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Guide How to talk to women as a guy in modern society

Quanky

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Im making this thread to hopefully inform men how to actually talk to women as i saw a thread that enraged me so much with the am mount of false info that goes against all of the rules when it comes to talking to women.

This guide is for talking stages and pre date whatever a date guide may be next if yall fw this one.

First of all experience at the end of the day is the best teacher ive done almost every single mistake possible when it comes too talking with women and everyone will or has been there so this is why i want to clear it up on how properly talk to a women too secure a date/relationship or whatever manner of involvement.

let me make this deathly clear there is a statement by a great quote that is bound to get women mad i know “never ask a fish how to catch a fish you ask the fisherman” this means women despite saying what they want know it isnt want they really want as they are ashamed of it but were on an incel forum so who cares.

The first general mistake men make when talking to a woman is sucking up to them. Your always there, always available (sure double texting once in a while isnt a crime) but this is poor game. Your constant availability shows them that not only are you not desired by other women (this leads into my next point ill be making) it also shows you have no ambition and aspiration's and finally it shows to her you lead a boring and life. All these turn her off too such a high degree putting you just hovering above the friend zone.

But dont worry theres such a simple fix and these can all be done in a passive state.

1. Leaving her on delivered/vanishing mid convo.
This takes advantage of how they think, this gives an awe of pre selection that you dont need her and can find another girl this pushes her to put in more effort/raise her intrest. Please please please dont come off as needy guys.

THE LESS YOU TALK THE MORE THEY WANT TO KNOW

The next issue is the guy being scared too say something outlandish. This falls into the roller coaster method. You want to sit there and act like shes just an innocent little flower yet women have far more experience then men at talking to the opposite gender than we do shes probably beyond used to this and sick of this.

2. Roller coaster method
This involves playing with her emotions this works irl as well. How you want to run this is by saying something genuinely rediculous but funny, then calm it down after (dont retract the statement) something like Ex) “Emily let me kiss your massive forehead”,”but anyway hows your day going”.


DONT BE REALLY WEIRD THOUGH i dont want to be the reason anyones behind bars so dont bring your incel shit into this.

3. Never let her get the final compromise
Not on some sigma shit though bro 🥲. This is a little thing that goes a long way in there minds.
Ex) you “im going to … on friday you should come” her “i can do friday could we do saturday” you “im not available saturday your just going to have to wait (whatever her name is)”
Something like that idfk what your doing or where your going but trust also shes very interested in you if shes willing to reschedule.

4. Dont be pushy
Brooo be persistent but not a fucking creep dude youll know when your being pushy if you monitor every action you take.

5. Dont take shit personal
Please if she doesnt open your message for a day or two, dont go into incel rage or become depressed (if either of these two are happening re evaluate your life gng) she can actually have shit going on so be sensitive most of the time its not even about something you said. She could be intimidated by the effect you have on her if you have good game. She could have some real issue that you dont want to touch on like a loss or it might be you if it is you unlucky you havent listened to a word i said.

6. Dont be someone your not
Dont appeal to her interest's if you dont give a shit about what shes saying as a man your meant to control most of the conversation. If you do like her topic indulge as much as you want though dont try to come off super masculine as shell see through that but its better than trying to be a feminine cuck.

7. Be opinionated/edgy
Im not saying support a mass shooter (cough cough elliot rogers fans you ugly chud truecel’s who will never go anywhere in life) but show off your opinion's make edgy jokes womens minds are ment to be flexible you can imprint your ideals on them if you care enough too (i dont so thats your choice) just dont be scared to speak

8. Have a fun life
Enjoy your life, constantly improving attracts more women. Travel see the world have FUN this will expose you to so many women and will give you more experience.

Its your guy’s job now to put forth what i said and actually use it, women control the narrative we see that with them talking about “i dont want to date a chad” it also is the same with “i want a nice guy who treats me right” dont be an asshole but dont be her little bitch.

Stop spreading blue pill bs on this forum guys.

- Quanky
 
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Im making this thread to hopefully inform men how to actually talk to women as i saw a thread that enraged me so much with the am mount of false info that goes against all of the rules when it comes to talking to women.

This guide is for talking stages and pre date whatever a date guide may be next if yall fw this one.

