How to escape comfort cage.

[Knight]

Title

 

[Knight]

I was never used to comfort It feels like I’m rejecting it but I can’t escape

 

[over0]

Key

 

[adore]

Exposure therapy and romanticism helps, probably

 

[Jess]

Shotgun in your palate

 

[Knight]

Shotgun in your palate

I wish but I’m too much of a coward to kill myself

 

[Sovvton]

Key

great banter

 

[Knight]

@Darkeningstar

 

[Sovvton]

I wish but I’m too much of a coward to kill myself

relatable tbf

 

[Knight]

@Nenestar

 

[Nenestar]

What worked for me (3years ago) was just thinking what my life would be in a few years if I were to go down the same path. Gave me a panic realizing the shit I'm heading towards.

For some people it's good to visualize what your future would look like if you don't change anything, and then visualize a future where you changed your mindset and have taken action. I'm currently in the same kind of a trap, acting like a schizoid would, total isolation and 0 drive to socialize. But, yeah gonna change that once my semester starts, as I'm realizing this past year I've essentially done nothing worth even to talk about.

So I would suggest you do that, at least. Then just trying to add some good habits that pushes you out of that cage. It's a hard process, but you need to know what you're escaping from, and what you're potentially striving for.

Some article that touches upon this "trap." It's a short read. locally optimal

 

[glamourpursuer 2.0]

it never gets any better

 

[eldritch]

Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.

 

[Knight]

What worked for me (3years ago) was just thinking what my life would be in a few years if I were to go down the same path. Gave me a panic realizing the shit I'm heading towards.

For some people it's good to visualize what your future would look like if you don't change anything, and then visualize a future where you changed your mindset and have taken action. I'm currently in the same kind of a trap, acting like a schizoid would, total isolation and 0 drive to socialize. But, yeah gonna change that once my semester starts, as I'm realizing this past year I've essentially done nothing worth even to talk about.

So I would suggest you do that, at least. Then just trying to add some good habits that pushes you out of that cage. It's a hard process, but you need to know what you're escaping from, and what you're potentially striving for.

Some article that touches upon this "trap." It's a short read. locally optimal

What if even being paranoid about your future doesn’t push you enough

 

[eldritch]

What if even being paranoid about your future doesn’t push you enough

Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.

 

[Knight]

Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.
Gloryholes? Where?
Shut your fucking mouth n****r.

If you reply one more time your mom is a whore

 

[Nenestar]

What if even being paranoid about your future doesn’t push you enough

I'd suggest taking psychedelics, tbh. And ruminate on that question under the influence. Will hit you like a truck.

That is if they're easy to acquire in your country.

 

[Knight]

I'd suggest taking psychedelics

Any recommendations?

 

[Nenestar]

Any recommendations?

I've only done Shrooms and MDMA. In studies it's been shown that both work great.

There's some afterglow after shrooms and you can introspect better, so I would recommend that.