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Say for example, you are still chopped and wish people liked you.
Mate-Choice Copying (Pre-Approval)
People are seen as more desirable, if other people desire them.
Even if their partner is uglier, or worse looking than them, you’ll still be seen as more valuable.
For example, if you were to date someone uglier than you, it doesn’t actually make you seem worse looking. It instead will just put you in the dating pool. People will wonder why you’re with them, making you their mind as a partner.
Moreover, the person who has a partner is going to be considered someone who is more suitable for a future partner instead of someone who you’ve never seen with the opposite gender.
The cheat is dating someone you aren’t into just to date someone and be put as partner material to other people. Making them more attracted to you.
Like-Me Heuristic
Be like the person you want to attract. People think that people who are like them must be liked by them. That's why people say their partners are a female/male version of themselves.
To match someone, you could copy their style - If they dress a certain way, copy the style, and you can do ts without even talking to them, and they’ll still be more attracted to you.
Say if they like sports or hiking, then just make it obvious you like the same things.
The cheat is changing yourself to match the other person because most people want someone exactly like themselves, everyone thinks they are the most interesting person they know.
Complementary Theory
People are more attracted to people who have traits they admire because to themselves they are lacking that certain trait.
Sometimes people's insecurities are easy to spot, if someone's stupid and bad at school even though it's obvious they try, like when they get a test back they are disappointed instead of uncaring. They're probably going to be attracted to someone who is good academically because that's who they wish they were.
If someone is messy and unorganised they’ll be attracted to someone who is neater than them because that's who they want to be.
An insecure girl would be attracted to a confident male because that's who they wish they could be. Same way people glaze their sports team captain because they're the best on the team and they wish that were them.
To cheat attraction in this way, just notice someone who you're attracted to and spot their insecurity then just be the opposite.
Scarcity Principal
When you're too available it makes you less valuable. Instead, you can act like you're busy like when talking to someone instead of being the one to carry on the conversation till it's dead and gone, act like you have to leave before the conversation is completely over. It makes it seem harder to get your full time. People who are needy and always approach someone they're attracted to make themselves look like a creep who is unattractive, even if you're chopped if you act like you have more important things to do than to talk to someone they will want to talk to you more to make themselves feel better about being disregarded.
Eventually it’ll feel good to have you speak to them because it will assure them that they are worth talking to. Through association with talking to you and pleasure they will be more attracted to you.
Proximity Effect
When someone is familiar with someone they'll feel more comfortable around them. That's why sometimes you’ll see a guy crazy below a girls league, it's because they were friends before.
If you become a positive attribute in someone's life they’ll see you as someone whose safe and easy to talk to.
To not die in the friendzone make sure to never give up things for them that will only benefit them. For example, they could ask you to do their work ✘ If they ask you to buy them something ✘ if they ask you to drive them somewhere ✘
To do this properly you need to be a positive attribute while not being a benefctable attribute to them only.
Benjamin Franklin Effect
Make people do small low-effort tasks for you because after doing something for someone you automatically justify your actions and that justification would be something like, “I did this because I like them.”
It's based on cognitive dissonance, which is when people are uncomfortable if their actions don’t match their beliefs. If you do something kind for someone you don’t like, it's likely your thoughts on them will change to explain why you did that action.
To do this it has to be something small that anyone would usually do for someone they weren’t that close to out of kindness, then eventually they’ll use their likeness of you to explain why they do all these things.
The Halo Effect
With one obvious positive trait, people will assume you also have other positive traits, making them more attracted to you.
You could be known as having one strong trait like being the fastest to finish your work or being good at an instrument. Only one good trait is needed to make you stand out and because of this and their association with you probably having some other great traits they will see you as more attractive.
It's the same as when in primary school the fastest runner the most people like them would have even if that were the only thing they were even good at.
Misattribution of Arousal
Any source of arousal like excitement fear or thrill can be accidentally associated with romantic attraction.
A physical reaction to something like fear, like making your heartbeat fast can cause their brain to try and associate the feeling with other surrounding cues (that being you).
To do this just be around in engaging environments, shared feelings of excitement or fear can cause them to believe there is a deeper sense of intimacy. To do this you could propose to walk them down dangerous streets/areas, they’ll be scared and will probably have a physical response to their fear which they may associate with attraction for you.
