I got diagnosed with another thing

[Garce]

How do you get past a diagnosis of a chronic illness with no cure

 

[Salluson]

How do you get past a diagnosis of a chronic illness with no cure

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Depends on the illness

 

[Trevor]

What illness

 

[foidslayer]

How do you get past a diagnosis of a chronic illness with no cure

Do as much good as you can in the world before passing along. Explore the beauties earth has to offer.

If you're going out atleast go out in peace and knowing you don't have any regrets.

 

[Garce]

Depends on the illness

It pretty much ruins my mental health forever

 

[submissivechud]

How do you get past a diagnosis of a chronic illness with no cure

as long as it isnt life threatening then you just kinda live around it, i have a uncurable mental disease and my life doesnt really differ from before the diagnosis, def not the same as ur thing ofc but the main thing is, you dont get past it you just stay around jt

 

[Garce]

What illness

I had diagnosed before with dysthymia before which long term depression and adjustment disorder and now they diagnosed me with BPD

 

[Garce]

Do as much good as you can in the world before passing along. Explore the beauties earth has to offer.

If you're going out atleast go out in peace and knowing you don't have any regrets.

It’s a mental illness

 

[foidslayer]

It’s a mental illness

I thought otherwise.

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

It pretty much ruins my mental health forever

Pretty sure I’ll look for meds that can possibly make it easier, my favorite cope tbh to get over anything that I’m gonna die anyways so I’ll just try to do the most I can with whatever I got

 

[Garce]

as long as it isnt life threatening then you just kinda live around it, i have a uncurable mental disease and my life doesnt really differ from before the diagnosis, def not the same as ur thing ofc but the main thing is, you dont get past it you just stay around jt

The thing I was talking about is BPD and it did change my life because now I have to accept I’m not gonna get better

 

[ᴬᵈᵃᵐ]

How do you get past a diagnosis of a chronic illness with no cure

Just need to die I guess

 

[Garce]

I thought otherwise.

Haha I got it from the thread

 

[Garce]

Pretty sure I’ll look for meds that can possibly make it easier, my favorite cope tbh to get over anything that I’m gonna die anyways so I’ll just try to do the most I can with whatever I got

I tried ending myself in August so living my life is not a thing that makes me happy to think about

 

[submissivechud]

The thing I was talking about is BPD and it did change my life because now I have to accept I’m not gonna get better

i mean yeah i js said that lol, u don't get "past" it

 

[Vancleef]

How do you get past a diagnosis of a chronic illness with no cure

sometime, after a lot of cries, to see some beauty in faith.
If it’s deadly, live like it’s not eternal. If it’s not, hold on hope.

 

[submissivechud]

sometime, after a lot of cries, to see some beauty in faith.
If it’s deadly, live like it’s not eternal. If it’s not, hold on hope.

n***a hold hope for what, its uncurable

 

[foidslayer]

I tried ending myself in August so living my life is not a thing that makes me happy to think about

God will reward you for the hardships you had to go through, just remember god doesn't put upon your soul what you can't handle. Me personally I suffer from alot of mental problems, but instead of blaming it for my downfall I chose to rise above it.

If you don't believe in God take this as a piece of advice that you are stronger than the challenges you face.

 

[Garce]

n***a hold hope for what, its uncurable

Ong I just need to suffer and be on medication my whole life

 

[Vancleef]

n***a hold hope for what, its uncurable

what else would u do? K*s? Waiting?
use ur brain before ur damn fingers

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

I tried ending myself in August so living my life is not a thing that makes me happy to think about

look I understand that you’re going through so much pain etc I don’t think most people enjoy living but they try to find happiness in it somehow try to be as positive as you can is all I can say although i understand you like i really do

 

[Trevor]

I had diagnosed before with dysthymia before which long term depression and adjustment disorder and now they diagnosed me with BPD

Mann you can get over that
Just be happy

 

[submissivechud]

Ong I just need to suffer and be on medication my whole life

i mean bpd def isnt the worst uncurable thing ever, not rlly permanent suffering js suffering like half the time

 

[submissivechud]

what else would u do? K*s? Waiting?
use ur brain before ur damn fingers

no js deal w it lol, hoping for something to change when it wont just leads to dissapointment

 

[Garce]

God will reward you for the hardships you had to go through, just remember god doesn't put upon your soul what you can't handle. Me personally I suffer from alot of mental problems, but instead of blaming it for my downfall I chose to rise above it.

If you don't believe in God take this as a piece of advice that you are stronger than the challenges you face.

