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I dont think i can ever love someone

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I can, i dont know if its love but i can find people cute for a while and be somewhat obsessed
but then after a while im not honestly, this has happened in every relationship etc
 
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I can, i dont know if its love but i can find people cute for a while and be somewhat obsessed
but then after a while im not honestly, this has happened in every relationship etc
You can never truly love someone, just admire the reflect you think they paint of you
 
I can, i dont know if its love but i can find people cute for a while and be somewhat obsessed
but then after a while im not honestly, this has happened in every relationship etc
This same for me but I’m not chad enough to date them lol
 
Id only be in love with Stacy
None of these girls are worth my time
 
I can, i dont know if its love but i can find people cute for a while and be somewhat obsessed
but then after a while im not honestly, this has happened in every relationship etc
same but not really but same
i feel like when i have a child ill truly love them but that doesn’t really count
 
I think you can't ever tell untill you reach a certain point in your life. You have to develope the emotional maturity and meet the right person.

I believe most people only love maybe 1 person romantically in their entire lives if that.
 
I believe most people only love maybe 1 person romantically in their entire lives if that.
i dont know if it was 'love' or just obsession but i was into someone like that for 2-3 years
 
Because oxytocin is released from even things as small as a hug. Doesn't mean you love the person.

You can have the love hormone and still cheat, lie, abuse, etc. We wouldn't consider it love logistically however.

Love is a doing word
 
youre confusing crushing on people with loving people
love and dating should not be only about looking good. the person must fulfill what lacks in your life and you should do the same for them
 
what is love and then whats obsession whats the difference
Obsession is being infatuated with the idea of a person rather than the reality of them. You can put them on a pedestal and convince yourself you need them, but in all reality they're not anything special for you. You don't care about them enough to go drastic lengths for them, they don't compare to the people you really love like family for example. Obsession will fade once it runs out of fuel.
 
Because oxytocin is released from even things as small as a hug. Doesn't mean you love the person.
very true
You can have the love hormone and still cheat, lie, abuse, etc. We wouldn't consider it love logistically however.
abuse i agree, but i do think it’s possible to still love someone and lie and cheat. not defending it at all it’s wrong but i think it happens
Love is a doing word
also agree to me love is putting someone’s best interest before yours
 
Obsession is being infatuated with the idea of a person rather than the reality of them. You can put them on a pedestal and convince yourself you need them, but in all reality they're not anything special for you. You don't care about them enough to go drastic lengths for them, they don't compare to the people you really love like family for example. Obsession will fade once it runs out of fuel.
guess thats the only thing ive ever felt romantically
 
but i do think it’s possible to still love someone and lie and cheat. not defending it at all it’s wrong but i think it happens
Then what's the difference between like and love? People always say hates a strong word but what about love?

I think you're just undermining what love is as many do.
 
Then what's the difference between like and love? People always say hates a strong word but what about love?

I think you're just undermining what love is as many do.
imo love to me is more of actions than feelings.

A girl can "love" me but if she cheats, lies and goes behind my back is it really love.

And I'm a neurodivergent person I can't really feel love but I'd like to experience it
 
Then what's the difference between like and love? People always say hates a strong word but what about love?
liking someone is being attracted to them, love is putting their needs before ones own. i realized i contradicted myself there so you’re right
I think you're just undermining what love is as many do.
i probably am tbh if im being real
 
love is probably the main thing in alot of peoples life, family and stuff
I believe deep down the real achievement is the real treasure in life is learning new stuff and progressing as a person first, then the other stuff can be built on it later on, which would be better quality and eaisier imo
 
I believe deep down the real achievement is the real treasure in life is learning new stuff and progressing as a person first, then the other stuff can be built on it later on, which would be better quality and eaisier imo
true but life is supposed to be built on a family ig thats society most people dont end up doing what they want or be independent in that regard
 
true but life is supposed to be built on a family ig thats society most people dont end up doing what they want or be independent in that regard
Partially correct, You dont need to start a family perse, I would like to one day myself. Family is serious business so marrying later on is a good option
 
Partially correct, You dont need to start a family perse, I would like to one day myself. Family is serious business so marrying later on is a good option
is it even likely u get someone ud wanna be with forever, most couples end up fighting
 
I can, i dont know if its love but i can find people cute for a while and be somewhat obsessed
but then after a while im not honestly, this has happened in every relationship etc
I don’t think I can ever be loved… we are not the same
 

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