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Hypothesis how to stop being a neet loser?

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Kaari said:
Well ironically Christ got me out of being one, hence why I don’t shut up about it.

If you’re desperate enough prayer is always there, worked for me.
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hmm i’m not religious, my mom is a pastor and i grew up in the church

i could get into all the reasons but i don’t see myself turning to christ for help, though i still occasionally pray
 
I love NEETing, been doing it for few months now.
There are no good jobs for autistic men
 
benny said:
have you tried working remote? i’m in college but i make my money online, it’s pretty great i never leave my apartment

what
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You want acid to Be thrown on your Face
 
benny said:
hmm i’m not religious, my mom is a pastor and i grew up in the church

i could get into all the reasons but i don’t see myself turning to christ for help, though i still occasionally pray
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I understand completely, again I just had faith and it worked for me.

I lost everything and was at rock bottom and through faith in Christ I’m unrecognisable, this is the only year truly I remember I’ve been happy.

“Blessed are all those who wait for Him.”
‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭30‬:‭18‬ ‭

Definitely worked wonders for me, like man my life is so good now. I don’t know it worked but all I know is God got me through it.
 
submissivechud said:
They did, deleted though. Got a girl pregnant a bit before deletion which might have been why
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Oh man he’s really got himself in the mud, yikes.

Hope it still turns out ok for him but he’s going to be in the waters for sure.
 
submissivechud said:
mirin

Prayer or working on metacognition skills are very helpful for regulating emotions.
Would reccomend to anyone with internal struggles.
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Ironically my metacognition is a constant bane for me.

I wish I could live blissfully unaware of reality.

I have the awareness to recognise reality but lack the cognition to get out of the pain of the truth of it.
 
Kaari said:
Oh man he’s really got himself in the mud, yikes.

Hope it still turns out ok for him but he’s going to be in the waters for sure.
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Yeah I think he moved away.
Kaari said:
Ironically my metacognition is a constant bane for me.

I wish I could live blissfully unaware of reality.

I have the awareness to recognise reality but lack the cognition to get out of the pain of the truth of it.
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Mine helps me quite a bit, Ive come to terms with most things, I just focus on enjoying life.
 
submissivechud said:
Yeah I think he moved away.

Mine helps me quite a bit, Ive come to terms with most things, I just focus on enjoying life.
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I suppose I am a kid though so my philosophy might change haha.
 
submissivechud said:
Mine helps me quite a bit, Ive come to terms with most things, I just focus on enjoying life.
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I’m too aware to enjoy it outside of Christ if I’m honest, if I’m aware of a problem I must solve it. The problem is reality consists of a multitude of cruelty and wickedness I can’t handle nor solve, as a strong believer of justice it’s too much.
 
Kaari said:
I’m too aware to enjoy it outside of Christ if I’m honest, if I’m aware of a problem I must solve it. The problem is reality consists of a multitude of cruelty and wickedness I can’t handle nor solve, as a strong believer of justice it’s too much.
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Inequality is the perpetrator of injustice, it's only natural that the strongest will be the least confined by the rules. Attempting to support the weak is an admirable goal though.
 
benny said:
i could get into all the reasons but i don’t see myself turning to christ for help, though i still occasionally pray
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No need to be religious. Just try going to your churches youth group if they have one. Even if your not religious its important to have routine interactions with people.
 
submissivechud said:
Inequality is the perpetrator of injustice, it's only natural that the strongest will be the least confined by the rules. Attempting to support the weak is an admirable goal though.
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If only people held the same view of good and compassion as I did, I just can’t process a world devoid of empathy and compassion and it making sense, yet it does. I understand it but I physically can’t accept it.
 
Kaari said:
If only people held the same view of good and compassion as I did, I just can’t process a world devoid of empathy and compassion and it making sense, yet it does. I understand it but I physically can’t accept it.
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Some people may have the same compassion, but the lack of power leads to an inability to exert those emotions, you wouldn't tell a homeless man to give money to the poor of course. The world doesn't lack empathy or compassion, it's just that the majority of people able to exert their will have to throw away empathy to keep power.
 
Kaari said:
If only people held the same view of good and compassion as I did, I just can’t process a world devoid of empathy and compassion and it making sense, yet it does. I understand it but I physically can’t accept it.
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To top of that though I think I also share such a view because I lived in my imagination for so long.

Imagination was my escape for years and when I couldn’t ’live’ in it anymore my worldview shattered.

I know it’s very crazy but what is reality feels foreign to me and my imagination is my reality which makes sense to me, this is why my metacognition is a bane of mine.

I hate being aware and the brain overload which comes with that.

I keep thinking and I hate it, I really hate it. I always have to think and it’s paralysing really, really really hate this part of my life I will admit.
 
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