It is inspiring but I unfortunately don’t really have hope it’s being going like that from third grade , my first attempt was around fourth grade .
I’m happy you can handle it well , no I don’t believe in any god I just believe there’s a “power above” but I’m not strong enough to handle myself tbh

 

[Garce]

i mean bpd def isnt the worst uncurable thing ever, not rlly permanent suffering js suffering like half the time

I have it combined with dysthymia so it is pretty much all the time , also emotions change so quick I can feel happy max two hours at a time in my case

 

[Vancleef]

no js deal w it lol, hoping for something to change when it wont just leads to dissapointment

yeah that’s called being hopeful or finding some, even delusional, good parts in this mess

 

[submissivechud]

God will reward you for the hardships you had to go through, just remember god doesn't put upon your soul what you can't handle. Me personally I suffer from alot of mental problems, but instead of blaming it for my downfall I chose to rise above it.

If you don't believe in God take this as a piece of advice that you are stronger than the challenges you face.

god does not make any one suffer nor does he stop suffering, hope and beleif in god is great but saying shit like that can lead to people losing faith due to mis info. god puts nothing in anyones souls, he created the universe, sent jesus and will most likely never interfere with the world until doomsday.

 

[foidslayer]

It is inspiring but I unfortunately don’t really have hope it’s being going like that from third grade , my first attempt was around fourth grade .
I’m happy you can handle it well , no I don’t believe in any god I just believe there’s a “power above” but I’m not strong enough to handle myself tbh

You underestimate the human capabilities. Just because they tell you that you need "fixing" doesn't mean that you're broken. They outcast people like us and try to fix us with meds because their puny brains can't comprehend that they can coexist with us peacefully and practically. Many great minds have fell because of this, so I tell you this as to grow a seed of hope inside you.

Being a human doesn't mean to not be different. Part of being human is understanding that you're put at the top of the food chain as an apex predator, so thinking you can't handle hardships is false as your mind is vast, and your body strong.

 

[submissivechud]

You underestimate the human capabilities. Just because they tell you that you need "fixing" doesn't mean that you're broken. They outcast people like us and try to fix us with meds because their puny brains can't comprehend that they can coexist with us peacefully and practically. Many great minds have fell because of this, so I tell you this as to grow a seed of hope inside you.

Being a human doesn't mean to not be different. Part of being human is understanding that you're put at the top of the food chain as an apex predator, so thinking you can't handle hardships is false as your mind is vast, and your body strong.

i dont mean this in a mean way but many people are geniunly just lowk iq or eq and cant handle experiences like this

 

[foidslayer]

god does not make any one suffer nor does he stop suffering, hope and beleif in god is great but saying shit like that can lead to people losing faith due to mis info. god puts nothing in anyones souls, he created the universe, sent jesus and will most likely never interfere with the world until doomsday.

I believe in jesus as a prophet and I respect Christianity. I believe we were put here on earth as a test to seperate the good from the evil and to see if you deserve to go to heaven or be cast to hell. Tests aren't easy and they come with hardships, but the outcome is worth it.

 

[submissivechud]

I believe in jesus as a prophet and I respect Christianity. I believe we were put here on earth as a test to seperate the good from the evil and to see if you deserve to go to heaven or be cast to hell. Tests aren't easy and they come with hardships, but the outcome is worth it.

ofc and thats a perfectly fine beleif but god causes nothing we go through in this life, he created the universe and put jesus on earth but after that all of his actions would interfere with free will which would lead to christianity being self conflicting

 

[Garce]

You underestimate the human capabilities. Just because they tell you that you need "fixing" doesn't mean that you're broken. They outcast people like us and try to fix us with meds because their puny brains can't comprehend that they can coexist with us peacefully and practically. Many great minds have fell because of this, so I tell you this as to grow a seed of hope inside you.

Being a human doesn't mean to not be different. Part of being human is understanding that you're put at the top of the food chain as an apex predator, so thinking you can't handle hardships is false as your mind is vast, and your body strong.

