all your childhood memories be moving around pixels with other socially maladjusted losers.
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
Step 1: Be mtn

step 2: be atleast healthy

then focus on personality be kind gentle caring considerate but at the same time don't be a cuck be a strong self dependant individual with confidence
 
If you’ve gotten to the talking stage more than once that it’s safe to assume you’re at least somewhat attractive. Listen to what she has to say. Remember little things she likes and bring them up later so she feels special and seen by you. Buy her little gifts they don’t have to be expensive even roses and chocolates or something similar. Don’t pressure her for anything sexual yet make her feel safe expressing herself sexually with and around you. Treat her like a human. Don’t idolize her in the sense you put her on an unrealistic pedestal and communicate.
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
she probably thought u weren’t interested if u bailed during talking stage. i’ve had that happen and it really hurts and i always take it super personal
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
just treat em like a dude. small talks and shared interests could further develop into a relationship. Beware that they expect a certain level of constant engagement or the talking stages would rarely materialise, always keep a solid roster of them and one would turn out to be just fine
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
Treat her like you'd treat your friends in their most vulnerable state. Women are fragile and they need more care and effort
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
step 1: Be Over 12 feet , step 2: Be the most handsome man in the world
 
if you are step 1: Be Over 12 feet , step 2: Be the most handsome man in the world with HIV does it counts?
none of this applies for men i’ve asked out 5’8 homelsss men and gotten rejected
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
aww how old are u
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
bro asking ppl on a incel forum how to attract girls
 
step one: be attractive

that's about it
I've hard lots of girls make the first move on me n stuff but I fumble because personality is what really matters and I'm too shy/anxious.

So really it's personality
 
Naturally. Treat them like a human being don't be weird treat them with honesty don't lie it's evident when ppl lie. Just spend time with them show interest in them and let them talk about their lives. Girls love talking
I second this. Im getting really good at talking with girls because I already don't shut the fuck up
 
just treat em like a dude. small talks and shared interests could further develop into a relationship. Beware that they expect a certain level of constant engagement or the talking stages would rarely materialise, always keep a solid roster of them and one would turn out to be just fine
the thing is most of the time i feel like the guy is meant to be the talker and the girls were kinda shy and im not great at conversations so it was hard to get interesting back and forth
 
If you’ve gotten to the talking stage more than once that it’s safe to assume you’re at least somewhat attractive. Listen to what she has to say. Remember little things she likes and bring them up later so she feels special and seen by you. Buy her little gifts they don’t have to be expensive even roses and chocolates or something similar. Don’t pressure her for anything sexual yet make her feel safe expressing herself sexually with and around you. Treat her like a human. Don’t idolize her in the sense you put her on an unrealistic pedestal and communicate.
okay this seems like genuinely good advice, will do, thanks
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
I’m curious how old you are
 
hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
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hey guys im looking for advice to talk to girls, i got to talking stage twice but got kinda nervous and bailed, i dont think im ugly bc they approached me so i just want to know how to handle each step of the relationship pretty much, thanks <3
Read through half the responses and most are shit. Right first of all dont worry about every little thing you say worry about the way you say it because thats the thing women read off you your intention and they will no it in a second. You want to give off the idea (do not straight up tell them this but hint at it and passively show it through pulling away randomly talking time to respond and having confidence) is that your pre selected (your able and are talking too other women) this may sound bad at first but they are actually into that but dont come on too strong with it. Next is small talks your best friend dont try and think deep as they dont care about that make up stupid unintellectual convo about anything. Play with her emotions like a roller coaster be cold and distant then romantical then distant this will intrigue her. Remember she might have other potential partners as well what sets you out is not trying to appeal to her by complimenting her all the time and treater her as this fragile and innocent bird (believe you me all the other dudes talking to her do this) , you want to make her feel weird. Do NOT and i mean DO NOT ask her to be your gf please for god sake it will give her the ick shes meant to define that barrier let her do it. This what will set you apart trust in my advice i promise it will take you far.
 
High key best piece of advice ive seen was flashing them women arent that vunerable emotional friend like you see in disney thats a blue pill if you become her always available pet shell leave the second she gets another option
 
Read through half the responses and most are shit. Right first of all dont worry about every little thing you say worry about the way you say it because thats the thing women read off you your intention and they will no it in a second. You want to give off the idea (do not straight up tell them this but hint at it and passively show it through pulling away randomly talking time to respond and having confidence) is that your pre selected (your able and are talking too other women) this may sound bad at first but they are actually into that but dont come on too strong with it. Next is small talks your best friend dont try and think deep as they dont care about that make up stupid unintellectual convo about anything. Play with her emotions like a roller coaster be cold and distant then romantical then distant this will intrigue her. Remember she might have other potential partners as well what sets you out is not trying to appeal to her by complimenting her all the time and treater her as this fragile and innocent bird (believe you me all the other dudes talking to her do this) , you want to make her feel weird. Do NOT and i mean DO NOT ask her to be your gf please for god sake it will give her the ick shes meant to define that barrier let her do it. This what will set you apart trust in my advice i promise it will take you far.
@Blackpillirony @Auggy @trueceljester @giga.mia @yasy @emeraldpilled
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Bro thinks he's on some ayanakoji type shit
n*****s watch andrew tate once and think they casa nova if you have to do all this for a girl you’re either chopped or she’s mentally ill PROLLY both
 
n*****s watch andrew tate once and think they casa nova if you have to do all this for a girl you’re either chopped or she’s mentally ill PROLLY both
So the method works if you're an ugly guy tryna appeal to mentalcels? Good to know.
 
So the method works if you're an ugly guy tryna appeal to mentalcels? Good to know.
at the end the crazy ones would leave to “find themselves so they don’t hurt you more” anyway jfl
 

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