I’m envious

[fashist]

Of those who show empathy towards everyone regardless of their relationship with them and whether it benefits them or not
Naturally i do but it’s diminished over the years
I’m still naive and tend to trust people way too often
I’m just so shocked on how some people can get done so dirty and still have this trait
I just wanted to post a thread idc that much but are any of you like that and if you are does it make you feel stupid

 

[Deleted Member 80538]

Being nice is a weakness

 

[Shkypot]

Being nice is a weakness

“to be strong is to be kind”

 

[America]

Being nice is a weakness

So sigma my baka

 

[Chifuyu]

I thought you were fashist?

 

[Chifuyu]

Of those who show empathy towards everyone regardless of their relationship with them and whether it benefits them or not

Ohhh that’s highkey me ngl

 

[fashist]

Ohhh that’s highkey me ngl

i admire you
is it ur birthday today?

 

[Huntergirl]

I usually treat people exactly how they treat me tbh but most of the time I’m not the type to go out of my way for others unless I actually like them and then I’ll put in effort even if they don’t match it

 

[Chifuyu]

i admire you
is it ur birthday today?

Yes it is! I don’t celebrate it though haha. And thanks for the nice words! What you are describing seems like selfless. But I don’t think it’s natural or normal to be like this. So I’m weird for being like that.

 

[Chifuyu]

I usually treat people exactly how they treat me tbh but most of the time I’m not the type to go out of my way for others unless I actually like them and then I’ll put in effort even if they don’t match it

Yeah, that’s my motto. “Return the energy you’re given.” If someone’s nice, I’m nice. If someone’s rude, either I’m rude or avoid interacting.

I have gone out of my way before but it’s not something I would recommend doing. It can make you feel unwanted, even as a friend. So I don’t do it anymore. But it depends on the context. I had a falling out for example, they were mad at me for something (even though my intentions were good) and I’ve not talked to them since. However, if they were to say hi to me, I’d probably give them a big hug lol, but they hate me anyway.

 

[fashist]

Yes it is! I don’t celebrate it though haha. And thanks for the nice words! What you are describing seems like selfless. But I don’t think it’s natural or normal to be like this. So I’m weird for being like that.

you aren’t weird at all
happy birthday! i hope you enjoy it even though it may seem like any other day for you
treat yourself with something you like doing

 

[Chifuyu]

you aren’t weird at all
happy birthday! i hope you enjoy it even though it may seem like any other day for you
treat yourself with something you like doing

Thanks fashy. I think I’m gonna order sushi today and watch that one Japanese romcom I always watch. But ngl it kinda makes me sad as well because the actor roped at 30. I watched the movie first when I was 25, and now I’m the same age. Feels weird outliving someone who was supposed to be older than you.

 

[fashist]

Thanks fashy. I think I’m gonna order sushi today and watch that one Japanese romcom I always watch. But ngl it kinda makes me sad as well because the actor roped at 30. I watched the movie first when I was 25, and now I’m the same age. Feels weird outliving someone who was supposed to be older than you.

What’s the movie about?
Damn
Don’t be sad about it, rather be grateful
Why did he even rope? did he leave anything behind

 

[Chifuyu]

What’s the movie about?
Damn
Don’t be sad about it, rather be grateful
Why did he even rope? did he leave anything behind

It’s a live-action of a manga/anime haha. It mostly takes place in a school and I always liked school settings, back when I was younger I liked it from a student POV but now I look at it from a teacher POV since I am studying to become a teacher. I don’t know why he roped, there are conflicting reports; maybe he felt lonely, maybe he realized he was unable to achieve his dreams because he spent too much time to try and please others instead of following his own dreams. I looked into him and he was a really nice guy from what I can tell. It sucks when someone ropes, but it’s 100x worse when it’s a genuinely nice person. Always smiling, too. It’s always the types that you never expect to do it.

 

[Starlet]

I believe in an eye for an eye personally. I’m the kind of person where if I feel like I’m not wanted I’ll just leave. You don’t have to stay with someone after they did you dirty and you don’t have to forgive or forget. Like I don’t really believe in 2nd chances and a lot of people call me cold for that but it’s usually what’s best for your well-being. Like why would I would sympathize when you never gave a damn?

