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Does she believe that actions have consequences?
If she believes that her actions don't have consequences she is mentally ill.
Best example for this is a woman who dated different men at the same time or who seeks attention from different men at the same time.
Does this describe most women? Yes.
Why is this so important?
A mentally sane woman can get attention from one man and be happy.
You can let her do her own stuff without getting your frame tested since she believes that her actions have consequences and testing your frame is a burden on you.
A sane woman doesn't test your frame because she is not afraid of resolving incongruencies in your common relational frame by communicating them directly to you in a way that is effective.
Again testing your frame by communicating ineffectively is a sign of mental illness and again a sign that she is unable to be happy with the attention of one man.
If she believes that her actions don't have consequences she is mentally ill.
Best example for this is a woman who dated different men at the same time or who seeks attention from different men at the same time.
Does this describe most women? Yes.
Why is this so important?
A mentally sane woman can get attention from one man and be happy.
You can let her do her own stuff without getting your frame tested since she believes that her actions have consequences and testing your frame is a burden on you.
A sane woman doesn't test your frame because she is not afraid of resolving incongruencies in your common relational frame by communicating them directly to you in a way that is effective.
Again testing your frame by communicating ineffectively is a sign of mental illness and again a sign that she is unable to be happy with the attention of one man.