First of all experience at the end of the day is the best teacher ive done almost every single mistake possible when it comes too talking with women and everyone will or has been there so this is why i want to clear it up on how properly talk to a women too secure a date/relationship or whatever manner of involvement.

let me make this deathly clear there is a statement by a great quote that is bound to get women mad i know “never ask a fish how to catch a fish you ask the fisherman” this means women despite saying what they want know it isnt want they really want as they are ashamed of it but were on an incel forum so who cares.

The first general mistake men make when talking to a woman is sucking up to them. Your always there, always available (sure double texting once in a while isnt a crime) but this is poor game. Your constant availability shows them that not only are you not desired by other women (this leads into my next point ill be making) it also shows you have no ambition and aspiration's and finally it shows to her you lead a boring and life. All these turn her off too such a high degree putting you just hovering above the friend zone.

But dont worry theres such a simple fix and these can all be done in a passive state.

1. Leaving her on delivered/vanishing mid convo.
This takes advantage of how they think, this gives an awe of pre selection that you dont need her and can find another girl this pushes her to put in more effort/raise her intrest. Please please please dont come off as needy guys.

THE LESS YOU TALK THE MORE THEY WANT TO KNOW

The next issue is the guy being scared too say something outlandish. This falls into the roller coaster method. You want to sit there and act like shes just an innocent little flower yet women have far more experience then men at talking to the opposite gender than we do shes probably beyond used to this and sick of this.

2. Roller coaster method
This involves playing with her emotions this works irl as well. How you want to run this is by saying something genuinely rediculous but funny, then calm it down after (dont retract the statement) something like Ex) “Emily let me kiss your massive forehead”,”but anyway hows your day going”.


DONT BE REALLY WEIRD THOUGH i dont want to be the reason anyones behind bars so dont bring your incel shit into this.

3. Never let her get the final compromise
Not on some sigma shit though bro 🥲. This is a little thing that goes a long way in there minds.
Ex) you “im going to … on friday you should come” her “i can do friday could we do saturday” you “im not available saturday your just going to have to wait (whatever her name is)”
Something like that idfk what your doing or where your going but trust also shes very interested in you if shes willing to reschedule.

4. Dont be pushy
Brooo be persistent but not a fucking creep dude youll know when your being pushy if you monitor every action you take.

5. Dont take shit personal
Please if she doesnt open your message for a day or two, dont go into incel rage or become depressed (if either of these two are happening re evaluate your life gng) she can actually have shit going on so be sensitive most of the time its not even about something you said. She could be intimidated by the effect you have on her if you have good game. She could have some real issue that you dont want to touch on like a loss or it might be you if it is you unlucky you havent listened to a word i said.

6. Dont be someone your not
Dont appeal to her interest's if you dont give a shit about what shes saying as a man your meant to control most of the conversation. If you do like her topic indulge as much as you want though dont try to come off super masculine as shell see through that but its better than trying to be a feminine cuck.

7. Be opinionated/edgy
Im not saying support a mass shooter (cough cough elliot rogers fans you ugly chud truecel’s who will never go anywhere in life) but show off your opinion's make edgy jokes womens minds are ment to be flexible you can imprint your ideals on them if you care enough too (i dont so thats your choice) just dont be scared to speak

8. Have a fun life
Enjoy your life, constantly improving attracts more women. Travel see the world have FUN this will expose you to so many women and will give you more experience.

Its your guy’s job now to put forth what i said and actually use it, women control the narrative we see that with them talking about “i dont want to date a chad” it also is the same with “i want a nice guy who treats me right” dont be an asshole but dont be her little bitch.

Stop spreading blue pill bs on this forum guys.

- Quanky
Hey Where the white women at
 
Im making this thread to hopefully inform men how to actually talk to women as i saw a thread that enraged me so much with the am mount of false info that goes against all of the rules when it comes to talking to women.

This guide is for talking stages and pre date whatever a date guide may be next if yall fw this one.

