Serious i don’t think i’ll ever be content with how i look

[benny]

how do i cure this

 

[buggy47]

Stfu n***a

 

[Deleted Member 111657]

how do i cure this

Kiss more men

 

[isntnotrepellent]

how do i cure this

wym content

 

[benny]

Stfu n***a

 

[benny]

wym content

like satisfied

 

[Deleted Member 111657]

N send me proof so I know ur actually doing it

 

[benny]

N send me proof so I know ur actually doing it

?

 

[1894]

You look good bro and you are 6,2 stop compliment fishing

 

[Xx_Sh4tteredHe4rt_xX]

how do i cure this

Sometimes that's how life is. It just never goes away. u need to recognize that it's no longer about how u perceive urself, but instead focus on how the world perceives u. If ur content with that, that's what matters

 

[Deleted Member 111657]

?

So I can coach u obv

 

[isntnotrepellent]

like satisfied

ohhhhh content im fucking tired holy i read content like videos and shit

 

[benny]

You look good bro and you are 6,2 stop compliment fishing

i’m genuinely not

i know i’m above average i just don’t think it will ever be good enough to satisfy me

 

[benny]

Sometimes that's how life is. It just never goes away. u need to recognize that it's no longer about how u perceive urself, but instead focus on how the world perceives u. If ur content with that, that's what matters

yeah i guess

i think it’s easier said than done tho and how u view urself is how people view you in a sense

 

[benny]

ohhhhh content im fucking tired holy i read content like videos and shit

 

[Deleted Member 111657]

i’m genuinely not

i know i’m above average i just don’t think it will ever be good enough to satisfy me

Once I’m a surgeon come to my practice and I will make you uglier so u can appreciate what you had

 

[benny]

So I can coach u obv

i’m not doing that

 

[benny]

Once I’m a surgeon come to my practice and I will make you uglier so u can appreciate what you had

bro

 

[Deleted Member 111657]

i’m not doing that

Ok well I tried to help

 

[benny]

Ok well I tried to help

i appreciate the effort

 

[jest]

how do i cure this

honestly dont think a lot of us will but u can just try working on it by looking at yourself and naming things that you DO like about yourself and like journal about iy

 

[1894]

Sometimes that's how life is. It just never goes away. u need to recognize that it's no longer about how u perceive urself, but instead focus on how the world perceives u. If ur content with that, that's what matters

n***a said some bull shit

 

[benny]

honestly dont think a lot of us will but u can just try working on it by looking at yourself and naming things that you DO like about yourself and like journal about iy

this is a good idea i just find it difficult to find things i do like yfm

 

[TFC]

how do i cure this

You get a foid to worship you, get a MTB. Love bomb her for a week, do nothing for a week love bomb her some more then treat her like shit for a month and when she is going to break up with you make sure to love bomb her for a day and then break up with her
Always been a dream of mine

 

[jest]

this is a good idea i just find it difficult to find things i do like yfm

no i totally get it you could start with shit like non-physical qualities and work yourself up to real small things you like

 

[benny]

You get a foid to worship you, get a MTB. Love bomb her for a week, do nothing for a week love bomb her some more then treat her like shit for a month and when she is going to break up with you make sure to love bomb her for a day and then break up with her
Always been a dream of mine

lmao it’s not even about external validation i do pretty ok with girls when im trying to

it’s more of a self conscious thing

 

[benny]

no i totally get it you could start with shit like non-physical qualities and work yourself up to real small things you like

most practical advice i’ve ever received here thank you

 

[jest]

most practical advice i’ve ever received here thank you

of course im seriousmaxxing right now im glad i could help

 

[Perceval]

full facial implants and double jaw surgery

 

[benny]

full facial implants and double jaw surgery

ur right

 

[TFC]

lmao it’s not even about external validation i do pretty ok with girls when im trying to

it’s more of a self conscious thing

Hmmmm… maybe compare yourself to an average guy? Maybe get into like a book club? Get on tinder maybe? I think if you do anything too much you’ll develop a god complex and be a douche bag, but if you don’t do enough you’ll be insecure and scared.. maybe try to develop an ego

