Serious How to not suicide while being ugly and what helped me.

[Cat]

1.Saving up for surgery and working an online job for most of my teenage years.
2. Playing video games and not overthinking about my looks now cause i will correct them in the future.
3. Going to the gym and fully taking care of my nutrition. Being lean made me happier im still absolutely cooked but made me feel good looking at the mirror that im not fat.
4. Accepting that people will always look better than you. There will always be someone who mots you to death and get more girls and money and everything just be grateful you have legs and you can get surgery.
5. Enjoying nature and not expecting relationships to happen. If you are ugly you won’t get sex and if you do they will dump you so have low expectations in life cause you are ugly.
6. Girls and Guys will treat you as an animal but don’t fight it. Just ignore them and keep focusing on fixing everything.
7. Find hobbies and interests you like and don’t let people judge you.
8. There is no one saving you so expect to do everything and life by yourself.
9. If you don’t have any get a pet and take care of them i got a cat and it was the best decisions ever.
10. Take risks with everything you have to take more risks than the average person and push everything to the max.
11. MOST IMPORTANT. Dont let people waste your time if a girl shows you a crumb of interest look in the mirror and ask yourself. “Can she love me for me?” If the answer is no block her and do this with everyone who wants to waste your time or fuck you over.

 

[hyperion]

1.Saving up for surgery and working an online job for most of my teenage years.
2. Playing video games and not overthinking about my looks now cause i will correct them in the future.
3. Going to the gym and fully taking care of my nutrition. Being lean made me happier im still absolutely cooked but made me feel good looking at the mirror that im not fat.
4. Excepting that people will always look better than you. There will always be someone who mots you to death and get more girls and money and everything just be grateful you have legs and you can get surgery.
5. Enjoying nature and not expecting relationships to happen. If you are ugly you won’t get sex and if you do they will dump you so have low expectations in life cause you are ugly.
6. Girls and Guys will treat you as an animal but don’t fight it. Just ignore them and keep focusing on fixing everything.
7. Find hobbies and interests you like and don’t let people judge you.
8. There is no one saving you so expect to do everything and life by yourself.
9. If you don’t have any get a pet and take care of them i got a cat and it was the best decisions ever.
10. Take risks with everything you have to take more risks than the average person and push everything to the max.
11. MOST IMPORTANT. Dont let people waste your time if a girl shows you a crumb of interest look in the mirror and ask yourself. “Can she love me for me?” If the answer is no block her and do this with everyone who wants to waste your time or fuck you over.

Your writing sounds like what a 13 year old thinks of an adult.

Please refrain from wasting peoples time in future.

Thank you.

 

[True_Fakecell]

Alternative method: Step 1. Be religious

 

[True_Fakecell]

Your writing sounds like what a 13 year old thinks of an adult.

Please refrain from wasting peoples time in future.

Thank you.

Once In a lifetime com user

 

[Cat]

Your writing sounds like what a 13 year old thinks of an adult.

Please refrain from wasting peoples time in future.

Thank you.

Im good thank you bro just writing my thoughts now your blocked f****t

 

[Cat]

Alternative method: Step 1. Be religious

Didn’t work for me but can be effective

 

[Deleted Member 123330]

1.Saving up for surgery and working an online job for most of my teenage years.

i wish i did this as a teenager

 

[hyperion]

Once In a lifetime com user

Everyone wants to be me - no one can have me.

Simply the most humble, at the top.

 

[True_Fakecell]

Didn’t work for me but can be effective

What religion were you. For me it has most effective method. Especially cause it's haram to kill yourself after puberty, was gonna do it then I realised I might have hit puberty.

 

[Cat]

i wish i did this as a teenager

Truly best way but it’s okay it takes time. Always make sure to not compare yourself to others we all glow up or do things at a different pace/time.

 

[Cat]

What religion were you. For me it has most effective method. Especially cause it's haram to kill yourself after puberty, was gonna do it then I realised I might have hit puberty.

I am orthodox christian well was now I am agnostic.

 

[hyperion]

Alternative method: Step 1. Be religious

Religion is for people who want to live a lesser life - confined by some human interpreted interpretations of god.