I definitely look sane outside so I don’t think people ca just figure that out without knowing me personally I’m not scared of that , unfortunately I’m not sure if I can grow any hope as this being going as far as i remember myself truly from third grade , I can understand your vision and it is beautiful tbh

 

[submissivechud]

I definitely look sane outside so I don’t think people ca just figure that out without knowing me personally I’m not scared of that , unfortunately I’m not sure if I can grow any hope as this being going as far as i remember myself truly from third grade , I can understand your vision and it is beautiful tbh

imma bfr if u can try to find a great human being (ie a boyfriend or best friend), if u cant handle your emotions your selfe having someone you can fully trust and love whether platonically or romantically is a good help

 

[Garce]

i dont mean this in a mean way but many people are geniunly just lowk iq or eq and cant handle experiences like this

Most people are low iq , I don’t feel fun speaking to an average iq person either , their perspective can be quite superficial a lot of times and their general knowledge narrow .
Just not interesting to speak to mentally or intellectually most of the time .

 

[foidslayer]

ofc and thats a perfectly fine beleif but god causes nothing we go through in this life, he created the universe and put jesus on earth but after that all of his actions would interfere with free will which would lead to christianity being self conflicting

I'm not that well-versed in Christianity, so correct me if I'm wrong but I have done some research.

I understand the concern about protecting free will, and that’s a thoughtful point. But in Christianity, God’s involvement isn’t seen as forcing people’s choices it’s more like guidance that can still be accepted or rejected. So His actions don’t cancel free will; they exist alongside it, allowing people to remain truly free while still being cared for and guided.

 

[Garce]

imma bfr if u can try to find a great human being (ie a boyfriend or best friend), if u cant handle your emotions your selfe having someone you can fully trust and love whether platonically or romantically is a good help

I’m not trying to feel like a burden I can cope but not handle myself completely.

 

[slim_jim001]

I had diagnosed before with dysthymia before which long term depression and adjustment disorder and now they diagnosed me with BPD

bro im showing emerging signs of bpd and my mom has it i might rope

 

[Garce]

bro im showing emerging signs of bpd and my mom has it i might rope

Well can cope don’t you worry , how old are you if I can ask , because mostly it is diagnosed from 18+ because of more stabilization.
I’m 17 close to 18 and I know I have it because my doctor said it after 3 years of me being his patient

 

[slim_jim001]

Well can cope don’t you worry , how old are you if I can ask , because mostly it is diagnosed from 18+ because of more stabilization.
I’m 17 close to 18 and I know I have it because my doctor said it after 3 years of me being his patient

15 and yeh they just gave me eveyr diagnoses besided bpd cause they cant diagnose me they put me on anti depressient and mood stabilizer and just diagnosed me with complex ptsd and depresion

 

[foidslayer]

I definitely look sane outside so I don’t think people ca just figure that out without knowing me personally I’m not scared of that , unfortunately I’m not sure if I can grow any hope as this being going as far as i remember myself truly from third grade , I can understand your vision and it is beautiful tbh

I really respect how self-aware you are about everything you’ve been through. I’ve had my own struggles too growing up with a lot of challenges and things going on in my mind that made life harder but again I didn’t let that define where I’d end up. It took time, but I learned that even if your mind works differently, it doesn’t take away your ability to be a good, strong high-functioning person.

What you’re dealing with doesn’t mean there’s no hope it just means your path might look different. You’re still capable of growth and becoming someone you’re proud of. You’re not broken, just having a life harder than most and that doesn’t disqualify you from a good life at all.

 

[Garce]

15 and yeh they just gave me eveyr diagnoses besided bpd cause they cant diagnose me they put me on anti depressient and mood stabilizer and just diagnosed me with complex ptsd and depresion

Don’t diagnose yourself then , you can think of it but self diagnosis is just not it - I thought I had different things from bpd but trust licensed doctors know better then you do

 

[Garce]

I really respect how self-aware you are about everything you’ve been through. I’ve had my own struggles too growing up with a lot of challenges and things going on in my mind that made life harder but again I didn’t let that define where I’d end up. It took time, but I learned that even if your mind works differently, it doesn’t take away your ability to be a good, strong high-functioning person.

What you’re dealing with doesn’t mean there’s no hope it just means your path might look different. You’re still capable of growth and becoming someone you’re proud of. You’re not broken, just having a life harder than most and that doesn’t disqualify you from a good life at all.

I’m not disqualifying myself completely but it gets in the way hard, I know I am high functioning but dealing with it is not something I feel ready for

 

[foidslayer]

I’m not disqualifying myself completely but it gets in the way hard, I know I am high functioning but dealing with it is not something I feel ready for

That’s completely okay you don’t have to be ready for everything right now. Just take it one small step at a time, you’re already doing enough.

 

[slim_jim001]

I’m not disqualifying myself completely but it gets in the way hard, I know I am high functioning but dealing with it is not something I feel ready for

dont let it alienate you