Guide How to get better at socializing

[Lifemaxxing67]

Then don't interact with people and remain friendless I don't know what else to say either you accept the advice I give or you don't

yea thats a bbad option why cant u just admit masking can be hard doesnt mean people dont try they do its just not as black and white

 

[Blackpillirony]

yea thats a ad option why cant u just admit masking can be hard doesnt mean people dont try they do its just not as black and white

How is it masking ? All the guide can be resumed to "try to initiate conversations and find cool hobbies". Yes it's gonna be harder for some people more than others, doesn't mean you shouldn't try. You didn't even bother explaining how the fuck it was masking

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

Then don't interact with people and remain friendless I don't know what else to say either you accept the advice I give or you don't

idk why u cant admit masking cant be hard thats also a bad option people still try its just harder its not always black and white

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

idk why u cant admit masking cant be hard thats also a bad option people still try its just harder its not always black and white

srry didnt see my reply show up

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

How is it masking ? All the guide can be resumed to "try to initiate conversations and find cool hobbies". Yes it's gonna be harder for some people more than others, doesn't mean you shouldn't try. You didn't even bother explaining how the fuck it was masking

im not even saying what you said was masking, masking means the conscious or unconscious effort by individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) to suppress or hide their autistic traits and behaviors in order to fit in with neurotypical (non-autistic) society. back to what i said before where people have to mask around others they cant be themselves around

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

im not even saying what you said was masking, masking means the conscious or unconscious effort by individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) to suppress or hide their autistic traits and behaviors in order to fit in with neurotypical (non-autistic) society. back to what i said before where people have to mask around others they cant be themselves around

and you said find people you can which isnt always easy also just because somone says masking can be unbearable doesnt mean they dont do it

 

[Blackpillirony]

and you said find people you can which isnt always easy also just because somone says masking can be unbearable doesnt mean they dont do it

im not even saying what you said was masking, masking means the conscious or unconscious effort by individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) to suppress or hide their autistic traits and behaviors in order to fit in with neurotypical (non-autistic) society. back to what i said before where people have to mask around others they cant be themselves around

Then what the fuck does masking have to do with my guide

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

Then what the fuck does masking have to do with my guide

because u r****d i replied to a guy who talked abt it and said based and you said to explain which i did

 

[haha_ha]

I've noticed a lot of users expressed their personal struggles to socialize with their peers. I was like that too a few years ago. Here's some tips that may help users.

- Practice talking in front of a mirror, this way you can notice what's your body behavior when you're interacting with people and correct it ( For exemple : hide your nervosity if you're the type to shake your leg or to play with their hands a bit too much during a conversation).

- Improve your speech flow, nervous people tend to accelerate their speech which may make what they're saying hard to understand. Also learn to limit your usage of filler words ( "um", "huh", "like", "y'know").

- Try engaging conversations with classmates. Considering a good majority of users here are still going to school, "Arent you in my _____ class ?" is a good conversation starter to get things going. If no one comes to you, you can always come to your classmates and try to talk with them during breaks.

- Have an interesting hobby.
Nobody wants to talk with someone bland and uninteresting that seems to stare at walls for a past time. Since you can't tell people you rot on looksmaxxing forums all day, good hobbies to connect with people can be music, climbing, going to the same gym, sports or fashion. Try to bring it smoothly into a conversation by asking them if they share the same hobby.

- Add people on your socials.
Teens most often times use IG or Snapchat. I would recommend getting IG, haven't downloaded Snapchat personally. This way even when you're at home you can still interact with them. You can ask them for their socials at the end of a conversation to show you're interested at having further conversations.

Conversations are generally natural and spontaneous. All you really need is just to be yourself and share a bit of who you are as a human being.

I ain't no NT Emperor, I myself was diagnosed autistic. I however improved my social skills drastically since I first started HS. Hope this helps an user or two.

i will fucking kill you

for making this blue pilled slop

 

[Blackpillirony]

because u r****d i replied to a guy who talked abt it and said based and you said to explain which i did

My guide was never about masking, you take the advice or you stfu simple as that

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

i will fucking kill you

for making this blue pilled slop

just be urself pill

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

My guide was never about masking, you take the advice or you stfu simple as that

so why ask me to explain???

 

[Blackpillirony]

so why ask me to explain???

Nice ragebait, nearly bitten on it

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

Nice ragebait, nearly bitten on it

holy hell you for a fact asked me to explain

 

[Blackpillirony]

holy hell you for a fact asked me to explain

I know, now I am looking for the pertinence of bringing this up under my guide

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

I know, now I am looking for the pertinence of bringing this up under my guide

so maybe dont ask for people to explain bite this dihhh

 

[Blackpillirony]

so maybe dont ask for people to explain bite this dihhh

Explain the pertinence of bringing this up now. What the fuck does it have to do with my thread ?

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

Explain the pertinence of bringing this up now. What the fuck does it have to do with my thread ?

because someone replied to it saying that and i replied saying based and you got ur feelings hurt ater i explained

 

[Blackpillirony]

because someone replied to it saying that and i replied saying based and you got ur feelings hurt ater i explained

Because the n****r who replied is a bitch that keeps antagonizing me

 

[Lifemaxxing67]

Because the n****r who replied is a bitch that keeps antagonizing me

ur letting it get to u then

 

[Blackpillirony]

ur letting it get to u then

JFL, don't want to get too deep about it but it's quite the contrary