I crave .

[Balenci]

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[Balenci]

x

 

[Deleted Member 128300]

The forum is the problem

 

[Balenci]

The forum is the problem

without forum id just be crying in bed all day w no social interaction Lol

 

[Deleted Member 128300]

without forum id just be crying in bed all day w no social interaction Lol

How old are u bro

 

[Angel]

im just talkative tbh

 

[Balenci]

The forum is the problem

forum helped me go from this to this

 

[Balenci]

How old are u bro

15

 

[Deleted Member 128300]

15

Bro you are 15 you’ll be ight

 

[Humanlite]

without forum id just be crying in bed all day w no social interaction Lol

get hugged by a silly cat

 

[Balenci]

Bro you are 15 you’ll be ight

yeah im aight bro ihml but im aight

 

[riri7]

I mean its kind of the reason Im on here.

Im an extremely outgoing social person, im not afraid to be loud, make conversations etc+

But for some reason i struggle with not having friends..
I really want to know what it is about me?

At the beginning of last school year i had a whole friend group, but for some reason i quit putting effort into everything and somehow lost them.
When i say quit putting effort i just wore hoodies to school and left my hair messy and often times unkept.


It was mostly due to my insecurity (of my nose) but now after having my nosejob i wont have to worry about that.


Is it possible i dont have friends because of my past insecurity ? I mean ive never really felt that way but im not sure what else it could have been.

if you're a teen like me, then it is getting harder to interact with other teens since you need to fit perfectly into their circle, but either way they make fun of you, so I recommend you join an extracurricular with a hobby you're into and start finding friends from there or simply have a small group of 2-4 people

 

[Deleted Member 128300]

yeah im aight bro ihml but im aight

How do u hate ur life at only 15

 

[Balenci]

if you're a teen like me, then it is getting harder to interact with other teens since you need to fit perfectly into their circle, but either way they make fun of you, so I recommend you join an extracurricular with a hobby you're into and start finding friends from there or simply have a small group of 2-4 people

Bro u dont get it
i do interact
i do volleyball
just nobody wants to be friends
not even one person man

 

[riri7]

Bro u dont get it
i do interact
i do volleyball
just nobody wants to be friends
not even one person man

try with small approaches first like complimenting them or asking where they got a product from and then start to include yourself more into their social group and if that doesn't work, try finding online people who live in your area

 

[Balenci]

try with small approaches first like complimenting them or asking where they got a product from and then start to include yourself more into their social group and if that doesn't work, try finding online people who live in your area

I always approach and talk to people lol like ive said a few times im already social and do all that,
i cant reallt find people online bc my parents arent willing (their strict) and people around me r not rly like that

 

[riri7]

I always approach and talk to people lol like ive said a few times im already social and do all that,
i cant reallt find people online bc my parents arent willing (their strict) and people around me r not rly like that

Maybe you're around the wrong people? I'm not sure about people in America but there seems to be different diverse groups there

 

[GigaNack]

Dnr an atom

 

[trueswan]

Bro u dont get it
i do interact
i do volleyball
just nobody wants to be friends
not even one person man

ugh this is so real. i feel like people are not open to having new friends. i’ll have really good interactions with someone but they’ll never consider me a friend and would rather stay with their own friend group

 

[Duchess]

In elementary through middleschool for soem reason i was always the girl targeted for being ugly/weird etc+


People would go up to my bestfriend from back then asking why she was friends with me, if she really likes me, that type of shit.


Because of this I became quite reactive so when someone would say soemthing rude id always give it back somaybe thats why i didnt have friends back then.

I relate to this so much lol now I legit cannot form female friendships bc other women always bullied me. Im not saying ts in a pick me way but more like in a 'i wish i was like them' way lol, bc guys acted like I didn't exist too soooo

Now that people try to reach to me i am always assuming bad intentions; so I think like when people treat you like shit you reciprocate it to people when you grow up out of fear, and it keeps you in the same situation. That's how it is for me, kinda.

 

[Amethyst]

I mean its kind of the reason Im on here.

Im an extremely outgoing social person, im not afraid to be loud, make conversations etc+

But for some reason i struggle with not having friends..
I really want to know what it is about me?

At the beginning of last school year i had a whole friend group, but for some reason i quit putting effort into everything and somehow lost them.
When i say quit putting effort i just wore hoodies to school and left my hair messy and often times unkept.


It was mostly due to my insecurity (of my nose) but now after having my nosejob i wont have to worry about that.


Is it possible i dont have friends because of my past insecurity ? I mean ive never really felt that way but im not sure what else it could have been.

Dnr

 

[Balenci]

ugh this is so real. i feel like people are not open to having new friends. i’ll have really good interactions with someone but they’ll never consider me a friend and would rather stay with their own friend group

exactly omg
irs like talking to smb ≠ being friends
and also just sometimes people r so different its difficult to be friends ykwim?

 

[Balenci]

I relate to this so much lol now I legit cannot form female friendships bc other women always bullied me. Im not saying ts in a pick me way but more like in a 'i wish i was like them' way lol, bc guys acted like I didn't exist too soooo

Now that people try to reach to me i am always assuming bad intentions; so I think like when people treat you like shit you reciprocate it to people when you grow up out of fear, and it keeps you in the same situation. That's how it is for me, kinda.

I get this too omg
Guys were always easier to talk to bc theyd say shit to my face , not my back
thing is im really nice to girls now though so idek maybe theres soemthign im missing