yo girlsas a guy heres the blackpill truth: most dudes never get approached by girls. ever. its rare af so if you do it right even mid guys will be hyped and say yes to whatever (number hangout date). we get ego boost confidence spike orbit mode activated. but fuck it up and its creepy or desperate. heres what actually works from guy brain no cope
why most guys say yes:
- guys are starved for female attention. we approach 90% of the time get rejected half the time. you coming to us? instant win halo. even if youre not his 10/10 he thinks damn she picked me over chads
how to talk to us right:
- be direct simple warm no games. walk up smile eye contact say hey i saw you and thought you looked cool wanted to say hi. or whats your name im [name]. thats it. playful vibe helps like you caught me staring or something light. most guys melt cuz its flattering as fuck
- look good halo first. clear skin fit clothes smile posture. if youre attractive we say yes faster. blackpill: looks open the door but personality keeps it. if youre mid but confident fun we still bite cuz rarity
- ask about him show interest. guys love talking about our shit hobbies games whatever. dont interview just listen laugh compliment genuinely like damn youre funny or thats cool you do that. makes us feel high value
- keep it short low pressure at first. dont dump life story or flirt hard right away. get number quick like we should hang sometime whats your number? or add me on snap. easy yes cuz low risk
- body language open smile eye contact no crossed arms. lean in a bit touch arm light if vibe good. guys read that as green light hard
- avoid creepy desperate vibes. dont hover stalk follow around. dont text walls after. if he says no move on gracefully. most guys wont ghost if youre chill
do this and yeah most guys say yes. its a cheat code for girls cuz we do the work usually. test it in school mall whatever watch dudes light up. its over if you never try but approaching flips the script
whos tried approaching guys? what worked or bombed from your side? guys rate how itd land on you lol