Can vouch, as a poor excuse of a guy, 1, good dick does wonders, knowing how to use it, and knowing how to eat + aftercare. MOST IMPORTANTLY how you address wanting sex. Don't treat her like an object or an asset. Let her approach first. If she wants you to approach first, don't f*****g make it everyday unless instructed to.
Some girls don't like being sex dolls, it makes them feel less. Communication is like everything. Figure out what she likes, and how she wants it. Never be fake. Never fake an orgasm. Be transparent and honest, without being a douche or a wet sock. Also respect her periods. If you help her during her periods/help her with pain/run to the store if she needs/be patient with her/attend her cravings, etc. It all improves intimacy so much. Never rely on sex to hold your relationship together, that's toxic.
My gf lives under my roof, but we have a system where our bank accounts don't matter. We combine both of them, so, if she needs cash I have it, if I need cash she has it, and it's never an argument or anything. We understand that we have roles to play. I buy her gifts when I want to, it doesnt matter what the price is, even if its from the dollar store, she gets really excited that I thought of her.
Acknowledge this, and continue to feed this by surprising her with little trinkets she might have been talking about, ingredients for a recipe she might have wanted to try, or take her to a place she's been curious about. It doesn't even have to cost money. Has she been talking about a movie? Watch it, snuggle, don't advance her unless she advances you (sexually).
Been talking about a new hobby? Research it with her, make plans, inspire her ideas, build off them, allow her to get excited and passionate about them. As long as the hobby isn't harmful or whatever.
Take her outside, picnics, walks, drives through nice areas. My girl really likes it when we drive past newly built houses, and talk about what kind of house we'd like when we're older.
She's not spoiled, not a gold digger. Right now we are struggling to pay the bills, and our relationship is just as solid. We are not built off money, and she isn't with me for a benefit of that kind. She loves me because I love her and she's confident that I do, vice versa.
She likes to alternate payment, so, if I buy dinner one night, she'll want to either pay the tip or cover the next meal. (I never let her but sometimes she wins) Be playful, being playful is crucial to keeping the mood light. But don't dismiss things that should be taken more seriously.
I don't control her unless it's something that needs genuine correction, like pointing out a red flag in another guy coworker or telling her she needs to stop talking to someone because they want to take advantage of her, when they clearly do. DO NOT freak out or command a woman. Talk reasonably, and rationally.
I help her, I listen, I spend time with her, I give her space if she wants, I help her figure things out when she doesn't know where to start/she's struggling. I help her figure out what to eat. When she's upset, we get a drink from like dunkin or something. If she's not having a good day, I get her, her favorite food.
I have a good relationship with her parents and her younger siblings. Her mom loves me, her father, despite my flaws, respects me and finds me intelligent (his words) and believes I have good motives with her. Her little brother really likes me, loves to hang out and play games here and there and her little sister is a little shy, but she also likes me.
When I'm around her parents, I always offer to help out with the kids, or, if we're in public and they wander I don't hesitate, I'm the first to run after them and keep them within my reach just in case. --Her MOM REALLY really appreciated it when I helped her find clothes for them in their sizes when she needed to go back to school shopping, etc.
Gestures like that, respecting the dynamic of her family and doing my best to make use of my presence instead of being a nuisance/in the way. Making my gf feel appreciated, comfortable, satisfied, and stable are the most important things. All while not being overbearing, annoying, etc. I try to stay laid back and open minded, while also being quite assertive in a respectful manner.
Respecting the parents and giving them the etiquette they believe in, proves to your girl that you're committed and willing to settle. If she really wants to be with you, that would be an attractive factor.
Another one would be, if your girl wants to start a family with you, and she really does want to settle with you, if you have younger family members that are toddlers, or infants, women really like seeing their man prove they can be a good father.
When I went to visit my sister to help her with her daughter, around 10mo, I brought my GF with. I offered to watch/take over the baby for awhile so my sister could breathe a little bit.
Interacting, yknow playing with the baby, making her laugh, making sure she was okay when eating, giving her water, the way you speak to a child/how you behave around a child. If you're like, actually trying to cater to that child, it shows.
After we left my sister's, my gf was telling me about how attractive she thought it was when I was watching the baby, because it made her think of what we could have in the future and she thinks it's cute/hot that I have fatherly qualities she can rely on, and feels comfortable knowing I can handle taking on that responsibility. Women who want to settle, love babies.
If you're stiff and uncomfortable around a baby/can't hold a baby/don't know what to do with a baby, she's probably not going to be too into that. It's not a great look. You're gunna lose points.
It's all about effort. If you really love someone, and they really love you, then there is always a compromise. EVERY COUPLE has its moments, sometimes you may disagree, but it's how you handle it that matters.
Don't be soggy, don't be cold. Don't make her feel jealous, don't let her feel insecure about your relationship. Help her feel confident in your faith, and make sure both parties trust and believe in one another.
Doubt. Will. Ruin. You. She will leave.
My GF moved across the country to be with me, we've come along way, but we make it work on both sides. No one is better than the other, we are both equal and give/receive equal treatment. Patience and communication are not optional.
If you're with a girl who is a gold digger, is really toxic, and tries to control you, don't go for it man. She ain't the one. You can't force a real connection. It will happen when you're not looking.
I hope this is some-what helpful to someone.
Edit: if you're just starting a relationship DO NOT set the pace, let her set the pace, and if that pace is comfortable for both of you, allow it. Don't rush, don't be too slow. Find the right speed. You don't want to skim over the important details, especially in the beginning of a relationship. + don't be a perv lol
But I just don’t see that. 
The only ugly people I see are old fat people but they’re usually dating other old fat people. Also they were probably better looking in their younger days
