How to not be hopeless

[yanciSoChopped]

I've been very depressed lately, I even fought with my mom because she gave me her terrible genes and I was just trying to make her understand that she's the reason I'm suffering because she brought me to this world where what you have when you were born determines where you'll end up.

This world are full of losers and winners. I think I'm a loser. From birth. I look ugly irl, I'm basically an orphan, I have no money, no friends and no clear plan.

I'm trying to change what's "wrong" with me, I'm trying my best to look less ugly, less weird but still no difference and I think I'll be like this till the end of my life. I hope not

 

[Br4va]

I really have no clue how to get out of this shithole mentality

 

[yanciSoChopped]

I really have no clue how to get out of this shithole mentality

Me too bro. I think once you come into realization, you can't unsee it

 

[Br4va]

Me too bro. I think once you come into realization, you can't unsee it

I think it’s best to just try your best in life and give it your all. If after your strongest attempt you still live like shit. Maybe rope idk

But I highly doubt it if you gave it your all you would end up in a similar position as you were your whole lfue

 

[tikitikiphonkenthusiast]

go outside and fight it, sometimes even if u think ur healed you'll still feel stuck but once u prove to urself otherwise ur brain will let u free.

 

[nicorags]

I've been very depressed lately, I even fought with my mom because she gave me her terrible genes and I was just trying to make her understand that she's the reason I'm suffering because she brought me to this world where what you have when you were born determines where you'll end up.

This world are full of losers and winners. I think I'm a loser. From birth. I look ugly irl, I'm basically an orphan, I have no money, no friends and no clear plan.

I'm trying to change what's "wrong" with me, I'm trying my best to look less ugly, less weird but still no difference and I think I'll be like this till the end of my life. I hope not

Just try to do as much as you can to better your personal self and try not to balen your mother for carrying out her biological function. It’s normal to want kids even if you aren’t genetically gifted. Do you workout? I had this mentality for a couple year until I started working out. Through the gym i’ve built a community of peers, rivals, and friends. And as someone who used to get daily anxiety attacks my anxiety has cleared entirely. I have gained confidence in things that have nothing to do with the gym and I directly contribute it to that. It helps with hormones, confidence and connection to one’s self, physical look, and overall attractiveness. The gym is the best option, but not always an option for everyone. Calisthenics are great and I practice them frequently, there are many free classes in public that help with social skills. Also turning away from toxicity online and in yourself can help you break free from this mindset. I hope you feel better soon bhai. Be confident.

 

[yanciSoChopped]

Just try to do as much as you can to better your personal self and try not to balen your mother for carrying out her biological function. It’s normal to want kids even if you aren’t genetically gifted. Do you workout? I had this mentality for a couple year until I started working out. Through the gym i’ve built a community of peers, rivals, and friends. And as someone who used to get daily anxiety attacks my anxiety has cleared entirely. I have gained confidence in things that have nothing to do with the gym and I directly contribute it to that. It helps with hormones, confidence and connection to one’s self, physical look, and overall attractiveness. The gym is the best option, but not always an option for everyone. Calisthenics are great and I practice them frequently, there are many free classes in public that help with social skills. Also turning away from toxicity online and in yourself can help you break free from this mindset. I hope you feel better soon bhai. Be confident.

I do go to the gym, just not very frequent because I'm broke. But when it was like my first time hitting the gym, I did feel motivated and people in that community are actually very kind and they always help me with my forms and give me tips. But yeah since I'm broke, I just invested in equipment and I just worked out in my home.

I tried to like fit in to people, like their humor, the way they talk and I'm bad with it so I just stay home and I'm always inside my room LDAR cuz I couldn't stand the pressure when I'm outside with many people.

Given that I have bad socializing skills, I low-key just iqmaxxed to make up for it

 

[Lmtnboy1748]

I've been very depressed lately, I even fought with my mom because she gave me her terrible genes and I was just trying to make her understand that she's the reason I'm suffering because she brought me to this world where what you have when you were born determines where you'll end up.

This world are full of losers and winners. I think I'm a loser. From birth. I look ugly irl, I'm basically an orphan, I have no money, no friends and no clear plan.

I'm trying to change what's "wrong" with me, I'm trying my best to look less ugly, less weird but still no difference and I think I'll be like this till the end of my life. I hope not

Be hopeless embrace the pain