What religion were you. For me it has most effective method. Especially cause it's haram to kill yourself after puberty, was gonna do it then I realised I might have hit puberty.

If you need religion to not kill yourself - consider reading a book. A wish for suicide reveals how much you're yet to experience real life - as life starts the moment you move out of home.

Remove religion from your world view momentarily - and imagine everything you're yet to experience - and further imagine how much you're still yet to realise. An infinite death is the definitive answer to a question you should always ask yourself throughout the entirety of your life - as you progress through it, being: "what is left".

Suicide is never the answer, and acknowledging the origin of these underlying feelings is the first step to recovery.

@Zaddy000 - thoughts?

 

[True_Fakecell]

I am orthodox christian well was now I am agnostic.

Fair enough, I always wondered tho why do many people when leaving religion becomes atheist/agnostic instead of becoming deist/theist. Because the proof of god is there and it's very obvious. And I found most people leave religion because of the rulings of the religion. Maybe you don't even have to believe god is all loving but if you want serve your desires then being deist is logical at least. For me the only reason I could think of is the prophecy of the dajjal in the end times. Especially since atheist/agnostic belief is the second fastest growing. It'll be easy to convince half the world that you are god because of the "miracle" he is prophecies to perform. But I ask YOU as to why you believe what you believe

 

[Cat]

Fair enough, I always wondered tho why do many people when leaving religion becomes atheist/agnostic instead of becoming deist/theist. Because the proof of god is there and it's very obvious. And I found most people leave religion because of the rulings of the religion. Maybe you don't even have to believe god is all loving but if you want serve your desires then being deist is logical at least. For me the only reason I could think of is the prophecy of the dajjal in the end times. Especially since atheist/agnostic belief is the second fastest growing. It'll be easy to convince half the world that you are god because of the "miracle" he is prophecies to perform. But I ask YOU as to why you believe what you believe

I am agnostic cause I cannot prove god or disapprove it. In my personal opinion that’s the most logical stance on it.

 

[True_Fakecell]

Religion is for people who want to live a lesser life - confined by some human interpreted interpretations of god.



If you need religion to not kill yourself - consider reading a book. A wish for suicide reveals how much you're yet to experience real life - as life starts the moment you move out of home.

Remove religion from your world view momentarily - and imagine everything you're yet to experience - and further imagine how much you're still yet to realise. An infinite death is the definitive answer to a question you should always ask yourself throughout the entirety of your life - as you progress through it, being: "what is left".

Suicide is never the answer, and acknowledging the origin of these underlying feelings is the first step to recovery.

@Zaddy000 - thoughts?

Nah I'm sorry. For me if I imagine my life without religion then why should I not Kms. The things I've yet to experience don't matter to me. For every joy I experience there is suffering around the corner. Why should I experience it. With religion it provides explanation for the suffering, telling me that justice will be served in the after life and that this life is not the final destination but mearly a test/journey to the afterlife. For every joy I experience it is a mercy from god and for every suffering I experience it is a reminder that there will come a time where justice is served.

 

[hyperion]

Fair enough, I always wondered tho why do many people when leaving religion becomes atheist/agnostic instead of becoming deist/theist. Because the proof of god is there and it's very obvious. And I found most people leave religion because of the rulings of the religion. Maybe you don't even have to believe god is all loving but if you want serve your desires then being deist is logical at least. For me the only reason I could think of is the prophecy of the dajjal in the end times. Especially since atheist/agnostic belief is the second fastest growing. It'll be easy to convince half the world that you are god because of the "miracle" he is prophecies to perform. But I ask YOU as to why you believe what you believe

It doesn't become a matter of which god is real, but do my prays fall on the deaf ears on all non-existent gods?

There's absolutely zero proof of god - it is a theoretical concept that people can interpret how they choose. Bible suggests it has taken 6 days to form the world, but in accordance to what measurement of days? You can take what you please from religion - and if god is just a fallback in momentary lapses of confidence - then it fulfills its intended purpose.

 

[True_Fakecell]

I am agnostic cause I cannot prove god or disapprove it. In my personal opinion that’s the most logical stance on it.

I respect it even if I do not agree

 

[hyperion]

Retards will avoid intelligence like the plague.

