How to not believe her reasons for breaking up with you

[Mogden]

for anyone here who’s gone through a breakup, girls follow a specific routine explanation for dumping you

1 - cold distance/dryness/disinterest
(Remember: “When faucet runs cold that means someone else is using the hot water”)

2 - “we need to talk” she either waits for you to say something about her recent behavior to dump you or she instigates the conversation.

3 - “It’s not you, it’s me” this is a cruel tactic they use to create confusing dissonance in you and turn you against yourself while they make a comfortable exit. It’s manipulative as fuck and poor excuse. She usually will lead up to this by commenting on your actions or behavior like they somehow triggered her to feel this way.

Most of you know this is water knowledge but it needs to be said: she does this because she’s a pussy and wanted someone else instead of you.

Now most guys fall for the trap of spiraling into self hate, fantasying about what could have been, the “gym trap”, and either putting her on a pedestal or demonizing her.

The truth is: what she did wasn’t good or bad. She just doesn’t care for you anymore if she ever did at all.

Women are opportunistic and manipulative creatures whether they admit it or not. It’s in their biology and learned societal values. This dates back to when they learned to manipulate their way out of arranged marriages and all that shit they went through.

You need to avoid the trap of blaming yourself for the breakup and thinking about what could have been.

The best way to do it is to track her next steps. If she doesn’t block you, check her social media, suppress the jealousy in you when you see her post stories at the club or with her slut girlfriends. You are the observing powerhouse who’s analyzing whats truly happening.

Most girls give it a few weeks before they let another orbiter into their inner social circle and dating candidates. Most start out as male friends if she isn’t a complete whore. This isn’t the case for all women though.

See the game for what it is. Realize anyone she gets with will likely be dumped just like you. Only then does the possessive clingy post-breakup sadness truly disappear.

Then you’re free to go about your life.

 

[Deleted Member 86475]

who hurt u bro

 

[Mogden]

who hurt u bro

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

Ik

 

[Newday]

This is fragments of truth mixed in with venting, I am not stupid.

 

[xy2m]

for anyone here who’s gone through a breakup, girls follow a specific routine explanation for dumping you

1 - cold distance/dryness/disinterest
(Remember: “When faucet runs cold that means someone else is using the hot water”)

2 - “we need to talk” she either waits for you to say something about her recent behavior to dump you or she instigates the conversation.

3 - “It’s not you, it’s me” this is a cruel tactic they use to create confusing dissonance in you and turn you against yourself while they make a comfortable exit. It’s manipulative as fuck and poor excuse. She usually will lead up to this by commenting on your actions or behavior like they somehow triggered her to feel this way.

Most of you know this is water knowledge but it needs to be said: she does this because she’s a pussy and wanted someone else instead of you.

Now most guys fall for the trap of spiraling into self hate, fantasying about what could have been, the “gym trap”, and either putting her on a pedestal or demonizing her.

The truth is: what she did wasn’t good or bad. She just doesn’t care for you anymore if she ever did at all.

Women are opportunistic and manipulative creatures whether they admit it or not. It’s in their biology and learned societal values. This dates back to when they learned to manipulate their way out of arranged marriages and all that shit they went through.

You need to avoid the trap of blaming yourself for the breakup and thinking about what could have been.

The best way to do it is to track her next steps. If she doesn’t block you, check her social media, suppress the jealousy in you when you see her post stories at the club or with her slut girlfriends. You are the observing powerhouse who’s analyzing whats truly happening.

Most girls give it a few weeks before they let another orbiter into their inner social circle and dating candidates. Most start out as male friends if she isn’t a complete whore. This isn’t the case for all women though.

See the game for what it is. Realize anyone she gets with will likely be dumped just like you. Only then does the possessive clingy post-breakup sadness truly disappear.

Then you’re free to go about your life.

yeah yeah whatever..
sing a song!!

 

[Ekte Eva]

for anyone here who’s gone through a breakup, girls follow a specific routine explanation for dumping you

1 - cold distance/dryness/disinterest
(Remember: “When faucet runs cold that means someone else is using the hot water”)

2 - “we need to talk” she either waits for you to say something about her recent behavior to dump you or she instigates the conversation.

3 - “It’s not you, it’s me” this is a cruel tactic they use to create confusing dissonance in you and turn you against yourself while they make a comfortable exit. It’s manipulative as fuck and poor excuse. She usually will lead up to this by commenting on your actions or behavior like they somehow triggered her to feel this way.

Most of you know this is water knowledge but it needs to be said: she does this because she’s a pussy and wanted someone else instead of you.

Now most guys fall for the trap of spiraling into self hate, fantasying about what could have been, the “gym trap”, and either putting her on a pedestal or demonizing her.

The truth is: what she did wasn’t good or bad. She just doesn’t care for you anymore if she ever did at all.

Women are opportunistic and manipulative creatures whether they admit it or not. It’s in their biology and learned societal values. This dates back to when they learned to manipulate their way out of arranged marriages and all that shit they went through.

