I’m tired

[Abbie]

Tired of this shit. I already miss September-October time

 

[apatheia]

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of this shit. I already miss September-October time

Of what? The drama? Isn't this the result of that time?

 

[giga.mia]

I miss the month I joined ngl

 

[Abbie]

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Of what? The drama? Isn't this the result of that time?

I’m tired of wasting my time. I feel stuck man. I was supposed to have the funds to do my ascending but instead bullshit came up, can’t do what I wanna do. Uni is hard. I’m so close to what I want yet so far. I hate it.

Now I spend time daydreaming when I can finally start living how I want to. Get the shit I want to get. Ffs man. I’m only here because of boredom. If you want me to be honest. This site is negative as fuck, nobody genuinely feels better after rotting here. It’s just that sense of community, those fuckass addictive notifications and a sense of status that makes people stay. I want to move on, get shit done. Reach my damn goals but it’s like life keeps fucking me whenever I have plans.

 

[apatheia]

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I’m tired of wasting my time. I feel stuck man. I was supposed to have the funds to do my ascending but instead bullshit came up, can’t do what I wanna do. Uni is hard. I’m so close to what I want yet so far. I hate it.

Now I spend time daydreaming when I can finally start living how I want to. Get the shit I want to get. Ffs man. I’m only here because of boredom. If you want me to be honest. This site is negative as fuck, nobody genuinely feels better after rotting here. It’s just that sense of community, those fuckass addictive notifications and a sense of status that makes people stay. I want to move on, get shit done. Reach my damn goals but it’s like life keeps fucking me whenever I have plans.

Let me think of an answer for the first part, for the second part:

It is pretty expected. These forums, including .org has mainly 16 - 18 year olds who self-proclaim themselves as blackpillers (negative), then rot here 24/7. It attracts some of the worser humans online.

 

[hollowlight]

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Let me think of an answer for the first part, for the second part:

It is pretty expected. These forums, including .org has mainly 16 - 18 year olds who self-proclaim themselves as blackpillers (negative), then rot here 24/7. It attracts some of the worser humans online.

bluepilled foids jfl

 

[apatheia]

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bluepilled foids jfl

Lookism blackpiller jfl. Incel watched the Clavicular podcast and thinks he knows everything about evo psych.

 

[Blackpillirony]

Tired of this shit. I already miss September-October time

Same agl

 

[hollowlight]

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Lookism blackpiller jfl. Incel watched the Clavicular podcast and thinks he knows everything about evo psych.

muh clavicular n shi

 

[Blackpillirony]

I’m tired of wasting my time. I feel stuck man. I was supposed to have the funds to do my ascending but instead bullshit came up, can’t do what I wanna do. Uni is hard. I’m so close to what I want yet so far. I hate it.

Now I spend time daydreaming when I can finally start living how I want to. Get the shit I want to get. Ffs man. I’m only here because of boredom. If you want me to be honest. This site is negative as fuck, nobody genuinely feels better after rotting here. It’s just that sense of community, those fuckass addictive notifications and a sense of status that makes people stay. I want to move on, get shit done. Reach my damn goals but it’s like life keeps fucking me whenever I have plans.

You're already where I want to be in life : Financially autonomous, goes to clubs, high T looking Tyronelite and in uni.

 

[apatheia]

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muh clavicular n shi

Would you call yourself a blackpiller?

 

[hollowlight]

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Would you call yourself a blackpiller?

i don't like labeling myself but ye

 

[apatheia]

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i don't like labeling myself but ye

I was previously blackpilled, but I am past it now.

 

[hollowlight]

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I was previously blackpilled, but I am past it now.

u were never bp'd to begin with

 

[apatheia]

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u were never bp'd to begin with

I don't think you know my story but elaborate.

 

[hollowlight]

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I don't think you know my story but elaborate.

what do u think bp is? looking good?

 

[apatheia]

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I don't think you know my story but elaborate.

By the way I am specifically talking about the lookism blackpill.

 

[apatheia]

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what do u think bp is? looking good?