 

[benny]

Hmmmm… maybe compare yourself to an average guy? Maybe get into like a book club? Get on tinder maybe? I think if you do anything too much you’ll develop a god complex and be a douche bag, but if you don’t do enough you’ll be insecure and scared.. maybe try to develop an ego

i’m on tinder i don’t really use it tho

i have hobbies and i actually love what i do for work

i dont like comparing myself to others because comparison is the thief of joy

sorry if it sounds like im playing devils advocate but i feel like ive tried so much to dig myself out of the whole of insecurity and nothing has worked

 

[TFC]

i’m on tinder i don’t really use it tho

i have hobbies and i actually love what i do for work

i dont like comparing myself to others because comparison is the thief of joy

sorry if it sounds like im playing devils advocate but i feel like ive tried so much to dig myself out of the whole of insecurity and nothing has worked

Ok well you’re obviously above average, but your brain doesn’t think so. So it’s obviously not your do with looks, looks are just a side effect of whatever the root cause is.
If you feel insecure about facial features but you have a normal life, I’m going to take a leap here and say you have a sense of emptiness especially when you’re alone. All this is pointing to child hood trama I think, where you bullied in middle school ?

 

[benny]

Ok well you’re obviously above average, but your brain doesn’t think so. So it’s obviously not your do with looks, looks are just a side effect of whatever the root cause is.
If you feel insecure about facial features but you have a normal life, I’m going to take a leap here and say you have a sense of emptiness especially when you’re alone. All this is pointing to child hood trama I think, where you bullied in middle school ?

i was bullied all my life till after high school ngl

 

[Deleted Member 118204]

If you get cold approached by girls irl, you should be good.

 

[benny]

Ok well you’re obviously above average, but your brain doesn’t think so. So it’s obviously not your do with looks, looks are just a side effect of whatever the root cause is.
If you feel insecure about facial features but you have a normal life, I’m going to take a leap here and say you have a sense of emptiness especially when you’re alone. All this is pointing to child hood trama I think, where you bullied in middle school ?

i guess my life aligns with my looks to an extent, i just don’t feel fulfilled or satisfied with it

everytime i go out i want to go home

 

[benny]

If you get cold approached by girls irl, you should be good.

i don’t really

 

[chudlite67]

how do i cure this

hey mtn, i understand
unfortunately this feeling probably will never go away fully but you can live with it by focusing on other things and people that make u happy
just remember normies dont see you through the bp lens

 

[TFC]

i guess my life aligns with my looks to an extent, i just don’t feel fulfilled or satisfied with it

everytime i go out i want to go home

Want to go home because your nerves or introverted?

 

[benny]

hey mtn, i understand
unfortunately this feeling probably will never go away fully but you can live with it by focusing on other things and people that make u happy
just remember normies dont see you through the bp lens

that’s true thanks chudlite

 

[benny]

Want to go home because your nerves or introverted?

boredom and lack of interest tbh and ik that sounds narcissistic/attention whoreish but it’s general disinterest in randoms

 

[TFC]

just remember normies dont see you through the bp lens

… that’s the whole theory of BP that they do it subconsciously, stupid foid

 

[chudlite67]

… that’s the whole theory of BP that they do it subconsciously, stupid foid

how bout you kill yourself you stupid cunt
i was trygnt to offer words of support to my friend mtn and youre shitting on me hoenstly whats ur problem I HATE MOIDS I HAGE YOU I HATE YOU

 

[TFC]

boredom and lack of interest tbh and ik that sounds narcissistic/attention whoreish but it’s general disinterest in randoms

Ok so what we know
You have insecurities with looks
You get 0 energy from public
You can hang out with friends
Your job is ok/good
You have improved your looks drastically and fast
…………………
This is probably a negative feed back loop
But in order to get out of this loop we have to find the center (why do you have no energy in public?)
I think this is the main leading question
Theory’s
Childhood trauma- being bullied or ostracized as a kid

Not having a personality- when there is no you under the surface so all you have is the face

depression- you have repressed emotions from being ugly that you never let out

a underlying copeing mechanism- when you were a kid you were treated badly and as a response you forced yourself to see you the way others saw you at the time
…………….

