Discussion I’m so Non-NT I skipped my exams course again today

[Deleted Member 38261]

I’m scared of people and going outside in this hot weather. They will make fun of me in class and public

Second time I skipped due anxiety. It was a course for my exam. I’ll try to go to my actual exam this afternoon, but now I will fail without doing the course

@Incognito @Chifuyu

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

I didn’t even call or mail to cancel jfl

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

The feeling of skipping school over anxiety like that is awful I'm sorry

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

The feeling of skipping school over anxiety like that is awful I'm sorry

Bullying took its toll in important moments like these. I'm traumamaxxed

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Bullying took its toll in important moments like these. I'm traumamaxxed

People + life can be so cruel. I hope things get brighter for you

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

People + life can be so cruel. I hope things get brighter for you

Thank you. The teachers wouldn't understand either. They'll see it as the loser that didn't show up again

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Thank you. The teachers wouldn't understand either. They'll see it as the loser that didn't show up again

Teachers treated me similarly in high school. When I would show up they'd mock me in front of the class or completely ignore me. People are so unempathetic. They choose to make a narrative up for you to not have to face an uncomfortable truth

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

Teachers treated me similarly in high school. When I would show up they'd mock me in front of the class or completely ignore me. People are so unempathetic. They choose to make a narrative up for you to not have to face an uncomfortable truth

Sorry that happened to you. That feeling sucks so bad, and it will haunt you the rest of your life

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Sorry that happened to you. That feeling sucks so bad, and it will haunt you the rest of your life

It is okay life moves on i suppose. But I wish you lots luck on your exam

 

[Incognito]

I’m scared of people and going outside in this hot weather. They will make fun of me in class and public

Second time I skipped due anxiety. It was a course for my exam. I’ll try to go to my actual exam this afternoon, but now I will fail without doing the course

@Incognito @Chifuyu

Anxiety feels overwhelming because your focus is stuck on yourself and every little social cue around you, it becomes an internal focus. Everything revolves around how you’re coming across and how others perceive you.
The solution is twofold, you need a way to physiologically calm yourself down, and a method to shift your focus from internal to external.
This is ofcours eif the reason are people. So What exactly made you anxious? Is it the people themselves, or is it the fear of failure?

 

[Chifuyu]

That sucks to hear, brotha. It really is warm these days. The sun is out, can’t say I’m a fan. I like it when the sky is gray. It complements the way stone cold truecels like me feel like. Well, make sure to retake it when you can! And good luck with the other one.

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

Anxiety feels overwhelming because your focus is stuck on yourself and every little social cue around you, it becomes an internal focus. Everything revolves around how you’re coming across and how others perceive you.
The solution is twofold, you need a way to physiologically calm yourself down, and a method to shift your focus from internal to external.
This is ofcours eif the reason are people. So What exactly made you anxious? Is it the people themselves, or is it the fear of failure?

Well said. It's more the people because I already knew I would fail anyways (I did) I just wanted to see how it all works and goes for the next time I'll be there and pass. Now I know what to expect.

My worst fear came out. It was a large waiting room full of people, and all the seats were taken. I was the only one standing there like a aspie loser. Everybody knew each other and were super NT as expected. I heard giggle and laughing noises in the background, they were laughing at me. Why dont they just focus on their own shit instead of me? They have a exam to do

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

That sucks to hear, brotha. It really is warm these days. The sun is out, can’t say I’m a fan. I like it when the sky is gray. It complements the way stone cold truecels like me feel like. Well, make sure to retake it when you can! And good luck with the other one.

Indeed. The worst days are yet to come. The upcoming days are sneak peaks how hell its gonna be

 

[Deleted Member 68760]

used to do this all the time, nothing to worry about

 

[Incognito]

Well said. It's more the people because I already knew I would fail anyways (I did) I just wanted to see how it all works and goes for the next time I'll be there and pass. Now I know what to expect.

My worst fear came out. It was a large waiting room full of people, and all the seats were taken. I was the only one standing there like a aspie loser. Everybody knew each other and were super NT as expected. I heard giggle and laughing noises in the background, they were laughing at me. Why dont they just focus on their own shit instead of me? They have a exam to do

Did you go back to school, Bhai?

 

[Deleted Member 38261]

Did you go back to school, Bhai?

It was a driving school bhai. Oh well, I look positive back to it now. It encouraged me to study better, and it's quite fun to learn now

 

[Incognito]

It was a driving school bhai. Oh well, I look positive back to it now. It encouraged me to study better, and it's quite fun to learn now

Ohh, it’s all good, Bhai. Like you said, just see it as a learning experience. Once you realize the fear of these people is mostly in your head, things start to feel a lot lighter. We suffer more in our minds than we ever do in reality.