Say for example, you are still chopped and wish people liked you.
Mate-Choice Copying (Pre-Approval)
People are seen as more desirable, if other people desire them.
Even if their partner is uglier, or worse looking than them, you’ll still be seen as more valuable.
For example, if you were to date someone uglier than you, it doesn’t actually make you seem worse looking. It instead will just put you in the dating pool. People will wonder why you’re with them, making you their mind as a partner.
Moreover, the person who has a partner is going to be considered someone who is more suitable for a future partner instead of someone who you’ve never seen with the opposite gender.
The cheat is dating someone you aren’t into just to date someone and be put as partner material to other people. Making them more attracted to you.
Like-Me Heuristic
Be like the person you want to attract. People think that people who are like them must be liked by them. That's why people say their partners are a female/male version of themselves.
To match someone, you could copy their style - If they dress a certain way, copy the style, and you can do ts without even talking to them, and they’ll still be more attracted to you.
Say if they like sports or hiking, then just make it obvious you like the same things.
The cheat is changing yourself to match the other person because most people want someone exactly like themselves, everyone thinks they are the most interesting person they know.
Complementary Theory
People are more attracted to people who have traits they admire because to themselves they are lacking that certain trait.
Sometimes people's insecurities are easy to spot, if someone's stupid and bad at school even though it's obvious they try, like when they get a test back they are disappointed instead of uncaring. They're probably going to be attracted to someone who is good academically because that's who they wish they were.
If someone is messy and unorganised they’ll be attracted to someone who is neater than them because that's who they want to be.
An insecure girl would be attracted to a confident male because that's who they wish they could be. Same way people glaze their sports team captain because they're the best on the team and they wish that were them.
To cheat attraction in this way, just notice someone who you're attracted to and spot their insecurity then just be the opposite.
Scarcity Principal
When you're too available it makes you less valuable. Instead, you can act like you're busy like when talking to someone instead of being the one to carry on the conversation till it's dead and gone, act like you have to leave before the conversation is completely over. It makes it seem harder to get your full time. People who are needy and always approach someone they're attracted to make themselves look like a creep who is unattractive, even if you're chopped if you act like you have more important things to do than to talk to someone they will want to talk to you more to make themselves feel better about being disregarded.
Eventually it’ll feel good to have you speak to them because it will assure them that they are worth talking to. Through association with talking to you and pleasure they will be more attracted to you.
Proximity Effect
When someone is familiar with someone they'll feel more comfortable around them. That's why sometimes you’ll see a guy crazy below a girls league, it's because they were friends before.
If you become a positive attribute in someone's life they’ll see you as someone whose safe and easy to talk to.
To not die in the friendzone make sure to never give up things for them that will only benefit them. For example, they could ask you to do their work ✘ If they ask you to buy them something ✘ if they ask you to drive them somewhere ✘
To do this properly you need to be a positive attribute while not being a benefctable attribute to them only.
Benjamin Franklin Effect
Make people do small low-effort tasks for you because after doing something for someone you automatically justify your actions and that justification would be something like, “I did this because I like them.”
It's based on cognitive dissonance, which is when people are uncomfortable if their actions don’t match their beliefs. If you do something kind for someone you don’t like, it's likely your thoughts on them will change to explain why you did that action.
To do this it has to be something small that anyone would usually do for someone they weren’t that close to out of kindness, then eventually they’ll use their likeness of you to explain why they do all these things.
The Halo Effect
With one obvious positive trait, people will assume you also have other positive traits, making them more attracted to you.
You could be known as having one strong trait like being the fastest to finish your work or being good at an instrument. Only one good trait is needed to make you stand out and because of this and their association with you probably having some other great traits they will see you as more attractive.
It's the same as when in primary school the fastest runner the most people like them would have even if that were the only thing they were even good at.
Misattribution of Arousal
Any source of arousal like excitement fear or thrill can be accidentally associated with romantic attraction.
A physical reaction to something like fear, like making your heartbeat fast can cause their brain to try and associate the feeling with other surrounding cues (that being you).
To do this just be around in engaging environments, shared feelings of excitement or fear can cause them to believe there is a deeper sense of intimacy. To do this you could propose to walk them down dangerous streets/areas, they’ll be scared and will probably have a physical response to their fear which they may associate with attraction for you.
