how to stop hating others

[nabz]

ok this sounds really dumb but majority of my friends r 10x prettier than me, and i’m completely sure my jealousy is making me actually look worse because idk how to explain but it makes me not want to put any effort into my appearance. how do i just find a way to stop hating them, or at least stop being weird around them, because

 

[roper.]

you think u grew out of it but hatred catches up to you someday, eventually. happens to the best of us

 

[nabz]

ok this sounds really dumb but majority of my friends r 10x prettier than me, and i’m completely sure my jealousy is making me actually look worse because idk how to explain but it makes me not want to put any effort into my appearance. how do i just find a way to stop hating them, or at least stop being weird around them, because

it puts a bad look on me because they constantly think i’m mad at them..

 

[nabz]

you think u grew out of it but hatred catches up to you someday, eventually. happens to the best of us

so there’s no way to get rid of it?

 

[Duchesse]

ok this sounds really dumb but majority of my friends r 10x prettier than me, and i’m completely sure my jealousy is making me actually look worse because idk how to explain but it makes me not want to put any effort into my appearance. how do i just find a way to stop hating them, or at least stop being weird around them, because

 

[giga.mia]

Been in this situation forever, all u can do is use it as motivation and try your best to hide your true feelings

 

[nabz]

yes yes i know my pfp is so cute

 

[nabz]

In this situation rn, all u can do is use it as motivation and try your best to hide your feelings

i’ll try it’s so difficult because one of my friends just can’t stop making jokes about me

 

[fatfuckingchud]

ok this sounds really dumb but majority of my friends r 10x prettier than me, and i’m completely sure my jealousy is making me actually look worse because idk how to explain but it makes me not want to put any effort into my appearance. how do i just find a way to stop hating them, or at least stop being weird around them, because

put effort into how you look why do you think theyre prettier than you

 

[giga.mia]

i’ll try it’s so difficult because one of my friends just can’t stop making jokes about me

What kind of jokes? Being the jester of the group is annoying i get it

 

[HeavyMetal]

gym + diet

 

[TFC]

ok this sounds really dumb but majority of my friends r 10x prettier than me, and i’m completely sure my jealousy is making me actually look worse because idk how to explain but it makes me not want to put any effort into my appearance. how do i just find a way to stop hating them, or at least stop being weird around them, because

I have a distain for foids, might be a falio... I look into it

 

[nabz]

What kind of jokes? Being the jester of the group is annoying i get it

just general jokes about looks, how she mogs me (she doesn’t even do anything related to looksmaxxing)

 

[nabz]

put effort into how you look why do you think theyre prettier than you

half the time i try, but they genuinely put 0 effort

 

[nabz]

gym + diet

i’m working on that rn

 

[giga.mia]

just general jokes about looks, how she mogs me (she doesn’t even do anything related to looksmaxxing)

The fact that that whore is unironically playing in your face like that is more than enough of a reason to ghost her

 

[fatfuckingchud]

half the time i try, but they genuinely put 0 effort

how do you know
if they put in 0 effort then you can start and easily fog them

 

[cl wannabe]

ok this sounds really dumb but majority of my friends r 10x prettier than me, and i’m completely sure my jealousy is making me actually look worse because idk how to explain but it makes me not want to put any effort into my appearance. how do i just find a way to stop hating them, or at least stop being weird around them, because

hating others originates from hating urself, find ur peace escape this shithole ruining ur life and friendships and be happy

 

[nabz]

I have a distain for foids, might be a falio... I look into it

i’m really confused by this sentence

 

[nabz]

how do you know
if they put in 0 effort then you can start and easily fog them

0 makeup, just shows up to school with bed hair, but i’ll try

 

[roper.]

so there’s no way to get rid of it?

actually im not even sure, as a kid i was really sweet to everyone, then ppl took advantage of it and ive experienced lots of bs which made me change when i was around 12? and then at some point i was full of hatred and knew nothing else, then it got better and i was sweet again and all, then somehow everything got to me after a while again. Well now im not really hateful im actually doing good so far, but i also cant help it and i just try my best to hide it. Letting it out made me feel worse, not bc i felt bad for sm but bc things from there with others just got worse yk so yeah i try to hide it and yk make the best of it.

cant really tell if it gets better 100% since its still a part of me now so ig its a cycle

 

[giga.mia]

how do you know
if they put in 0 effort then you can start and easily fog them

pretty people dont need to put effort in. Thats the thing

 

[fatfuckingchud]

0 makeup, just shows up to school with bed hair, but i’ll try

how old are you

 

[fatfuckingchud]

pretty people dont need to put effort in. Thats the thing

yes they do?? son what are you on

 

[nabz]

The fact that that whore is unironically playing in your face like that is more than enough of a reason to ghost her

i want to tbh

 

[nabz]

how old are you

15

 

[fatfuckingchud]

15

oh ok
then you can makeupfraud and become prettier

 

[nabz]

i

hating others originates from hating urself, find ur peace escape this shithole ruining ur life and friendships and be happy

it’s so hard to tho because my irls bring it up constantly

 

[giga.mia]

yes they do?? son what are you on

Pal have you not heard the phrase your beginning is someone else’s ascension? You really think shes complaining about friends of hers that she can easily surpass looks wise?

