Serious I feel so stupid for this

[iletheile]

I really love my bf but I have no clue what to do I've struggled with the same things but I just stopped cause I saw no point like he harms himself and I'm pretty sure he starves himself too and I genuinely cry over it it's not about me ofc and I try to tell him so much that he can talk to me but I'm just useless in helping cause I know he never will and he avoids topics like that I just want him to be happy

 

[splanky]

I really love my bf but I have no clue what to do I've struggled with the same things but I just stopped cause I saw no point like he harms himself and I'm pretty sure he starves himself too and I genuinely cry over it it's not about me ofc and I try to tell him so much that he can talk to me but I'm just useless in helping cause I know he never will and he avoids topics like that I just want him to be happy

do u try talking to him abt ur issues?

 

[Ramus]

I really love my bf but I have no clue what to do I've struggled with the same things but I just stopped cause I saw no point like he harms himself and I'm pretty sure he starves himself too and I genuinely cry over it it's not about me ofc and I try to tell him so much that he can talk to me but I'm just useless in helping cause I know he never will and he avoids topics like that I just want him to be happy

well my girlfriend tells me that we are so connected if i get hurt she gets hurt and she owns me too

 

[iletheile]

do u try talking to him abt ur issues?

Not really but that was years ago now I'm not really struggling with it now, we've talked about it beforehand but not in the period I was struggling cause I didn't wanna worry him

 

[iletheile]

well my girlfriend tells me that we are so connected if i get hurt she gets hurt and she owns me too

Owns?? I don't think I'm going to tell that to my bf We're very connected but I'm 99% sure he wouldn't like that

 

[splanky]

Not really but that was years ago now I'm not really struggling with it now, we've talked about it beforehand but not in the period I was struggling cause I didn't wanna worry him

awh i’m sorry
i really hope things get better for u and u two can work this out

 

[iletheile]

awh i’m sorry
i really hope things get better for u and u two can work this out

Yeah I hope so too I'm just so worried about him I feel so shit for not being able to help cause man every time I bring it up he's like it's ok it's ok it's ok I'm ok it's alright it's whatever like bro

 

[Ramus]

Owns?? I don't think I'm going to tell that to my bf We're very connected but I'm 99% sure he wouldn't like that

well shes my master bcos im into puppyplay and i like it but whatever he likes of course

 

[splanky]

Yeah I hope so too I'm just so worried about him I feel so shit for not being able to help cause man every time I bring it up he's like it's ok it's ok it's ok I'm ok it's alright it's whatever like bro

hmm
just try making him feel comfortable enough to talk maybe? it sucks ik but for things to get better he has to communicate