Say for example, you are still chopped and wish people liked you.
Mate-Choice Copying (Pre-Approval)
People are seen as more desirable, if other people desire them.
Even if their partner is uglier, or worse looking than them, you’ll still be seen as more valuable.
For example, if you were to date someone uglier than you, it doesn’t actually make you seem worse looking. It instead will just put you in the dating pool. People will wonder why you’re with them, making you their mind as a partner.
Moreover, the person who has a partner is going to be considered someone who is more suitable for a future partner instead of someone who you’ve never seen with the opposite gender.
The cheat is dating someone you aren’t into just to date someone and be put as partner material to other people. Making them more attracted to you.
Like-Me Heuristic
Be like the person you want to attract. People think that people who are like them must be liked by them. That's why people say their partners are a female/male version of themselves.
To match someone, you could copy their style - If they dress a certain way, copy the style, and you can do ts without even talking to them, and they’ll still be more attracted to you.
Say if they like sports or hiking, then just make it obvious you like the same things.
The cheat is changing yourself to match the other person because most people want someone exactly like themselves, everyone thinks they are the most interesting person they know.
Complementary Theory
People are more attracted to people who have traits they admire because to themselves they are lacking that certain trait.
Sometimes people's insecurities are easy to spot, if someone's stupid and bad at school even though it's obvious they try, like when they get a test back they are disappointed instead of uncaring. They're probably going to be attracted to someone who is good academically because that's who they wish they were.
If someone is messy and unorganised they’ll be attracted to someone who is neater than them because that's who they want to be.
An insecure girl would be attracted to a confident male because that's who they wish they could be. Same way people glaze their sports team captain because they're the best on the team and they wish that were them.
To cheat attraction in this way, just notice someone who you're attracted to and spot their insecurity then just be the opposite.
Scarcity Principal
When you're too available it makes you less valuable. Instead, you can act like you're busy like when talking to someone instead of being the one to carry on the conversation till it's dead and gone, act like you have to leave before the conversation is completely over. It makes it seem harder to get your full time. People who are needy and always approach someone they're attracted to make themselves look like a creep who is unattractive, even if you're chopped if you act like you have more important things to do than to talk to someone they will want to talk to you more to make themselves feel better about being disregarded.
Eventually it’ll feel good to have you speak to them because it will assure them that they are worth talking to. Through association with talking to you and pleasure they will be more attracted to you.
Proximity Effect
When someone is familiar with someone they'll feel more comfortable around them. That's why sometimes you’ll see a guy crazy below a girls league, it's because they were friends before.
If you become a positive attribute in someone's life they’ll see you as someone whose safe and easy to talk to.
To not die in the friendzone make sure to never give up things for them that will only benefit them. For example, they could ask you to do their work ✘ If they ask you to buy them something ✘ if they ask you to drive them somewhere ✘
To do this properly you need to be a positive attribute while not being a benefctable attribute to them only.
Benjamin Franklin Effect
Make people do small low-effort tasks for you because after doing something for someone you automatically justify your actions and that justification would be something like, “I did this because I like them.”
It's based on cognitive dissonance, which is when people are uncomfortable if their actions don’t match their beliefs. If you do something kind for someone you don’t like, it's likely your thoughts on them will change to explain why you did that action.
To do this it has to be something small that anyone would usually do for someone they weren’t that close to out of kindness, then eventually they’ll use their likeness of you to explain why they do all these things.
The Halo Effect
With one obvious positive trait, people will assume you also have other positive traits, making them more attracted to you.
You could be known as having one strong trait like being the fastest to finish your work or being good at an instrument. Only one good trait is needed to make you stand out and because of this and their association with you probably having some other great traits they will see you as more attractive.
It's the same as when in primary school the fastest runner the most people like them would have even if that were the only thing they were even good at.
Misattribution of Arousal
Any source of arousal like excitement fear or thrill can be accidentally associated with romantic attraction.
A physical reaction to something like fear, like making your heartbeat fast can cause their brain to try and associate the feeling with other surrounding cues (that being you).
To do this just be around in engaging environments, shared feelings of excitement or fear can cause them to believe there is a deeper sense of intimacy. To do this you could propose to walk them down dangerous streets/areas, they’ll be scared and will probably have a physical response to their fear which they may associate with attraction for you.