 

[fashist]

It’s a live-action of a manga/anime haha. It mostly takes place in a school and I always liked school settings, back when I was younger I liked it from a student POV but now I look at it from a teacher POV since I am studying to become a teacher. I don’t know why he roped, there are conflicting reports; maybe he felt lonely, maybe he realized he was unable to achieve his dreams because he spent too much time to try and please others instead of following his own dreams. I looked into him and he was a really nice guy from what I can tell. It sucks when someone ropes, but it’s 100x worse when it’s a genuinely nice person. Always smiling, too. It’s always the types that you never expect to do it.

yeah i think a lot of people tend to just always assume someone’s happy based on their actions towards others
which is obviously not always the case
wow you’re studying to become a teacher? good job, youre trying harder than most people on these forums, and im proud of you
i really admire u tbh, you spend all this time on forums around negative people yet you still continue to be nice and helpful
what’s the movie called btw?

 

[fashist]

I believe in an eye for an eye personally. I’m the kind of person where if I feel like I’m not wanted I’ll just leave. You don’t have to stay with someone after they did you dirty and you don’t have to forgive or forget. Like I don’t really believe in 2nd chances and a lot of people call me cold for that but it’s usually what’s best for your well-being. Like why would I would sympathize when you never gave a damn?

that’s true
most people are nice to me from the beginning, i’m usually the one to fuck things up and make them dislike me
most people give me second chances as well, i never really learn
so it’s kinda a shock when someone actually puts me in my place and leaves me behind

 

[Chifuyu]

yeah i think a lot of people tend to just always assume someone’s happy based on their actions towards others
which is obviously not always the case
wow you’re studying to become a teacher? good job, youre trying harder than most people on these forums, and im proud of you
i really admire u tbh, you spend all this time on forums around negative people yet you still continue to be nice and helpful
what’s the movie called btw?

Yeah, exactly. They just look at what they see, and don’t really understand what’s going on underneath all that. But then you’ve got the stubborn type of people who never ask for help. He was definitely one of those guys. And I’m one of those guys as well. Not because of “toxic masculinity,” I just knew nobody for example could fix my problems. Therefore there’s no point in asking for help, because they are unable to help anyway. And I also thought I didn’t need to talk about it. But I was very wrong about that. That’s why I felt lonely for so long, though I didn’t realize it at the time. And thank you very much for the nice words and the support. I appreciate it. Yes! I’m studying to become a teacher, I started in late August. What about you, what are you doing in life? Any goals you’ve got? I think it’s important to have goals. Keeps us grounded! I’ll PM you the movie, along with a link to watch it.

 

[Chifuyu]

I believe in an eye for an eye personally. I’m the kind of person where if I feel like I’m not wanted I’ll just leave. You don’t have to stay with someone after they did you dirty and you don’t have to forgive or forget. Like I don’t really believe in 2nd chances and a lot of people call me cold for that but it’s usually what’s best for your well-being. Like why would I would sympathize when you never gave a damn?

I don’t think you’re cold. Nor do I think you should call it an eye for an eye. It makes the most sense to behave that way. Self-preservation, if you will.

 

[fashist]

Yeah, exactly. They just look at what they see, and don’t really understand what’s going on underneath all that. But then you’ve got the stubborn type of people who never ask for help. He was definitely one of those guys. And I’m one of those guys as well. Not because of “toxic masculinity,” I just knew nobody for example could fix my problems. Therefore there’s no point in asking for help, because they are unable to help anyway. And I also thought I didn’t need to talk about it. But I was very wrong about that. That’s why I felt lonely for so long, though I didn’t realize it at the time. And thank you very much for the nice words and the support. I appreciate it. Yes! I’m studying to become a teacher, I started in late August. What about you, what are you doing in life? Any goals you’ve got? I think it’s important to have goals. Keeps us grounded! I’ll PM you the movie, along with a link to watch it.

yeah, im the same way rn
i dont see any point in opening up to people if all they can do is pity me
i think its still important to socialise though
hopefully i can change
im not doing anything rn i have school but im struggling with my attendance rn
i dont really have any goals atm either
thank youu

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

Of those who show empathy towards everyone regardless of their relationship with them and whether it benefits them or not
Naturally i do but it’s diminished over the years
I’m still naive and tend to trust people way too often
I’m just so shocked on how some people can get done so dirty and still have this trait
I just wanted to post a thread idc that much but are any of you like that and if you are does it make you feel stupid

i wish i wasn't as nice as i am

 

[Penalizer69]

i wish i wasn't as nice as i am

Haha gay

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

Haha gay

why

 

[Penalizer69]

why

Idk

 

[Chainsandwhips2]

Idk

ok