 

[True_Fakecell]

It doesn't become a matter of which god is real, but do my prays fall on the deaf ears on all non-existent gods?

There's absolutely zero proof of god - it is a theoretical concept that people can interpret how they choose. Bible suggests it has taken 6 days to form the world, but in accordance to what measurement of days? You can take what you please from religion - and if god is just a fallback in momentary lapses of confidence - then it fulfills its intended purpose.

The most major proof of god that I found(not the only proof but this is the most simple one). It is the fact that everything has a cause to it, this phone was caused to exist by a creator. This planet was caused to exist through its formation billions of years ago, continue this till you get to the universe, I could say that the universe was created by a creator and you could say that creator was also created and you can repeat this for infinity. Logically if it was repeated to infinity then we would not exist because it would take and infinite amount of time to have been created. There MUST be and end to the loop. That end is what we call god. Then you can ask what are the attributes of that being that constitutes his existence but the attributes of god are for another discussion.

 

[tospakz]

or u can come to middle east instead of living like an ugly goy for 60 years

 

[hyperion]

The most major proof of god that I found(not the only proof but this is the most simple one). It is the fact that everything has a cause to it, this phone was caused to exist by a creator. This planet was caused to exist through its formation billions of years ago, continue this till you get to the universe, I could say that the universe was created by a creator and you could say that creator was also created and you can repeat this for infinity. Logically if it was repeated to infinity then we would not exist because it would take and infinite amount of time to have been created. There MUST be and end to the loop. That end is what we call god. Then you can ask what are the attributes of that being that constitutes his existence but the attributes of god are for another discussion.

There's no proof of a cause, only evident by a continuation.

Consider the big freeze - this can easily explain it.

 

[hyperion]

or u can come to middle east instead of living like an ugly goy for 60 years

Your affiliation with the middle east is growing old and tiresome. Try something new and exciting!

 

[hyperion]

or u can come to middle east instead of living like an ugly goy for 60 years

Your affiliation with the middle east is growing old and tiresome. Try something new and exciting!

 

[True_Fakecell]

There's no proof of a cause, only evident by a continuation.

Consider the big freeze - this can easily explain it.

What about the big freeze. A theory that says all energy will be evenly distributed across the universe.

 

[True_Fakecell]

or u can come to middle east instead of living like an ugly goy for 60 years

Mashallah brother pls explain to these kuffar

 

[hyperion]

What about the big freeze. A theory that says all energy will be evenly distributed across the universe.

Read it.

The universe condenses to a point, after heat dissipates far enough to attract matter to one point. The crushing force of this ends up creating some singularity that explodes and begins the cycle of the big bang theory.

Fuck you making me do all the work for.

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

Religion is for people who want to live a lesser life - confined by some human interpreted interpretations of god.



If you need religion to not kill yourself - consider reading a book. A wish for suicide reveals how much you're yet to experience real life - as life starts the moment you move out of home.

Remove religion from your world view momentarily - and imagine everything you're yet to experience - and further imagine how much you're still yet to realise. An infinite death is the definitive answer to a question you should always ask yourself throughout the entirety of your life - as you progress through it, being: "what is left".

Suicide is never the answer, and acknowledging the origin of these underlying feelings is the first step to recovery.

@Zaddy000 - thoughts?

Yeah religion is cope.
It is for people who struggle to live life without a larger figure telling them what to do. It shows a strong lack of individual pursuit of knowledge, critical thinking, and basic curiosity/questioning in regards to the world.

I believe we have both come to the same conclusion regarding the question of suicide: "What is left." But, you have seen this as a means for many more positive experiences. With the assumption that things will get better (which they usually do) then this would work. But in cases where there is a much larger chance that what is left is only pain and futile efforts to achieve happiness (quality of life), then suicide would be the best answer. The latter would be much rarer but many people are often stuck thinking they are the latter as mental illness is a bitch (as have I).

Good points though.

I admit the thread I made about wanting to "ropemaxx" were my drunken ramblings that had surfaced from my inner hopelessness (despite actively working toward my goals) and had a bit of extremity to them.