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By the way I am specifically talking about the lookism blackpill.

No, it is pretty much genetic determinism relabelled as the blackpill.

 

[snow]

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I don't think you know my story but elaborate.

Why are you so mysterious?

 

[hollowlight]

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By the way I am specifically talking about the lookism blackpill.

I'll explain it short, genetic determinism
your life has already been written in ur genes, bones, height, IQ, personality
obv this goes deeper but u get the idea

 

[apatheia]

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I'll explain it short, genetic determinism
your life has already been written in ur genes, bones, height, IQ, personality
obv this goes deeper but u get the idea

Yes, I said genetic determinism in my prev. comment, the issue with genetic determinism is that our brain is neuroplastic (on the most part + if not hardwired), our bodies are malleable. Plenty of anecdotes and studies. (including meta-analyses) that debunks the "it's all genetics" mindset.

Of course there will be a very small percentage of people where the blackpill reigns true, and that is very unfortunate, but for the large majority of people it is nothing but unnecessary pessimism.

 

[hollowlight]

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Yes, I said genetic determinism in my prev. comment, the issue with genetic determinism is that our brain is neuroplastic (on the most part + if not hardwired), our bodies are malleable. Plenty of anecdotes and studies. (including meta-analyses) that debunks the "it's all genetics" mindset.

Of course there will be a very small percentage of people where the blackpill reigns true, and that is very unfortunate, but for the large majority of people it is nothing but unecessary pessimism.

hmm evb has their own views regardless but I can see why would u look at it like that

even tho I believe in bp'd i dont have a pessimistic view of it

 

[Schizotypalcel]

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Yes, I said genetic determinism in my prev. comment, the issue with genetic determinism is that our brain is neuroplastic (on the most part + if not hardwired), our bodies are malleable. Plenty of anecdotes and studies. (including meta-analyses) that debunks the "it's all genetics" mindset.

Of course there will be a very small percentage of people where the blackpill reigns true, and that is very unfortunate, but for the large majority of people it is nothing but unessecary pessimism.

given what you said about genetic misfortunes and determinism, do you think the idea of 'mentalcels' even holds up? You mentioned genetic determinism earlier, but the issue with that is that the brain is largely neuroplastic unless something is severely hardwired . We have plenty of data and meta anaylses showing that 'it's all genetics' doesn't really stand like you said.

Sure theres a percentage of cases where pessimism is warranted, but for most, 'mentalcel's seem more like over reacted fatalism then reality.

What are your thoughts on that?

 

[Ghoultune]

Twinkle Twinkle little star

 

[Abbie]

Twinkle Twinkle little star

First reply that’s made me genuinely laugh in weeks

 

[apatheia]

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given what you said about genetic misfortunes and determinism, do you think the idea of 'mentalcels' even holds up? You mentioned genetic determinism earlier, but the issue with that is that the brain is largely neuroplastic unless something is severely hardwired . We have plenty of data and meta anaylses showing that 'it's all genetics' doesn't really stand like you said.

Sure theres a percentage of cases where pessimism is warranted, but for most, 'mentalcel's seem more like over reacted fatalism then reality.

What are your thoughts on that?

I'm going to be honest, I don't have enough knowledge in mental disorders and how it affects forming connections to give a good confident answer but I can imagine people higher up on the autism spectrum will struggle with relationships much more.

However I don't want to entertain someone who self-diagnoses themselves on the most part because they could just be socially awkward (which you can change, I did) and is not autistic.

You probably have much more knowledge in this than I do so now you have me curious to what your thoughts are?

 

[Schizotypalcel]

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I'm going to be honest, I don't have enough knowledge in mental disorders and how it affects forming connections to give a good confident answer but I can imagine people higher up on the autism spectrum will struggle with relationships much more.

However I don't want to entertain someone who self-diagnoses themselves on the most part because they could just be socially awkward (which you can change, I did) and is not autistic.

You probably have much more knowledge in this than I do so now you have me curious to what your thoughts are?

