How to fix perma soft tone? (voice)

[Nenestar]

I literally only speak in soft tone. I cannot express much intensity nor emotion in that way. I cannot shout or scream without being so conscious it makes me physically ill. Sometimes, when I played football I was randomly selected to do the "1...2...3" countdown so the team could yell, but I cannot even do that. Everyone was just a bit confused, as I cannot raise my voice like a normal human.

Every time I have to yell, even just my name, I cringe so hard it hurts.

But that's not a big of a problem, as I almost never have to do it. The problem is this way of speaking makes me sound extremely depressed most of the time, even If I'm not. It's just impossible for me to put energy into my voice without being hyperaware and dying inside. Might be a rare thing, I don't know. I'm just extremely uncomfortable doing that.

How can I even fix this, tbh? I've been talking my whole life this way, and I don't talk much anyway. I feel so awkward talking with more intensity, and everyone notices if I try, it's so obvious I can't do it like a normal human.

 

[milkjar]

you just have to practice getting accustom to speaking the way you want and expressing your self more, read aloud or sing aloud on your alone time, call a friend and try practicing your voice while speaking to them so you can get accustom to doing so with actual people

 

[dipenhydramine]

scream til ur vocal cords hurt maybe

 

[Deleted Member 77029]

take T

 

[Jeezy]

Blast testosterone

 

[Nenestar]

you just have to practice getting accustom to speaking the way you want and expressing your self more, read aloud or sing aloud on your alone time, call a friend and try practicing your voice while speaking to them so you can get accustom to doing so with actual people

Yeah, idk. I watched some old video of me when I was 8 years old, and I have this same way of speaking. It's so ingrained in me.

sometimes I have tried it, it's so unnatural, like people make comments about it, idk. It's so hard.

 

[Nenestar]

scream til ur vocal cords hurt maybe

Even thinking about this makes me cringe inside. I don't know would that help, and I don't have a place to scream, tbh

 

[dipenhydramine]

Even thinking about this makes me cringe inside. I don't know would that help, and I don't have a place to scream, tbh

pillow or forest

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Just deepen your voice on purpose and don’t care about muh cringe until you get used to speaking in that tone, that’s what worked for me

 

[milkjar]

Yeah, idk. I watched some old video of me when I was 8 years old, and I have this same way of speaking. It's so ingrained in me.

sometimes I have tried it, it's so unnatural, like people make comments about it, idk. It's so hard.

I had the same issue, but I fixed it by just calling people and being low inhib

 

[milkjar]

Just deepen your voice on purpose and don’t care about muh cringe until you get used to speaking in that tone, that’s what worked for me

I don't think it's about his voice being deep, it's about him not being able to speak up properly, it's the tone not the depth

 

[Nenestar]

Just deepen your voice on purpose and don’t care about muh cringe until you get used to speaking in that tone, that’s what worked for me

I have a low pitch already, it's just the "energy" I can't just put any without being extremely uncomfortable.

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

I have a low pitch already, it's just the "energy" I can't just put any without being extremely uncomfortable.

Yah I’m in the same hole bro, will watch the replies with you ig

 

[Nenestar]

I had the same issue, but I fixed it by just calling people and being low inhib

Yeah, I have to do something. Sadly I have like 0 friends.

With my family I can be a bit more comfortable, but even then it's so soft in tone.

 

[milkjar]

Yeah, I have to do something. Sadly I have like 0 friends.

With my family I can be a bit more comfortable, but even then it's so soft in tone.

you can practice with me bro

 

[Nenestar]

Yah I’m in the same hole bro, will watch the replies with you ig

I don't think there will be much, I lack the "aura" jfl

 

[Nenestar]

you can practice with me bro

Scawy

 

[milkjar]

Scawy

dw brah I had the same issue

 

[kapp747]

do gargles

 

[kapp747]

are you a he or she?

 

[apatheia]

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I literally only speak in soft tone. I cannot express much intensity nor emotion in that way. I cannot shout or scream without being so conscious it makes me physically ill. Sometimes, when I played football I was randomly selected to do the "1...2...3" countdown so the team could yell, but I cannot even do that. Everyone was just a bit confused, as I cannot raise my voice like a normal human.

Every time I have to yell, even just my name, I cringe so hard it hurts.

But that's not a big of a problem, as I almost never have to do it. The problem is this way of speaking makes me sound extremely depressed most of the time, even If I'm not. It's just impossible for me to put energy into my voice without being hyperaware and dying inside. Might be a rare thing, I don't know. I'm just extremely uncomfortable doing that.

How can I even fix this, tbh? I've been talking my whole life this way, and I don't talk much anyway. I feel so awkward talking with more intensity, and everyone notices if I try, it's so obvious I can't do it like a normal human.

Nonchalant smooth talker mogger.