How to love yourself ?

[Br4va]

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[TonyDr]

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Unironically not being obsessed by your looks and stay away from social medias, phones (esp selfies) and the mirror

 

[Br4va]

(esp selfies) and the mirror

My biggest problem

 

[hyperion]

Unironically not being obsessed by your looks and stay away from social medias, phones (esp selfies) and the mirror

You've continued to show me your competence.

Extremely good advice.

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Being self assured, and being extremely optimal are a juxtaposition - and cannot occur at the same time. If you feel unsure of yourself, divert your attention away from your identity - and you will develop padding to cope with your shortcomings with time.

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[Br4va]

Being self assured, and being extremely optimal are a juxtaposition - and cannot occur at the same time. If you feel unsure of yourself, divert your attention away from your identity - and you will develop padding to cope with your shortcomings with time.

So I need to take things slowly ?

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lol you can’t mark as solution

 

[hyperion]

So I need to take things slowly ?

Rather then multitask, compartmentalize.

Swap freely between self improvement and mental stability - especially on days that are emotionally taxing.

Never try to perform two things at a time, as you'll achieve a mediocre result in both faculties.

 

[Br4va]

Rather then multitask, compartmentalize.

Swap freely between self improvement and mental stability - especially on days that are emotionally taxing.

Never try to perform two things at a time, as you'll achieve a mediocre result in both faculties.

I’m trying

 

[trenghost]

I used to actually start loving myself once I got a friend group and was happy and shit but that all disappeared once I found out about looksmaxxing

looksmaxxing is both the best and worst thing that's ever happened to me in my life

 

[Br4va]

I used to actually start loving myself once I got a friend group and was happy and shit

Damn. How did you lose your friends?

looksmaxxing is both the best and worst thing that's ever happened to me in my life

Sure

 

[trenghost]

Damn. How did you lose your friends?

some drama happened between us its a really long story I don't really wanna explain it but basically this sub5 fat fucking f****t n***a in the group got mad at me for no reason so I crashed out at him back and I was the only one who got in trouble and was ordered to stay away from him by the school
I still fucking resent that n***a and everyone in that fuckass group they all turned their backs on me and switched up like fucking faggots

 

[xoxo]

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Ascend

 

[Br4va]

some drama happened between us its a really long story I don't really wanna explain it but basically this sub5 fat fucking f****t n***a in the group got mad at me for no reason so I crashed out at him back and I was the only one who got in trouble and was ordered to stay away from him by the school
I still fucking resent that n***a and everyone in that fuckass group they all turned their backs on me and switched up like fucking faggots

How old are you?

 

[Br4va]

Ascend

I will

 

[trenghost]

How old are you?

14

 

[trenghost]

shi was in 8th grade

 

[Br4va]

14

You’re going into highschool ?

 

[Br4va]

shi was in 8th grade

Damn bro I’m sorry that sucks. You should try improving yourself , get a job , looksmaxx , play sports

 

[aesthetixx]

set goals and work towards it, no other way around it. i go into suicidal territory when i have nothing to strive towards

 

[trenghost]

Damn bro I’m sorry that sucks. You should try improving yourself , get a job , looksmaxx , play sports

I'm fucking ass at every sport I play

 

[trenghost]

You’re going into highschool ?

yes

 

[Br4va]

set goals and work towards it, no other way around it. i go into suicidal territory when i have nothing to strive towards

Basically what I’m doing. Now. But I’m very picky and I can’t appreciate a process in the moment

 

[limo8]

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no idea mate im aromantic cant love anyone nor myself

 

[Br4va]

I'm fucking ass at every sport I play

You don’t have to do anything. Just try out the gym. Or go on runs


Little things to distract you. Also you could try making new friends

 

[Br4va]

no idea mate im aromantic cant love anyone nor myself

I don’t believe that you are aromantic.

 

[limo8]

I don’t believe that you are aromantic.

ye ye what you think then

 

[alacrity]

Nice

 

[aesthetixx]

Basically what I’m doing. Now. But I’m very picky and I can’t appreciate a process in the moment

you need to break the goals into really small tasks to keep up the motivation too. like i budget abt 2 hours a week just to fiddle with the tasks in the tracking software i use

 

[trenghost]

ye ye what you think then

gay

 

[limo8]

gay

ye ye i doubt i actually am i just like to look at attractive male bodies not to love them for who they are as a person i dont even want to touch them just watch

 

[xoxo]

I will

I really struggle with self love too but it’s been getting better ever since I’m not as ugly

 

[Br4va]

I really struggle with self love too but it’s been getting better ever since I’m not as ugly

That’s nice

 

[Br4va]

ye ye what you think then

I think you are either really heartbroken or you have never experienced true love and are an incel

 

[Br4va]

ye ye i doubt i actually am i just like to look at attractive male bodies not to love them for who they are as a person i dont even want to touch them just watch

I thought you were a guy?

 

[xalapa]

stay busy boredom is man's worst enemy.

 

[Br4va]

stay busy boredom is man's worst enemy.

Factos

 

[Br4va]

How to love yourself ?

 

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