 

[Cat]

Yeah religion is cope.
It is for people who struggle to live life without a larger figure telling them what to do. It shows a strong lack of individual pursuit of knowledge, critical thinking, and basic curiosity/questioning in regards to the world.

I believe we have both come to the same conclusion regarding the question of suicide: "What is left" but you have seen this as a means for many more positive experiences. With the assumption that things will get better (which they usually do) then this would work. But in cases where there is a much larger chance that what is left is only pain and futile efforts to achieve happiness (quality of life) then suicide would be the best answer. The latter would be much rarer as many people are often stuck thinking this is gonna be so bad (as have I).

Good points though.

I admit the thread I made about wanting to "ropemaxx" were my drunken ramblings that had surfaced from my inner hopelessness (despite actively working toward my goals) and had a bit of extremity to them.

Can’t reason with mental illness sadly

 

[True_Fakecell]

Read it.

The universe condenses to a point, after heat dissipates far enough to attract matter to one point. The crushing force of this ends up creating some singularity that explodes and begins the cycle of the big bang theory.

Fuck you making me do all the work for.

I think you're confusing big freeze and big crunch. Both are just theory's

 

[hyperion]

Can’t reason with mental illness sadly

Refusing to read a well articulated thought, expressed by two separate users represents you as a r****d.

Waste of space discussing religion.

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

Can’t reason with mental illness sadly

Hard* but you must try

 

[hyperion]

I think you're confusing big freeze and big crunch. Both are just theory's

Forgive me for not knowing the exact name - but they infer the same thing.

Your excuse for religion is based on your inability to logically define existence any other way - i.e. the god of the gaps. Just because it can't be explained yet, doesn't infer it has some other deity that seems to defy all observed behaviors humanity has documented.

 

[Cat]

Refusing to read a well articulated thought, expressed by two separate users represents you as a r****d.

Waste of space discussing religion.

Keep typing buddy you replied to 3 messages even tho i had you on ignore

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

Keep typing buddy

DNR
@hyperion

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

I'm joking tho cat, I'm glad you found ways to keep yourself alive.
Proud of you for that, really takes effort.
Keep it up

 

[True_Fakecell]

Forgive me for not knowing the exact name - but they infer the same thing.

Your excuse for religion is based on your inability to logically define existence any other way - i.e. the god of the gaps. Just because it can't be explained yet, doesn't infer it has some other deity that seems to defy all observed behaviors humanity has documented.

Okay, till some other explanation is found I will remain religion. It was nice discussing with you, at least I have more knowledge on atheist beliefs so I appreciate you for that.

 

[Cat]

I'm joking tho cat, I'm glad you found ways to keep yourself alive.
Proud of you for that, really takes effort.
Keep it up

No need to lie but thanks

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

Forgive me for not knowing the exact name - but they infer the same thing.

Your excuse for religion is based on your inability to logically define existence any other way - i.e. the god of the gaps. Just because it can't be explained yet, doesn't infer it has some other deity that seems to defy all observed behaviors humanity has documented.

They say "absence of evidence isn't evidence of absence" but there is a myriad of evidence for the absence of all human gods it's baffling how one can reject all facts and choose to live in ignorance.

I'm personally a panthiest and have created my own philosophy to live by. There is no "god" we can understand. If there is, we would be irrelevant and the god would be incomprehensible.

But if religion works to keep you here, I am very happy for you. Good job in keeping yourself here @True_Fakecell
Sometimes things don't always have to be logical. I love logic but as long as you are happy I am happy another fellow man is too.

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

No need to lie but thanks

Dude I'm not lying. many of your points have genuine importance to them
Especially the cat thing.
I fucking love cats and getting a pet you love is probably one of the best ways to prevent suicide.

I will be following your points on saving up for surgery and not overthinking about my looks. They are great dude, why spend time worrying about something that you cannot change (keep up the hygiene ofc) and taking care of nutrition and gym is amazing advice.
Accepting people will always be better than you is AMAZING. This is prolly one of the most important. There are always bigger fish.
Spending time in nature is also elite advice.
Not chasing/expecting relationships does wonders. I would love to add being content with solitude.
And the best of all, there is no one saving you so expect to do everything and life by yourself.
Like everything on your list is great advice.