First of all experience at the end of the day is the best teacher ive done almost every single mistake possible when it comes too talking with women and everyone will or has been there so this is why i want to clear it up on how properly talk to a women too secure a date/relationship or whatever manner of involvement.

let me make this deathly clear there is a statement by a great quote that is bound to get women mad i know “never ask a fish how to catch a fish you ask the fisherman” this means women despite saying what they want know it isnt want they really want as they are ashamed of it but were on an incel forum so who cares.

The first general mistake men make when talking to a woman is sucking up to them. Your always there, always available (sure double texting once in a while isnt a crime) but this is poor game. Your constant availability shows them that not only are you not desired by other women (this leads into my next point ill be making) it also shows you have no ambition and aspiration's and finally it shows to her you lead a boring and life. All these turn her off too such a high degree putting you just hovering above the friend zone.

But dont worry theres such a simple fix and these can all be done in a passive state.

1. Leaving her on delivered/vanishing mid convo.
This takes advantage of how they think, this gives an awe of pre selection that you dont need her and can find another girl this pushes her to put in more effort/raise her intrest. Please please please dont come off as needy guys.

THE LESS YOU TALK THE MORE THEY WANT TO KNOW

The next issue is the guy being scared too say something outlandish. This falls into the roller coaster method. You want to sit there and act like shes just an innocent little flower yet women have far more experience then men at talking to the opposite gender than we do shes probably beyond used to this and sick of this.

2. Roller coaster method
This involves playing with her emotions this works irl as well. How you want to run this is by saying something genuinely rediculous but funny, then calm it down after (dont retract the statement) something like Ex) “Emily let me kiss your massive forehead”,”but anyway hows your day going”.


DONT BE REALLY WEIRD THOUGH i dont want to be the reason anyones behind bars so dont bring your incel shit into this.

3. Never let her get the final compromise
Not on some sigma shit though bro 🥲. This is a little thing that goes a long way in there minds.
Ex) you “im going to … on friday you should come” her “i can do friday could we do saturday” you “im not available saturday your just going to have to wait (whatever her name is)”
Something like that idfk what your doing or where your going but trust also shes very interested in you if shes willing to reschedule.

4. Dont be pushy
Brooo be persistent but not a fucking creep dude youll know when your being pushy if you monitor every action you take.

5. Dont take shit personal
Please if she doesnt open your message for a day or two, dont go into incel rage or become depressed (if either of these two are happening re evaluate your life gng) she can actually have shit going on so be sensitive most of the time its not even about something you said. She could be intimidated by the effect you have on her if you have good game. She could have some real issue that you dont want to touch on like a loss or it might be you if it is you unlucky you havent listened to a word i said.

6. Dont be someone your not
Dont appeal to her interest's if you dont give a shit about what shes saying as a man your meant to control most of the conversation. If you do like her topic indulge as much as you want though dont try to come off super masculine as shell see through that but its better than trying to be a feminine cuck.

7. Be opinionated/edgy
Im not saying support a mass shooter (cough cough elliot rogers fans you ugly chud truecel’s who will never go anywhere in life) but show off your opinion's make edgy jokes womens minds are ment to be flexible you can imprint your ideals on them if you care enough too (i dont so thats your choice) just dont be scared to speak

8. Have a fun life
Enjoy your life, constantly improving attracts more women. Travel see the world have FUN this will expose you to so many women and will give you more experience.

Its your guy’s job now to put forth what i said and actually use it, women control the narrative we see that with them talking about “i dont want to date a chad” it also is the same with “i want a nice guy who treats me right” dont be an asshole but dont be her little bitch.

Stop spreading blue pill bs on this forum guys.

- Quanky
You don't talk to women, let ur aura speak for you. WOMEN LOVE MYSTERIOUS n*****s LIKE ME.
 
Im making this thread to hopefully inform men how to actually talk to women as i saw a thread that enraged me so much with the am mount of false info that goes against all of the rules when it comes to talking to women.

This guide is for talking stages and pre date whatever a date guide may be next if yall fw this one.

First of all experience at the end of the day is the best teacher ive done almost every single mistake possible when it comes too talking with women and everyone will or has been there so this is why i want to clear it up on how properly talk to a women too secure a date/relationship or whatever manner of involvement.

let me make this deathly clear there is a statement by a great quote that is bound to get women mad i know “never ask a fish how to catch a fish you ask the fisherman” this means women despite saying what they want know it isnt want they really want as they are ashamed of it but were on an incel forum so who cares.

