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Discussion Hypergamy isn't something inherently evil or even morally wrong

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Men get mad when women who have more SMV naturally exploit that fact to their advantage, If a MTB gets a chance to sleep with a Chadlite or even date one, unless you believe that it's morally wrong to sleep around, it shouldn't be viewed as a bad thing. Guys act like if they had the chance to sleep with a Stacylite that they wouldn't. Ugly women who shoot up high will be filtered out anyways for having high standards, and so are ugly guys by the ugly women because they don't meet that standard. Just a natural thing really.
 
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Men get mad when women who have more SMV naturally exploit that fact to their advantage, If a MTB gets a chance to sleep with a Chadlite or even date one, unless you believe that it's morally wrong to sleep around, it shouldn't be viewed as a bad thing. Guys act like if they had the chance to sleep with a Stacylite that they wouldn't. Ugly women who shoot up high will be filtered out anyways for having high standards, and so are ugly guys by the ugly women because they don't meet that standard. Just a natural thing really.
This one is going to grind a few gears
 
Men get mad when women who have more SMV naturally exploit that fact to their advantage, If a MTB gets a chance to sleep with a Chadlite or even date one, unless you believe that it's morally wrong to sleep around, it shouldn't be viewed as a bad thing. Guys act like if they had the chance to sleep with a Stacylite that they wouldn't. Ugly women who shoot up high will be filtered out anyways for having high standards, and so are ugly guys by the ugly women because they don't meet that standard. Just a natural thing really.
I just think most people that believe in hypergamy just need to improve their outlook due to a scarcity the higher up the looks spectrum
 
This one is going to grind a few gears
If they disagree, it's probably an incel crying. People fail to view other people's perspective and keep the same standards they used to hold on them
 
Men get mad when women who have more SMV naturally exploit that fact to their advantage,
what can I say, foids are soooo evil
If a MTB gets a chance to sleep with a Chadlite or even date one,
Cuz they want their looks match, it's a culture of cucking. They inherently become cucks
unless you believe that it's morally wrong to sleep around, it shouldn't be viewed as a bad thing
I mean I dont think the avg becky wants to be used, its more the GL dispose of them easily
. Guys act like if they had the chance to sleep with a Stacylite that they wouldn't.
They would but usually goodlooking people stick with goodlooking people in LTRS
Ugly women who shoot up high will be filtered out anyways for having high standards,
Idk what you mean by this lol
and so are ugly guys by the ugly women because they don't meet that standard. Just a natural thing really.
Brutal but ye its natural selection
 
I agree but I feel the same for ugly girls and a big thing is both of them don’t want their league and I have seen this first hand
Most truecel tier guys would kill for their looksmatch
 
Men get mad when women who have more SMV naturally exploit that fact to their advantage, If a MTB gets a chance to sleep with a Chadlite or even date one, unless you believe that it's morally wrong to sleep around, it shouldn't be viewed as a bad thing. Guys act like if they had the chance to sleep with a Stacylite that they wouldn't. Ugly women who shoot up high will be filtered out anyways for having high standards, and so are ugly guys by the ugly women because they don't meet that standard. Just a natural thing really.
Too long didn’t read 😭
 
Hypergamy isn’t just females it’s males too because lots of incels are incels because of themselves the look of females and males should be the same because on average girls and guys have the same rates
 
I haven’t seen it irl lmao an Ltn and a ltb don’t want each other because they are both to stuck in there standards
Leave your room and look out, it's quite obvious.
 
I haven’t seen it irl lmao an Ltn and a ltb don’t want each other because they are both to stuck in there standards
I saw someone who looked like Naomi Campbell with a guy who… I’m not being rude just wasn’t great looking to me but I can’t hate on either of them
 
Idk what you mean by this lol
Alot of women end up single because they rather dream than actual date their looksmatch and 'settle', usually ugly women who can't accept marrying and ugly guy unless he has other qualities but in the end, even if they end up alone and single, doesn't hurt human species
 
The fact that boys are not settling for their looksmatches at ltn level. They would if they could.
This is blatant lies literally straight lying lmao every incels I have talked to want more then they are capable of
 
Alot of women end up single because they rather dream than actual date their looksmatch and 'settle', usually ugly women who can't accept marrying and ugly guy unless he has other qualities but in the end, even if they end up alone and single, doesn't hurt human species
No they end up single because guys just do stupid things sometimes speaking from experience
 
Hypergamy isn’t just females it’s males too because lots of incels are incels because of themselves the look of females and males should be the same because on average girls and guys have the same rates
Also Alot of women underrate men heavily and that makes them shoot up way out of their league and failing miserably, either way, people with bad genetics continue to be filtered out and that's the natural way it is since dawn of time.
 