Say for example, you are still chopped and wish people liked you.
Mate-Choice Copying (Pre-Approval)
People are seen as more desirable, if other people desire them.
Even if their partner is uglier, or worse looking than them, you’ll still be seen as more valuable.
For example, if you were to date someone uglier than you, it doesn’t actually make you seem worse looking. It instead will just put you in the dating pool. People will wonder why you’re with them, making you their mind as a partner.
Moreover, the person who has a partner is going to be considered someone who is more suitable for a future partner instead of someone who you’ve never seen with the opposite gender.
The cheat is dating someone you aren’t into just to date someone and be put as partner material to other people. Making them more attracted to you.
Like-Me Heuristic
Be like the person you want to attract. People think that people who are like them must be liked by them. That's why people say their partners are a female/male version of themselves.
To match someone, you could copy their style - If they dress a certain way, copy the style, and you can do ts without even talking to them, and they’ll still be more attracted to you.
Say if they like sports or hiking, then just make it obvious you like the same things.
The cheat is changing yourself to match the other person because most people want someone exactly like themselves, everyone thinks they are the most interesting person they know.
Complementary Theory
People are more attracted to people who have traits they admire because to themselves they are lacking that certain trait.
Sometimes people's insecurities are easy to spot, if someone's stupid and bad at school even though it's obvious they try, like when they get a test back they are disappointed instead of uncaring. They're probably going to be attracted to someone who is good academically because that's who they wish they were.
If someone is messy and unorganised they’ll be attracted to someone who is neater than them because that's who they want to be.
An insecure girl would be attracted to a confident male because that's who they wish they could be. Same way people glaze their sports team captain because they're the best on the team and they wish that were them.
To cheat attraction in this way, just notice someone who you're attracted to and spot their insecurity then just be the opposite.
Scarcity Principal
When you're too available it makes you less valuable. Instead, you can act like you're busy like when talking to someone instead of being the one to carry on the conversation till it's dead and gone, act like you have to leave before the conversation is completely over. It makes it seem harder to get your full time. People who are needy and always approach someone they're attracted to make themselves look like a creep who is unattractive, even if you're chopped if you act like you have more important things to do than to talk to someone they will want to talk to you more to make themselves feel better about being disregarded.
Eventually it’ll feel good to have you speak to them because it will assure them that they are worth talking to. Through association with talking to you and pleasure they will be more attracted to you.
Proximity Effect
When someone is familiar with someone they'll feel more comfortable around them. That's why sometimes you’ll see a guy crazy below a girls league, it's because they were friends before.
If you become a positive attribute in someone's life they’ll see you as someone whose safe and easy to talk to.
To not die in the friendzone make sure to never give up things for them that will only benefit them. For example, they could ask you to do their work ✘ If they ask you to buy them something ✘ if they ask you to drive them somewhere ✘
To do this properly you need to be a positive attribute while not being a benefctable attribute to them only.
Benjamin Franklin Effect
Make people do small low-effort tasks for you because after doing something for someone you automatically justify your actions and that justification would be something like, “I did this because I like them.”
It's based on cognitive dissonance, which is when people are uncomfortable if their actions don’t match their beliefs. If you do something kind for someone you don’t like, it's likely your thoughts on them will change to explain why you did that action.
To do this it has to be something small that anyone would usually do for someone they weren’t that close to out of kindness, then eventually they’ll use their likeness of you to explain why they do all these things.
The Halo Effect
With one obvious positive trait, people will assume you also have other positive traits, making them more attracted to you.
You could be known as having one strong trait like being the fastest to finish your work or being good at an instrument. Only one good trait is needed to make you stand out and because of this and their association with you probably having some other great traits they will see you as more attractive.
It's the same as when in primary school the fastest runner the most people like them would have even if that were the only thing they were even good at.
Misattribution of Arousal
Any source of arousal like excitement fear or thrill can be accidentally associated with romantic attraction.
A physical reaction to something like fear, like making your heartbeat fast can cause their brain to try and associate the feeling with other surrounding cues (that being you).
To do this just be around in engaging environments, shared feelings of excitement or fear can cause them to believe there is a deeper sense of intimacy. To do this you could propose to walk them down dangerous streets/areas, they’ll be scared and will probably have a physical response to their fear which they may associate with attraction for you.
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