The first general mistake men make when talking to a woman is sucking up to them. Your always there, always available (sure double texting once in a while isnt a crime) but this is poor game. Your constant availability shows them that not only are you not desired by other women (this leads into my next point ill be making) it also shows you have no ambition and aspiration's and finally it shows to her you lead a boring and life. All these turn her off too such a high degree putting you just hovering above the friend zone.

But dont worry theres such a simple fix and these can all be done in a passive state.

1. Leaving her on delivered/vanishing mid convo.
This takes advantage of how they think, this gives an awe of pre selection that you dont need her and can find another girl this pushes her to put in more effort/raise her intrest. Please please please dont come off as needy guys.

THE LESS YOU TALK THE MORE THEY WANT TO KNOW

The next issue is the guy being scared too say something outlandish. This falls into the roller coaster method. You want to sit there and act like shes just an innocent little flower yet women have far more experience then men at talking to the opposite gender than we do shes probably beyond used to this and sick of this.

2. Roller coaster method
This involves playing with her emotions this works irl as well. How you want to run this is by saying something genuinely rediculous but funny, then calm it down after (dont retract the statement) something like Ex) “Emily let me kiss your massive forehead”,”but anyway hows your day going”.


DONT BE REALLY WEIRD THOUGH i dont want to be the reason anyones behind bars so dont bring your incel shit into this.

3. Never let her get the final compromise
Not on some sigma shit though bro 🥲. This is a little thing that goes a long way in there minds.
Ex) you “im going to … on friday you should come” her “i can do friday could we do saturday” you “im not available saturday your just going to have to wait (whatever her name is)”
Something like that idfk what your doing or where your going but trust also shes very interested in you if shes willing to reschedule.

4. Dont be pushy
Brooo be persistent but not a fucking creep dude youll know when your being pushy if you monitor every action you take.

5. Dont take shit personal
Please if she doesnt open your message for a day or two, dont go into incel rage or become depressed (if either of these two are happening re evaluate your life gng) she can actually have shit going on so be sensitive most of the time its not even about something you said. She could be intimidated by the effect you have on her if you have good game. She could have some real issue that you dont want to touch on like a loss or it might be you if it is you unlucky you havent listened to a word i said.

6. Dont be someone your not
Dont appeal to her interest's if you dont give a shit about what shes saying as a man your meant to control most of the conversation. If you do like her topic indulge as much as you want though dont try to come off super masculine as shell see through that but its better than trying to be a feminine cuck.

7. Be opinionated/edgy
Im not saying support a mass shooter (cough cough elliot rogers fans you ugly chud truecel’s who will never go anywhere in life) but show off your opinion's make edgy jokes womens minds are ment to be flexible you can imprint your ideals on them if you care enough too (i dont so thats your choice) just dont be scared to speak

8. Have a fun life
Enjoy your life, constantly improving attracts more women. Travel see the world have FUN this will expose you to so many women and will give you more experience.

Its your guy’s job now to put forth what i said and actually use it, women control the narrative we see that with them talking about “i dont want to date a chad” it also is the same with “i want a nice guy who treats me right” dont be an asshole but dont be her little bitch.

Stop spreading blue pill bs on this forum guys.

- Quanky
be yourself
 
I agree with alot of this, one thing I don't agree is saying stuff like let me kiss your big forehead. It's leaning into negging terrotitry. It's a big nono. Also if a girl comes back to me 2 DAYS later u will just ghost her entirely unless she has a good reason to. It takes 10 seconds to send a simple message. Other than that I agree about not talking too much not being a creep etc.
 
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I agree with alot of this, one thing I don't agree is saying stuff like let me kiss your big forehead. It's leaning into negging terrotitry. It's a big nono. Also if a girl comes back to me 2 DAYS later u will just ghost her entirely unless she has a good reason to. It takes 10 seconds to send a simple message. Other than that I agree about not talking too much not being a creep etc.
i wouldnt say its negging you want to insult her in a funny but also risky way then calm it down after. I agree with the ghosting part as long as you dont take that shit to heart and move on its chill as if a woman is blatantly disrespecting you she never wanted you.
 

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