You need to avoid the trap of blaming yourself for the breakup and thinking about what could have been.

The best way to do it is to track her next steps. If she doesn’t block you, check her social media, suppress the jealousy in you when you see her post stories at the club or with her slut girlfriends. You are the observing powerhouse who’s analyzing whats truly happening.

Most girls give it a few weeks before they let another orbiter into their inner social circle and dating candidates. Most start out as male friends if she isn’t a complete whore. This isn’t the case for all women though.

See the game for what it is. Realize anyone she gets with will likely be dumped just like you. Only then does the possessive clingy post-breakup sadness truly disappear.

Then you’re free to go about your life.

As a woman this is true

 

[Mogden]

This is fragments of truth mixed in with venting, I am not stupid.

Where’s the truth and where’s the vent

 

[Newday]

Where’s the truth and where’s the vent

It’s laced in venting

 

[azaire]

for anyone here who’s gone through a breakup, girls follow a specific routine explanation for dumping you

1 - cold distance/dryness/disinterest
(Remember: “When faucet runs cold that means someone else is using the hot water”)

2 - “we need to talk” she either waits for you to say something about her recent behavior to dump you or she instigates the conversation.

3 - “It’s not you, it’s me” this is a cruel tactic they use to create confusing dissonance in you and turn you against yourself while they make a comfortable exit. It’s manipulative as fuck and poor excuse. She usually will lead up to this by commenting on your actions or behavior like they somehow triggered her to feel this way.

Most of you know this is water knowledge but it needs to be said: she does this because she’s a pussy and wanted someone else instead of you.

Now most guys fall for the trap of spiraling into self hate, fantasying about what could have been, the “gym trap”, and either putting her on a pedestal or demonizing her.

The truth is: what she did wasn’t good or bad. She just doesn’t care for you anymore if she ever did at all.

Women are opportunistic and manipulative creatures whether they admit it or not. It’s in their biology and learned societal values. This dates back to when they learned to manipulate their way out of arranged marriages and all that shit they went through.

You need to avoid the trap of blaming yourself for the breakup and thinking about what could have been.

The best way to do it is to track her next steps. If she doesn’t block you, check her social media, suppress the jealousy in you when you see her post stories at the club or with her slut girlfriends. You are the observing powerhouse who’s analyzing whats truly happening.

Most girls give it a few weeks before they let another orbiter into their inner social circle and dating candidates. Most start out as male friends if she isn’t a complete whore. This isn’t the case for all women though.

See the game for what it is. Realize anyone she gets with will likely be dumped just like you. Only then does the possessive clingy post-breakup sadness truly disappear.

Then you’re free to go about your life.

Nah bro that’s basic
You don’t know the true male eater stuff fr..

 

[Deleted Member 87588]

for anyone here who’s gone through a breakup, girls follow a specific routine explanation for dumping you

1 - cold distance/dryness/disinterest
(Remember: “When faucet runs cold that means someone else is using the hot water”)

2 - “we need to talk” she either waits for you to say something about her recent behavior to dump you or she instigates the conversation.

3 - “It’s not you, it’s me” this is a cruel tactic they use to create confusing dissonance in you and turn you against yourself while they make a comfortable exit. It’s manipulative as fuck and poor excuse. She usually will lead up to this by commenting on your actions or behavior like they somehow triggered her to feel this way.

Most of you know this is water knowledge but it needs to be said: she does this because she’s a pussy and wanted someone else instead of you.

Now most guys fall for the trap of spiraling into self hate, fantasying about what could have been, the “gym trap”, and either putting her on a pedestal or demonizing her.

The truth is: what she did wasn’t good or bad. She just doesn’t care for you anymore if she ever did at all.

Women are opportunistic and manipulative creatures whether they admit it or not. It’s in their biology and learned societal values. This dates back to when they learned to manipulate their way out of arranged marriages and all that shit they went through.

You need to avoid the trap of blaming yourself for the breakup and thinking about what could have been.

The best way to do it is to track her next steps. If she doesn’t block you, check her social media, suppress the jealousy in you when you see her post stories at the club or with her slut girlfriends. You are the observing powerhouse who’s analyzing whats truly happening.

Most girls give it a few weeks before they let another orbiter into their inner social circle and dating candidates. Most start out as male friends if she isn’t a complete whore. This isn’t the case for all women though.

See the game for what it is. Realize anyone she gets with will likely be dumped just like you. Only then does the possessive clingy post-breakup sadness truly disappear.

Then you’re free to go about your life.

This will happen to you if she views you as an LTN, regardless of what you get rated on incel forums. If she leaves you and she viewed you as a chad the entire relationship, you’ll know 100% why she left.

 

[Mogden]

Nah bro that’s basic
You don’t know the true male eater stuff fr..

You mean the narcy shit?

 

[Mogden]

This will happen to you if she views you as an LTN, regardless of what you get rated on incel forums. If she leaves you and she viewed you as a chad the entire relationship, you’ll know 100% why she left.

Solid take

 

[Mogden]

It’s laced in venting

Ion see it