how to stop being a ppl pleaser?

[Chainsandwhips2]

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the only reason i please ppl well i only do it with ppl i care abt but the only reason i even do it is because im scared that they'll leave me

so how do you get rid of that fear

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

im just a dumb f****t

 

[TonyDr]

im just a dumb f****t

tbh

 

[TonyDr]

im scared that they'll leave me

Why they would leave you tho

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

Why they would leave you tho

idk, i just think that ppl secretly dislike me so i try to please them so that they wont abandon me or wtv

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

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why couldn't i be a sigma who doesn't care abt his emotions

 

[TonyDr]

idk, i just think that ppl secretly dislike me so i try to please them so that they wont abandon me or wtv

If they stick around you they don't dislike you. And if they do, no amount of pleasing is gonna solve that

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

why couldn't i be a sigma who doesn't care abt his emotions

Everyone cares about their emotions some are just better at blunting or hiding them

 

[fashist]

You please yourself

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

no amount of pleasing is gonna solve that

brutal

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

Everyone cares about their emotions some are just better at blunting or hiding them

how can u get better at hiding them

 

[Deleted Member 83631]

Life is just a dead body dreaming stop worrying too much

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

how can u get better at hiding them

U can either pretend they don’t exist or my personal favorite pretend ur an outsider watching yourself go through life like a movie

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

U can either pretend they don’t exist or my personal favorite pretend ur an outsider watching yourself go through life like a movie

2nd one sounds cool

 

[EggWhites4u]

Stop being a subhuman.

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

Stop being a subhuman.

impossible

 

[EggWhites4u]

impossible

Indeed.

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

@GoblinDirectorOfAnnoyance you're my only hope brah help a n***a out

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

bomp

 

[acketar]

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the only reason i please ppl well i only do it with ppl i care abt but the only reason i even do it is because im scared that they'll leave me

so how do you get rid of that fear

im just a dumb f****t

this thread is actually destroying me

 

[Ghoultune]

Because fuck everyone you only have yourself and I only please myself

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

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the only reason i please ppl well i only do it with ppl i care abt but the only reason i even do it is because im scared that they'll leave me

so how do you get rid of that fear

bump ig

 

[chronically]

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the only reason i please ppl well i only do it with ppl i care abt but the only reason i even do it is because im scared that they'll leave me

so how do you get rid of that fear

ur just gonna stress out if u worry too much. ppl who choose to talk to u everyday enjoy ur presence so just dont do any thing too stupid and they wont leave

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

ur just gonna stress out if u worry too much. ppl who choose to talk to u everyday enjoy ur presence so just dont do any thing too stupid and they wont leave

thanks for the help

 

[chronically]

thanks for the help

its gonna be hard to stop cs ur already in the habit but i ws the same way u just have to keep telling that to urself until u believe it and ofcc np