You honestly don’t need surgery or fillers. You already have good features, and a lot of what you’re worried about can improve naturally.
It’s also worth knowing that fillers come with real risks, migration is actually quite common, and once filler moves to other areas of the face it can be very hard to fix and often makes things look worse long-term.
Focusing on getting to a healthy weight, good sleep, nutrition, and overall wellbeing will do far more for your face than invasive procedures. Fat distribution, skin quality, and facial harmony all improve a lot with health.
Also, mindset matters more than people like to admit. Being positive, open, and optimistic makes you much more approachable, and that genuinely makes it easier for men to notice you and give attention.
You’re not as far off as you think, don’t rush into permanent decisions out of temporary insecurity.