Discussion I’m scared to be in a relationship

[germanicccccccc]

I’m the only one out of my friends who has not yet had any experience with guys and it’s because I don’t want to lose my virginity and then have him leave me I also just think that’s all what guys want there were times were I could’ve been in a relationship it’s just that I’d always reject because I’m just so scared to experience being in a relationship I feel like you just can’t trust anyone nothing is the same how things were back then I’ll never get to experience 80s love everything seemed much better I’d love to get married and have kids but I feel like marriages won’t last for people in this generation

 

[Nenestar]

grow balls

 

[ImNobody]

In the 80s your man would beat you for not having diner ready

 

[Nihilus]

No need , just feel the love once it comes

 

[chudlite67]

I’m the only one out of my friends who has not yet had any experience with guys and it’s because I don’t want to lose my virginity and then have him leave me I also just think that’s all what guys want there were times were I could’ve been in a relationship it’s just that I’d always reject because I’m just so scared to experience being in a relationship I feel like you just can’t trust anyone nothing is the same how things were back then I’ll never get to experience 80s love everything seemed much better I’d love to get married and have kids but I feel like marriages won’t last for people in this generation

You’re right
That IS all they want
Stay single and stay happy

 

[germanicccccccc]

In the 80s your man would beat you for not having diner ready

Yea but people actually communicated

 

[Blackpillirony]

Yea but people actually communicated

Tbh I'd recommend being open to getting into relationships with people you're attracted with but to not be blind when they're being toxic, emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, manipulative and soul sucking.

 

[germanicccccccc]

Tbh I'd recommend being open to getting into relationships with people you're attracted with but to not be blind when they're being toxic, emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, manipulative and soul sucking.

That’s also what I worry about manipulation and toxicity because I don’t wanna constantly know where he’s at or like I don’t wanna have to go through someone’s phone

 

[Blackpillirony]

That’s also what I worry about manipulation and toxicity because I don’t wanna constantly know where he’s at or like I don’t wanna have to go through someone’s phone

Whatever happens just learn to seperate your worth to how they're treating you.

 

[lowkeydeadoutside]

I’m scared that I’ll never be in a relationship

 

[chudlite67]

That’s also what I worry about manipulation and toxicity because I don’t wanna constantly know where he’s at or like I don’t wanna have to go through someone’s phone

If either of u have to do allat just break up it’s already over

 

[Blackpillirony]

I’m scared that I’ll never be in a relationship

Hi lol

 

[ImNobody]

Yea but people actually communicated

They still do. You’re just talking to the wrong people.
Just find more mature people.

 

[Luxe]

In the 80s your man would beat you for not having diner ready

Wrong time period

 

[lowkeydeadoutside]

Hi lol

are you a 6’4 chad? If not dnr

 

[Luxe]

I’m the only one out of my friends who has not yet had any experience with guys and it’s because I don’t want to lose my virginity and then have him leave me I also just think that’s all what guys want there were times were I could’ve been in a relationship it’s just that I’d always reject because I’m just so scared to experience being in a relationship I feel like you just can’t trust anyone nothing is the same how things were back then I’ll never get to experience 80s love everything seemed much better I’d love to get married and have kids but I feel like marriages won’t last for people in this generation

Hi lol

 

[germanicccccccc]

If either of u have to do allat just break up it’s already over

Some girls never leave their bfs even after they do allat I don’t understand

 

[chudlite67]

Some girls never leave their bfs even after they do allat I don’t understand

because they are retarded

 

[germanicccccccc]

They still do. You’re just talking to the wrong people.
Just find more mature people.

Where I live everyone acts like degenerates

 

[settings]

I’m the only one out of my friends who has not yet had any experience with guys and it’s because I don’t want to lose my virginity and then have him leave me I also just think that’s all what guys want there were times were I could’ve been in a relationship it’s just that I’d always reject because I’m just so scared to experience being in a relationship I feel like you just can’t trust anyone nothing is the same how things were back then I’ll never get to experience 80s love everything seemed much better I’d love to get married and have kids but I feel like marriages won’t last for people in this generation

Wait till marriage

 

[germanicccccccc]

Whatever happens just learn to seperate your worth to how they're treating you.

