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im so worried that ill never find someone who has the same goals and like thought processes as me
kinda talking to someone now but idk im not entirely sure on whether or not theyd make a good partner
Then I walk in
 
why would you want someone with the same goals and thought processes

you will get bored
no cos if his goals and ways of doing things are way diff it would just piss me off cos im pretty set on how i think things should be like
i cant date a man who doesnt want kids
i cant date a man who isnt driven when it comes to work/career
i cant date a man who isnt happy with me being a catholic (i.e waiting until marriage)
 
why would you want someone with the same goals and thought processes

you will get bored
Nah, me and my best friend share the same goal,

We discuss our plans and feeling about the things we enjoy, imo theres nothing better then having somone like that to talk with
 
im so worried that ill never find someone who has the same goals and like thought processes as me
kinda talking to someone now but idk im not entirely sure on whether or not theyd make a good partner
you dont have to find someone who has the same thought processes as you but someone who respects your diffrences, if you found someone exactly with everything like you itd be boring asf having someone whos diffrent then you can be inlightening and help you find new point of views in life
 
no cos if his goals and ways of doing things are way diff it would just piss me off cos im pretty set on how i think things should be like
i cant date a man who doesnt want kids
i cant date a man who isnt driven when it comes to work/career
i cant date a man who isnt happy with me being a catholic (i.e waiting until marriage)
i mean thats not many things to agree on

it seemed like you meant most things in life you would have to think or act the same
 
no cos if his goals and ways of doing things are way diff it would just piss me off cos im pretty set on how i think things should be like
i cant date a man who doesnt want kids
i cant date a man who isnt driven when it comes to work/career
i cant date a man who isnt happy with me being a catholic (i.e waiting until marriage)
these are pretty basic demands, there's seas of autist wanna be trad red pill bros with these goals who would simp for your ass and do these no questions asked

I thought you wanted some oddly specific shit lmao
 
there are pretty basic demands, there's seas of autist wanna be trad red pill bros with these goals who would simp for your ass and do these no questions asked

I thought you wanted some oddly specific shit lmao
thing is i dont like the whole trad thing cos im career driven i want to work
would rather walk on hot coals than be nothing more than some trad wife i dont wanna spend the rest of my life chained to the kitchen
also men say they like the idea of waiting until marriage but most are just cosplaying catholic cos they think it makes them look morally superior, theyre the sorta guys that when u tell them no im not sleeping w u first date they have a fucking tantrum
 
thing is i dont like the whole trad thing cos im career driven i want to work
would rather walk on hot coals than be nothing more than some trad wife i dont wanna spend the rest of my life chained to the kitchen
also men say they like the idea of waiting until marriage but most are just cosplaying catholic cos they think it makes them look morally superior, theyre the sorta guys that when u tell them no im not sleeping w u first date they have a fucking tantrum
i swr sex before marriage is haram in all forms of christianity
 
thing is i dont like the whole trad thing cos im career driven i want to work
would rather walk on hot coals than be nothing more than some trad wife i dont wanna spend the rest of my life chained to the kitchen
also men say they like the idea of waiting until marriage but most are just cosplaying catholic cos they think it makes them look morally superior, theyre the sorta guys that when u tell them no im not sleeping w u first date they have a fucking tantrum
the thing is i dont mind my future wife working but im afraid if she gets harassed etc, also its not good when 2 parents are working and a child is left alone or goes to some daycare chit, i dont mind her working at home or something but i will feel embarrased that i couldnt provide her with money to the point she has to work
 
it is but most men who are 'christian' like to ignore that part
yes because the uk got fucked up with some of the liberal reforms of the 1960s, some of them like the abortion act was good but alot of it was bad
 
im so worried that ill never find someone who has the same goals and like thought processes as me
kinda talking to someone now but idk im not entirely sure on whether or not theyd make a good partner
Yea u won’t even in the same gender let alone the opposite gender
 
the thing is i dont mind my future wife working but im afraid if she gets harassed etc, also its not good when 2 parents are working and a child is left alone or goes to some daycare chit, i dont mind her working at home or something but i will feel embarrased that i couldnt provide her with money to the point she has to work
ngl i dont want a man being in charge of all or most of the finances cos if smth happened and we had to separate for whatever reason ill be left with fuck all and kids to look after
 
Yea u won’t even in the same gender let alone the opposite gender
yes this is true every person is their own person if you see someone esp the opposite gender have the same exact things as you they are prob larping
 
yes because the uk got fucked up with some of the liberal reforms of the 1960s, some of them like the abortion act was good but alot of it was bad
some of it but idk i feel like the state of christianity as a whole has been fucked over as so many people just claim christianity cos they like the look of it or they use it as an excuse to be horrible assholes to random people
 
ngl i dont want a man being in charge of all or most of the finances cos if smth happened and we had to separate for whatever reason ill be left with fuck all and kids to look after
True if you get fucked over by them. But they should at least give money to support kids regardless but i can see where ur coming from
 
yeah
surprisingly its hard to find a guy thats ok w all those things, esp the waiting until married bit
If you look at the general population, very few of them are going to want kids, be Catholic, and be career driven, right? So you shouldn’t be looking for men in the general population. If you go to places where there are going to be a bunch of Catholic men (like church) or places where there are hardworking men (like a business rvent or smth idk) you’re able to basically choose the demographics of the men you talk to, before you speak to them. So go to places where the kind of men you want also go.
 
some of it but idk i feel like the state of christianity as a whole has been fucked over as so many people just claim christianity cos they like the look of it or they use it as an excuse to be horrible assholes to random people
yeah church rates gone down and stuff,
id say that liberalisation was a factor to this and even the renaicance i cant spe;;
 
If you look at the general population, very few of them are going to want kids, be Catholic, and be career driven, right? So you shouldn’t be looking for men in the general population. If you go to places where there are going to be a bunch of Catholic men (like church) or places where there are hardworking men (like a business rvent or smth idk) you’re able to basically choose the demographics of the men you talk to, before you speak to them. So go to places where the kind of men you want also go.
@rickydickydoodahgrimes o shit marry nick fuentes
 
If you look at the general population, very few of them are going to want kids, be Catholic, and be career driven, right? So you shouldn’t be looking for men in the general population. If you go to places where there are going to be a bunch of Catholic men (like church) or places where there are hardworking men (like a business rvent or smth idk) you’re able to basically choose the demographics of the men you talk to, before you speak to them. So go to places where the kind of men you want also go.
true but i did date a man from church and it went horrendously long story short i got verbally berated over not wanting to fuck him first date
 

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