how to give up

[pompompurino]

i’ve already tried but distractions don’t seem to work for me, how can i finally just give up and lose hope on a person knowing i was the one that pushed them away twice

 

[slopslinger]

tragic situation to find oneself in

 

[pompompurino]

it’s not even like im avoidant either, im an anxious person and thats pretty obvious
but i got rid of them twice bc i felt too strongly for them i guess and i saw it going no where

 

[pompompurino]

tragic situation to find oneself in

even now i still feel hopeful but ive tried all i can and haven’t gotten any response

 

[slopslinger]

even now i still feel hopeful but ive tried all i can and haven’t gotten any response

elaborate, or just make amends to them you'll feel better

 

[fashist]

time is the only thing that helped me tbh
and deleting every photo/memory of them

 

[Deleted Member 82545]

time is the only thing that helped me tbh
and deleting every photo/memory of them

this + get a hobby, when i did it helped me forget them, time will also helps so just wait and focus your attention somewhere else / on someone else (though i doubt you’re in the right mindset for that)

 

[fashist]

this + get a hobby, when i did it helped me forget them, time will also helps so just wait and focus your attention somewhere else / on someone else (though i doubt you’re in the right mindset for that)

exactly, although its important not to rebound on someone else straight away because it just leads to more damage long term