Also Alot of women underrate men heavily and that makes them shoot up way out of their league and failing miserably, either way, people with bad genetics continue to be filtered out and that's the natural way it is since dawn of time.
Literally what im saying here
 
Where is the cope I’m not an incel fucking moron
Coping that hypergamy isn't real and that boys are opting out of the game in same levels as women on that looks-level. You must be retarded to think that.
 
you cant blame women no matter how they look to only want the best lookswise, its just how they naturally operate, women will always find a way no matter what to be with a man way above her looksmatch, always happens
 
Coping that hypergamy isn't real and that boys are opting out of the game in same levels as women on that looks-level. You must be retarded to think that.
No you aren’t understanding what I’m saying I’m saying hypergamy is a two way thing due to people shooting above there league and failing miserably but it’s not limited to gender
 
you cant blame women no matter how they look to only want the best lookswise, its just how they naturally operate, women will always find a way no matter what to be with a man way above her looksmatch, always happens
Exactly
 
No they end up single because guys just do stupid things sometimes speaking from experience
Saying guys or girls do stupid things as the reason people end up old and single is stupid, both genders do stupid things and across all looks ranges, I'd argue that better looking people although having evidence supporting them being smarter usually, their lower inhib and positive reinforcement they get from others causes them to take more risks. Alot of men end up single cuz no woman wants them, alot of women end up single because they believe they deserve someone way above their league and end up not clicking back into reality
 
you cant blame women no matter how they look to only want the best lookswise, its just how they naturally operate, women will always find a way no matter what to be with a man way above her looksmatch, always happens
Both genders want the best they get, what this thread's goal is to say that hypergamy isn't something bad, it's natural
 
Saying guys or girls do stupid things as the reason people end up old and single is stupid, both genders do stupid things and across all looks ranges, I'd argue that better looking people although having evidence supporting them being smarter usually, their lower inhib and positive reinforcement they get from others causes them to take more risks. Alot of men end up single cuz no woman wants them, alot of women end up single because they believe they deserve someone way above their league and end up not clicking back into reality
In my opinion with this whole looksmaxxing thing, do people think it works irl? I mean both genders are getting ghosted, people being fake on social media, people lying to get dates etc. Now I don’t know if you would think the guy I dated was out of my league, but if someone told you they wanted a relationship for ages and at the end of it lied, isn’t that just being stupid? They could have been honest in the first place
 
No you aren’t understanding what I’m saying I’m saying hypergamy is a two way thing due to people shooting above there league and failing miserably but it’s not limited to gender
wtf are you even saying? Do you look outside or anywhere? Guys really want a relationship, and no, they're not only settling for mtb+ if they're ltn. They'll take almost anything at that level.
 
wtf are you even saying? Do you look outside or anywhere? Guys really want a relationship, and no, they're not only settling for mtb+ if they're ltn. They'll take almost anything at that level.
You are being so blatantly delusional it’s so unreal
 
You are being so blatantly delusional it’s so unreal
Yeah, there is 0 asymmetry in the dating market. Guys are just being too picky in LTN level, btw. You're right. I'll leave this discussion here, nothing to gain.
 
In my opinion with this whole looksmaxxing thing, do people think it works irl? I mean both genders are getting ghosted, people being fake on social media, people lying to get dates etc. Now I don’t know if you would think the guy I dated was out of my league, but if someone told you they wanted a relationship for ages and at the end of it lied, isn’t that just being stupid? They could have been honest in the first place
Well i do agree on the last point, Alot of people cry and whine saying they just want love and would be fine with anyone are just forgetting the hope that they're giving to people who they wouldn't date. And as for the ghosting thing, most of the time happens because someone finds a better option. You could test the theory yourself, i made a graph on the looks levels people in my class were dating when they were getting the most compliments and attention and you could see that at times when they had their egos inflated and had more options vs when they weren't, you'd notice that when they have more options, ghosting is more common
 
I haven’t really taken the blackpill because my friend is casually dating someone irl with no makeup on, doesn’t do anything etc and he still wants to casually date others in different looks so my question is, what do people mean by this as in how will being really good looking achieve most things?
 
I don’t really care tbh, DNR. Gold ig for effort
 
Well i do agree on the last point, Alot of people cry and whine saying they just want love and would be fine with anyone are just forgetting the hope that they're giving to people who they wouldn't date. And as for the ghosting thing, most of the time happens because someone finds a better option. You could test the theory yourself, i made a graph on the looks levels people in my class were dating when they were getting the most compliments and attention and you could see that at times when they had their egos inflated and had more options vs when they weren't, you'd notice that when they have more options, ghosting is more common
But how would you know if the person has more options on dating apps? I got ghosted after 7 months by someone after what happened with another guy even though I explained it and he just replied ‘’Don’t worry’’ so I stopped caring but he constantly wanted to meet up
 
I haven’t really taken the blackpill because my friend is casually dating someone irl with no makeup on, doesn’t do anything etc and he still wants to casually date others in different looks so my question is, what do people mean by this as in how will being really good looking achieve most things?
Anecdotes are a bad form of evidence for an argument, and yeah halo effect is huge but that's water
 
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Anecdotes are a bad form of evidence for an argument, and yeah halo effect is huge but that's water
But from what I’m seeing irl is that people don’t really care about blackpill? So let me get this right, this blackpill thing is where you have to be extremely attractive to get a partner otherwise you won’t get a partner? I don’t know
 
But how would you know if the person has more options on dating apps? I got ghosted after 7 months by someone after what happened with another guy even though I explained it and he just replied ‘’Don’t worry’’ so I stopped caring but he constantly wanted to meet up
Well although i didn't have access to all the data i had enough to see a pattern, people irl vent to me alot even on here for some reason even when nothing i say is comforting lol, either way, i just compared the attention they had at certain points in time with the amount of women they bragged about talking to, and with the amount of girls in class gossiping about what happend between them and the subject
 
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But from what I’m seeing irl is that people don’t really care about blackpill? So let me get this right, this blackpill thing is where you have to be extremely attractive to get a partner otherwise you won’t get a partner? I don’t know
Blackpill isn't that, everyone agrees that pretty privilege is a thing, just that people don't understand how much it matters, bp emphasizes the importance of looks, and as for the finding partner thing it works based on SMV, looks and status are into this, so someone could basically get a partner anyways with enough status
 

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