Thank you I’ll make sure I don’t put myself in a situation like that

 

[Orobas]

Considering how short life is it’s actually quite baffling that people are unwilling to commit to one person and just taking the highs with the lows. Most people go through many breakups and then they realize that the lifestyle is not actually desirable for the long-term.

 

[germanicccccccc]

Wait till marriage

I want to honestly

 

[settings]

I want to honestly

What is stopping from doing that

 

[germanicccccccc]

Considering how short life is it’s actually quite baffling that people are unwilling to commit to one person and just taking the highs with the lows. Most people go through many breakups and then they realize that the lifestyle is not actually desirable for the long-term.

Exactly

 

[germanicccccccc]

What is stopping from doing that

It’s definitely an ideal way I just feel like my friends think I’m weird for my values I’ve talked about it before to one of my closest friends and she told me that I need to live life more and go partying and not care about those kinds of things yet

 

[settings]

It’s definitely an ideal way I just feel like my friends think I’m weird for my values I’ve talked about it before to one of my closest friends and she told me that I need to live life more and go partying and not care about those kinds of things yet

your friend is just projecting what she wants onto you , not everyone want to party or hook up , it is not the only way enjoy your life.
wanting commitment isn't weird tbh
do you want to make your own choices or you want the life she think you should live ?

 

[germanicccccccc]

your friend is just projecting what she wants onto you , not everyone want to party or hook up , it is not the only way enjoy your life.
wanting commitment isn't weird tbh
do you want to make your own choices or you want the life she think you should live ?

My own choices ofc I rather have respect for myself

 

[Orobas]

It’s definitely an ideal way I just feel like my friends think I’m weird for my values I’ve talked about it before to one of my closest friends and she told me that I need to live life more and go partying and not care about those kinds of things yet

The more breakups you have the easier you know how to recover from them. People don’t leave that lifestyle. They slow it down. It’s a weird proposition to have fun with one person, love them, then find reasons to breakup and repeat it. A normal marriage should have no problem lasting for atleast 20-25 years to raise children. That would be the biological expectation for strong bonding duration. But with almost everyone it’s shorter due to trauma and damage from previous relationships. I don’t think anyone can explain the lack of bonding without realizing that as a neuro-biological cause. This is why normies are hated. Through group phenomena the lifestyle spreads under the umbrella of social protection. If it weren’t accepted socially then we would see better relationships and not the intersex hatred caused by conflicts and envy. Social leadership images down inside groups. Normies are copying psychopaths and celebrities who are mentally ill but always on peoples mind because they seek publicity to attain power and eyeballs.

 

[_x11]

I’m the only one out of my friends who has not yet had any experience with guys and it’s because I don’t want to lose my virginity and then have him leave me I also just think that’s all what guys want there were times were I could’ve been in a relationship it’s just that I’d always reject because I’m just so scared to experience being in a relationship I feel like you just can’t trust anyone nothing is the same how things were back then I’ll never get to experience 80s love everything seemed much better I’d love to get married and have kids but I feel like marriages won’t last for people in this generation

Yeah same. I don't want to be vulnerable and I don't like touching.

 

[ihml]

I’m the only one out of my friends who has not yet had any experience with guys and it’s because I don’t want to lose my virginity and then have him leave me I also just think that’s all what guys want there were times were I could’ve been in a relationship it’s just that I’d always reject because I’m just so scared to experience being in a relationship I feel like you just can’t trust anyone nothing is the same how things were back then I’ll never get to experience 80s love everything seemed much better I’d love to get married and have kids but I feel like marriages won’t last for people in this generationbe self conta

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I’m the only one out of my friends who has not yet had any experience with guys and it’s because I don’t want to lose my virginity and then have him leave me I also just think that’s all what guys want there were times were I could’ve been in a relationship it’s just that I’d always reject because I’m just so scared to experience being in a relationship I feel like you just can’t trust anyone nothing is the same how things were back then I’ll never get to experience 80s love everything seemed much better I’d love to get married and have kids but I feel like marriages won’t last for people in this genbe self contained