 

[nabz]

oh ok
then you can makeupfraud and become prettier

makeup makes me get pimples and my skin is generally on the clearer side, i just wear lashes half the time

 

[fatfuckingchud]

Pal have you not heard the phrase your beginning is someone else’s ascension? You really think shes complaining about friends of hers that she can easily surpass looks wise?

she said she doesnt put in any effort to her looks obv shes gonna be less good looking fat n***a

 

[cl wannabe]

i

it’s so hard to tho because my irls bring it up constantly

it doesnt matter, just act like its some words in the air

 

[nabz]

actually im not even sure, as a kid i was really sweet to everyone, then ppl took advantage of it and ive experienced lots of bs which made me change when i was around 12? and then at some point i was full of hatred and knew nothing else, then it got better and i was sweet again and all, then somehow everything got to me after a while again. Well now im not really hateful im actually doing good so far, but i also cant help it and i just try my best to hide it. Letting it out made me feel worse, not bc i felt bad for sm but bc things from there with others just got worse yk so yeah i try to hide it and yk make the best of it.

cant really tell if it gets better 100% since its still a part of me now so ig its a cycle

i feel like i’m in the second hateful stage of this cycle my primary school experience was shit

 

[nabz]

it doesnt matter, just act like its some words in the air

my closest does it daily

 

[giga.mia]

she said she doesnt put in any effort to her looks obv shes gonna be less good looking fat n***a

Ok for one thing I didn’t know she was fat

 

[nabz]

she said she doesnt put in any effort to her looks obv shes gonna be less good looking fat n***a

i said that but its more of a 40/60 thing, around Christmas it was way more of me putting effort

 

[fatfuckingchud]

Ok for one thing I didn’t know she was fat

i was calling you fat

 

[nabz]

whered this accusation come from

Ok for one thing I didn’t know she was fat

 

[giga.mia]

i was calling you fat

Literally where the fuck did that come from

 

[fatfuckingchud]

Literally where the fuck did that come from

my automatic insult idk

 

[giga.mia]

whered this accusation come from

Literally the only thing she’s doing is making assumptions.

 

[omgbbgg]

ok this sounds really dumb but majority of my friends r 10x prettier than me, and i’m completely sure my jealousy is making me actually look worse because idk how to explain but it makes me not want to put any effort into my appearance. how do i just find a way to stop hating them, or at least stop being weird around them

Ascend and stop seeing them as benchmarks or rivals, start looking at them for what they are, your friends, nothing more nothing less.

 

[nabz]

Ascend and stop seeing them as benchmarks or rivals, start looking at them for what they are, your friends, nothing more nothing less.

okay i’ll try this. thank you

 

[Fattiepattiecookie]

just general jokes about looks, how she mogs me (she doesn’t even do anything related to looksmaxxing)

omg this happens to me toooo

 

[nabz]

omg this happens to me toooo

idk why ‘friends’ do this dude, and then the instant ‘it was a joke calm down’ when you get slightly defensive

 

[TFC]

i’m really confused by this sentence

I hate girls

this might be making me uglier

I have to look into this idea a bit more

 

[nabz]

I hate girls

this might be making me uglier

I have to look into this idea a bit more

it might actually be, hatred makes you uglier but it is a natural emotion unfortunately

 

[roper.]

i feel like i’m in the second hateful stage of this cycle my primary school experience was shit

omds i get that, well depending on ur current mindset it could get better. But be cautious sonce its easy to fall back again. as long as you dont fall into self destructive habits ure gonna be fine probably. dont be friends with ppl u hate in the first place

 

[nabz]

omds i get that, well depending on ur current mindset it could get better. But be cautious sonce its easy to fall back again. as long as you dont fall into self destructive habits ure gonna be fine probably. dont be friends with ppl u hate in the first place

i guess it’s not that i hate her, i just genuinely hate her way of joking

 

[Fattiepattiecookie]

idk why ‘friends’ do this dude, and then the instant ‘it was a joke calm down’ when you get slightly defensive

LITERALLY OMG and then i don't oint out their defects bc i look 100x worse