I agree people can confuse social awkwardness with a clinical disorder.
I used to think i was a mentalcel, but i turned skeptical after time of reflection. The word mentalcel is flawed and this is why i think it is.

People like me do have neurological hurdles, but most cases are more about where they are in life (environment), habits, and mindset rather then some bullshit destiny. I'm keeping it short because it's the truth, that's why social services are not out of business and strive in areas most can't collect within themselves.

Genetics, they shape the terrain of sorts, but it doesn't dictate the journey of liife. Most limits arent sentences, theyre starting points we grow beyond.

There are ofc some people who have such severe problems, but they aren't thinking about life in the way we do. They are processing the harsh world they have and make do with it or they fail trying. That's life though, and it's not the life everyone has.

 

[Paolo Maldini]

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Yes, I said genetic determinism in my prev. comment, the issue with genetic determinism is that our brain is neuroplastic (on the most part + if not hardwired), our bodies are malleable. Plenty of anecdotes and studies. (including meta-analyses) that debunks the "it's all genetics" mindset.

Of course there will be a very small percentage of people where the blackpill reigns true, and that is very unfortunate, but for the large majority of people it is nothing but unnecessary pessimism.

They are coping they appoint determinism as the culprit so they don’t have to face their fears which most of the time correlate with having a long term rewarding goal ( boo ) jumpscare for your brain .which is understandable at the end of the day your brain prefers short term rewards over long term ones but again your brain is more flexible than you think but for the average joe who rots on forums or doomscroll his brain is probably fried to death and it will take some time.

 

[apatheia]

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I agree people can confuse social awkwardness with a clinical disorder.
I used to think i was a mentalcel, but i turned skeptical after time of reflection. The word mentalcel is flawed and this is why i think it is.

People like me do have neurological hurdles, but most cases are more about where they are in life (environment), habits, and mindset rather then some bullshit destiny. I'm keeping it short because it's the truth, that's why social services are not out of business and strive in areas most can't collect within themselves.

Genetics, they shape the terrain of sorts, but it doesn't dictate the journey of liife. Most limits arent sentences, theyre starting points we grow beyond.

There are ofc some people who have such severe problems, but they aren't thinking about life in the way we do. They are processing the harsh world they have and make do with it or they fail trying. That's life though, and it's not the life everyone has.

Yes, a lot of good points in here, and you put it in a pretty poetic way. Destiny is bs, because the present is ever changing, and whatever step you take will change your trajectory whether that is towards a good trajectory or bad. Our minds and body are malleable which is a double edged sword, because we can either absolutely rot our minds and bodies or change for the better. I prefer this over nature deciding to leave everything up to sole genetics given to you at birth.

"Genetics, they shape the terrain of sorts, but it doesn't dictate the journey of liife. Most limits arent sentences, theyre starting points we grow beyond."

Awesome line relating to gene-environment interaction.

They are coping they appoint determinism as the culprit so they don’t have to face their fears which most of the time correlate with having a long term rewarding goal ( boo ) jumpscare for your brain .which is understandable at the end of the day your brain prefers short term rewards over long term ones but again your brain is more flexible than you think but for the average joe who rots on forums or doomscroll his brain is probably fried to death and it will take some time.

I remember reading an in-depth article on just this, basically how blackpillers will shift the blame to external sources to lie to themselves / "cope" with the fact that it is probably their fault for being in the position that they are in now. It is pretty much just what you said.

 

[deadboy]

arent we all tired

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

I miss gigamia, she was last seen a whoping 14 minutes ago

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

Now I spend time daydreaming when I can finally start living how I want to. Get the shit I want to get. Ffs man. I’m only here because of boredom. If you want me to be honest. This site is negative as fuck, nobody genuinely feels better after rotting here. It’s just that sense of community, those fuckass addictive notifications and a sense of status that makes people stay. I want to move on, get shit done. Reach my damn goals but it’s like life keeps fucking me whenever I have plans.

facts tbh

i'm gonna leave in a few months ideally i don't got much time left to reach my new goal weight and all of my "hardmaxxes" don't take long hope i can go live my life then jfl