 

[TFC]

how bout you kill yourself

No

 

[benny]

Ok so what we know
You have insecurities with looks
You get 0 energy from public
You can hang out with friends
Your job is ok/good
You have improved your looks drastically and fast
…………………
This is probably a negative feed back loop
But in order to get out of this loop we have to find the center (why do you have no energy in public?)
I think this is the main leading question
Theory’s
Childhood trauma- being bullied or ostracized as a kid

Not having a personality- when there is no you under the surface so all you have is the face

depression- you have repressed emotions from being ugly that you never let out

a underlying copeing mechanism- when you were a kid you were treated badly and as a response you forced yourself to see you the way others saw you at the time
…………….

wow bro you did not have to do all of this thank you

i think i do have a personality tbh i get told im funny and smart but it could just be halo

but the other things are probably right, i just don’t know how to fix them

 

[chudlite67]

Ok so what we know
You have insecurities with looks
You get 0 energy from public
You can hang out with friends
Your job is ok/good
You have improved your looks drastically and fast
…………………
This is probably a negative feed back loop
But in order to get out of this loop we have to find the center (why do you have no energy in public?)
I think this is the main leading question
Theory’s
Childhood trauma- being bullied or ostracized as a kid

Not having a personality- when there is no you under the surface so all you have is the face

depression- you have repressed emotions from being ugly that you never let out

a underlying copeing mechanism- when you were a kid you were treated badly and as a response you forced yourself to see you the way others saw you at the time
…………….

a rock couldve figured this out btw
boy gets bullied when he is younger and then grows up to be insecure wow sherlock fucking holmes over here
maybe give him some ideas how to fix it moid superior genetics extremely high iq male

 

[TFC]

wow bro you did not have to do all of this thank you

i think i do have a personality tbh i get told im funny and smart but it could just be halo

but the other things are probably right, i just don’t know how to fix them

Well for childhood trauma you have to identify which personal traits were caused by this and identify why. Then you have to find a personal way to not blame yourself for them and recognize you were innocent and people treated you wrong and it wasn’t your fault

For depression you probably would need a outlet this is finding the feelings you hold deep, (fear, anger, resentment, sadness) and finding a way to let them out, like crying, screaming, hugging, a truthful conversation of embarrassing topics, even a walk or meditation, can be the difference between emptiness and fulfillment

If it’s a copeing mechanism you just half to be aware when it’s active and break the habit through will power, your subconscious mind is trying to keep you safe but this mechanism is hurting you so you have to break the habit consciously

 

[TFC]

a rock couldve figured this out btw
boy gets bullied when he is younger and then grows up to be insecure wow sherlock fucking holmes over here
maybe give him some ideas how to fix it moid superior genetics extremely high iq male

Foids really do be yapping to much, identifying the problem is the first step dumb bitch
.org just takes forever to verify accounts

 

[benny]

Well for childhood trauma you have to identify which personal traits were caused by this and identify why. Then you have to find a personal way to not blame yourself for them and recognize you were innocent and people treated you wrong and it wasn’t your fault

For depression you probably would need a outlet this is finding the feelings you hold deep, (fear, anger, resentment, sadness) and finding a way to let them out, like crying, screaming, hugging, a truthful conversation of embarrassing topics, even a walk or meditation, can be the difference between emptiness and fulfillment

If it’s a copeing mechanism you just half to be aware when it’s active and break the habit through will power, your subconscious mind is trying to keep you safe but this mechanism is hurting you so you have to break the habit consciously

goat thank you your kindness and advice means a lot to me