how to know if your an oofy doofy

[milkjar]

how to know if your an oofy doofy and if your gf is actually attracted to you sexually or is just with you out of boredom, pity, using you as a rebound or whatever other roastie reason


try to figure what trait that makes you stand out and would make her want to date you

do you have an above average face?

are you tall?

are you rich?

if you genuinely can't find a reason why she'd pick you over other men, it's most likely over and she doesn't actually have deep attraction to you

I know this might seem like water but a lot of people don't stop to think about this stuff when in a relationship

 

[Sovvton]

do you think being above average in a stat is enough confirmation that you arent oofy doofy if your girl is high htb+?

 

[milkjar]

do you think being above average in a stat is enough confirmation that you arent oofy doofy if your girl is high htb+?

well in this case there would be so nuance, but I would still say you aren't a oofy doofy

 

[Sovvton]

well in this case there would be so nuance, but I would still say you aren't a oofy doofy

this has lifted a weight off my shoulders

 

[milkjar]

do you think being above average in a stat is enough confirmation that you arent oofy doofy if your girl is high htb+?

I'd say her social status is more important than her looks in this is the case, does she have a lot of followers on social media, large friend groups, lots of guys after her

 

[Sovvton]

I'd say her social status is more important than her looks in this is the case, does she have a lot of followers on social media, large friend groups, lots of guys after her

i was asking just in general bc id confidently say im above average in looks, height, physique and status

but none of them standout if you know what i mean, so i was wondering if above averageness is enough to not be cucked