I feel off

[neymar]

I was talking about jobs with this girl and I told her about this job I got offered and her reaction was superrrr surprised (she is dramatic in general but still)

She then said “i cant imagine you working” and “I need to look after u”………

In the moment I brushed it off to not look sensitive but this shit is replaying in my head, i feel super emasculated. I try telling myself she doesnt know me like that, what does she know ect but at the end of the day I opened up to her very quickly and her stupid comments got to me. I thought of myself as a quietly ambitious person, maybe I dont make it super known or I come off as relaxed which I can be too but damn she be making harsh comments sometimes that mess with my brain.

Not sure what her goal was or if its even that deep for me to bring it up again but yeah I feel weird and kinda disrespected or maybe misunderstood

 

[97baHater]

n***a told her I want to be an engineer

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

I lwk feel like she was flirting with that second comment bro

 

[cloUder]

Wet fart

 

[neymar]

I lwk feel like she was flirting with that second comment bro

Nah it sounds very infanatalising. If she was she couldve said “u need to look after me”

 

[neymar]

n***a told her I want to be an engineer

I told her I wanted to be a fireman but I ended up going to uni so idk yet

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Nah it sounds very infanatalising. If she was she couldve said “u need to look after me”

Idk girls sometimes like to "baby" their men. It probably wasn't her intent to totally emasculate you maybe she didn't have bad intentions. U shoulda asked her how she'd take care of you lmao

 

[Sovvton]

calling it out in the moment is the best thing you can do whenever a girl pisses you off, dont bring up something that happened in the past even if it really urked you, instead of thinking about what they did wrong they'll immediately view you as a cuck

also ik i cant control your feelings but this is a very minor and you're blowing this out of proportion, if you really think she was being infantilising then keep it in the back of your mind and be ready to call her out or cut her off next time it happens

is it a friend or someone you're talking to

 

[Whitepill]

Idk girls sometimes like to "baby" their men. It probably wasn't her intent to totally emasculate you maybe she didn't have bad intentions. U shoulda asked her how she'd take care of you lmao

Yapping, no they dont (im stone cold and wouldnt know)

 

[97baHater]

Idk girls sometimes like to "baby" their men. It probably wasn't her intent to totally emasculate you maybe she didn't have bad intentions. U shoulda asked her how she'd take care of you lmao

I’d block my gf if she did that shit that’s just cuckoldry

I told her I wanted to be a fireman but I ended up going to uni so idk yet

What? Why would she get this reaction from this job?

 

[neymar]

What? Why would she get this reaction from this job?

She legit gasped that’s fucked up imo
Idk why

 

[neymar]

calling it out in the moment is the best thing you can do whenever a girl pisses you off, dont bring up something that happened in the past even if it really urked you, instead of thinking about what they did wrong they'll immediately view you as a cuck

also ik i cant control your feelings but this is a very minor and you're blowing this out of proportion, if you really think she was being infantilising then keep it in the back of your mind and be ready to call her out or cut her off next time it happens

is it a friend or someone you're talking to

I didn’t wanna seem insecure in the moment and its somebody I’m talking to

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

She legit gasped that’s fucked up imo
Idk why

Maybe she gasped bc she orgasmed. Firefighters are hot

 

[Sovvton]

I didn’t wanna seem insecure in the moment and its somebody I’m talking to

it only seems insecure if you go about it in a butthurt way

all you needed to do is look at her confused and ask if shes saying you're incapable or something like that

the fact you didnt go along with it would let her know you wont take disrespect and make her never want to do it again bc of how awkward it is when you say sum shit and the other person presses you

 

[neymar]

it only seems insecure if you go about it in a butthurt way

all you needed to do is look at her confused and ask if shes saying you're incapable or something like that

the fact you didnt go along with it would let her know you wont take disrespect and make her never want to do it again bc of how awkward it is when you say sum shit and the other person presses you

I wish I wasnt mentally slow

 

[Deleted Member 38053]

I was talking about jobs with this girl and I told her about this job I got offered and her reaction was superrrr surprised (she is dramatic in general but still)

She then said “i cant imagine you working” and “I need to look after u”………

In the moment I brushed it off to not look sensitive but this shit is replaying in my head, i feel super emasculated. I try telling myself she doesnt know me like that, what does she know ect but at the end of the day I opened up to her very quickly and her stupid comments got to me. I thought of myself as a quietly ambitious person, maybe I dont make it super known or I come off as relaxed which I can be too but damn she be making harsh comments sometimes that mess with my brain.

Not sure what her goal was or if its even that deep for me to bring it up again but yeah I feel weird and kinda disrespected or maybe misunderstood

thats flirting i feel like

 

[TonyDr]

She then said “i cant imagine you working” and “I need to look after u”………

It's not emasculating she just want to treat you like a king

If she wasn't into you you'll be full time beta buxxer