i never get approached except in one scenario and it always happens the same way in my uni for an entire course theres a guy who i see looking at me a lot & im VERY quiet I dont engage at so they dont actually know anything about me & in the last weekish theyll always talk to me for the first time but dont ask for my insta or anything and I think its bc they didnt realize how weird i am so they had an idea that I was mysterious or cool and then found out im actually weird