i fuckup things too much

[Aryy]

everything i do i fucked up idk why im jusr not trying at all

 

[1894]

we talked about this I think

 

[Aryy]

we talked about this I think

i dont know what to do ive always done this all my life i just cant do anything right i dont wanna do anything it all fails

 

[giga.mia]

What happened

 

[Aryy]

What happened

Test
it went so bad idk why i
it always goes so bad like maybe its because i dont put effort into it
i hate it

 

[1894]

i dont know what to do ive always done this all my life i just cant do anything right i dont wanna do anything it all fails

start by recognizing the patterns of your previous mistakes and work on fixing them try to understand what’s wrong what really happened and then work on it, although I know you’re looking for emotional support rather than logical solutions in this thread but I’m not sure exactly how can I do that so consider me trying to help as an emotional support

 

[Aryy]

start by recognizing the patterns of your previous mistakes and work on fixing them try to understand what’s wrong what really happened and then work on it, although I know you’re looking for emotional support rather than logical solutions in this thread but I’m not sure exactly how can I do that so consider me trying to help as an emotional support

some things i dont even wanna fix like its just how ive always been, but its bad and stuff like ive just akways been used to it but i always get told to fix it

 

[Xx_JihadiNafriggER22_xX]

everything i do i fucked up idk why im jusr not trying at all

 

[Aryy]

what

 

[1894]

some things i dont even wanna fix like its just how ive always been, but its bad and stuff like ive just akways been used to it but i always get told to fix it

Look I think you should fix the habits that will make your life worst over time if repeated if you know they gonna make your life worse work on them

 

[Aryy]

Look I think you should fix the habits that will make your life worst over time if repeated if you know they gonna make your life worse work on them

its like complicated
my mom always says i spend too much money and i should learn to save up etc, but i dont think id be happy if i dint
but i should for long term
so im not sure

2nd im really shy irl like ive spoken about it alot, on this like idk im just so used to it its gonna be hard to even fix it to a degree

 

[Xx_JihadiNafriggER22_xX]

what

dis u bro?

 

[1894]

its like complicated
my mom always says i spend too much money and i should learn to save up etc, but i dont think id be happy if i dint
but i should for long term
so im not sure

2nd im really shy irl like ive spoken about it alot, on this like idk im just so used to it its gonna be hard to even fix it to a degree

you’re preferring short term happiness over the long term one it’s shown even in your screen time you prolly prefer short dopamine spikes over studying or doing something meaningful that’s gonna have a bigger award but it’s delayed and will require some work, pretty sure there are many videos on yt over this topic look it up cause it’s too long to write here in detail

About the shy part you’re shy because you care about fitting in and being accepted by peers so much try to change your way of thinking from I’m trying to impress / not get judged to I’m trying to have fun

 

[Aryy]

you’re preferring short term happiness over the long term one it’s shown even in your screen time you prolly prefer short dopamine spikes over studying or doing something meaningful that’s gonna have a bigger award but it’s delayed and will require some work, pretty sure there are many videos on yt over this topic look it up cause it’s too long to write here in detail

About the shy part you’re shy because you care about fitting in and being accepted by peers so much try to change your way of thinking from I’m trying to impress / not get judged to I’m trying to have fun

im not sure what to do should i even try to change it

 

[1894]

im not sure what to do should i even try to change it

Yah you should you got nothing to loose anyways