This post shows great self growth and understanding. Keep it up

I also don't fucking lie to people.
You're doing great and have based thoughts
Peak post

Hyperion should js jump in with his good thoughts instead of insulting you. Idk what that was for.

 

[Cat]

Dude I'm not lying. many of your points have genuine importance to them
Especially the cat thing.
I fucking love cats and getting a pet you love is probably one of the best ways to prevent suicide.

I will be following your points on saving up for surgery and not overthinking about my looks. They are great dude, why spend time worrying about something that you cannot change (keep up the hygiene ofc) and taking care of nutrition and gym is amazing advice.
Accepting people will always be better than you is AMAZING. This is prolly one of the most important. There are always bigger fish.
Spending time in nature is also elite advice.
Not chasing/expecting relationships does wonders. I would love to add being content with solitude.
And the best of all, there is no one saving you so expect to do everything and life by yourself.

I don't fucking lie to people.
You're doing great and have based thoughts
Peak post

Hyperion should js jump in with his good thoughts instead of insulting you. Idk what that was for.

Thank you bro genuinely means a lot. At first I couldn’t tell if you are being genuine or not but it was probably just my abused dog syndrome so sorry.

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

Thank you bro genuinely means a lot. At first I couldn’t tell if you are being genuine or not but it was probably just my abused dog syndrome so sorry.

No prob man

 

[Arc]

Once In a lifetime com user

He's a ragebaiter lmfao, larps high IQ using formal wording but ends up looking like a complete fucking idiot

 

[True_Fakecell]

He's a ragebaiter lmfao, larps high IQ using formal wording but ends up looking like a complete fucking idiot

That's why I said once in a lifetime com user. Retards like that are hard to come by nowadays

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

He's a ragebaiter lmfao, larps high IQ using formal wording but ends up looking like a complete fucking idiot

Definitely.
On my earlier post he made word salads with no actual message.
He can make decent points but overall he has extreme black and white thinking without nuance which weakens his arguments.
He also frames his insults as "harsh criticism," but real criticism that is made for growth points out the truths as well as encouraging the user to actually carry through instead of discouraging them.
He is capable of generating good ideas but they are often mean spirited and typed in a way that larps high IQ instead of trying to convey the message as clearly as possible.

@hyperion
You have potential to genuinely help others. Heed your own advice.
Some of your messages have content that could be of use, but you need to structure them in a way that makes the message clearer.
Being able to simplify complex ideas is the hallmark of intelligence
Also just stop trolling man, these are real people who need help.
This is what the server is for.

 

[True_Fakecell]

They say "absence of evidence isn't evidence of absence" but there is a myriad of evidence for the absence of all human gods it's baffling how one can reject all facts and choose to live in ignorance.

I'm personally a panthiest and have created my own philosophy to live by. There is no "god" we can understand. If there is, we would be irrelevant and the god would be incomprehensible.

But if religion works to keep you here, I am very happy for you. Good job in keeping yourself here @True_Fakecell
Sometimes things don't always have to be logical. I love logic but as long as you are happy I am happy another fellow man is too.

We don't have to agree on our beliefs, but for this life it's all respect.

 

[M1A2 Abrams]

We don't have to agree on our beliefs, but for this life it's all respect.

Yes. I respect you hella man. It takes strength
My mother is like that too. Religion brought her out of darkness and I am so happy she found light.
We may have different beliefs but you are a good person and I do not see you as lesser in any extent

 

[True_Fakecell]

Yes. I respect you hella man. It takes strength
My mother is like that too. Religion brought her out of darkness and I am so happy she found light.
We may have different beliefs but you are a good person and I do not see you as lesser in any extent

Thank you bro I share the same sentiment. I live by the surah where it says "for you is your religion and for me is mine"

 

[Arc]

Being able to simplify complex ideas is the hallmark of intelligence

Very well said

 

[Br4va]

9. If you don’t have any get a pet and take care of them i got a cat and it was the best decisions ever

Idk

10. Take risks with everything you have to take more risks than the average person and push everything to the max.

Idk why but this one is resonating with me most. I need to do thus