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as a teen i used to love making girls attached to me, i valued attachment more than love because it boosted my ego
nowadays it honestly just comes to realize that attachment is basically built from fear for the most part, scared she won’t find someone else or maybe scared to let go of you because you guys already came so far together, it’s not actual love or real attraction
it’s just honestly fucked tbh, i’d rather be with a girl who actually loves me than a girl who is obsessively attached to me, which is probably a hot take but it took me a while to actually snap into reality when it came to it
nowadays it honestly just comes to realize that attachment is basically built from fear for the most part, scared she won’t find someone else or maybe scared to let go of you because you guys already came so far together, it’s not actual love or real attraction
it’s just honestly fucked tbh, i’d rather be with a girl who actually loves me than a girl who is obsessively attached to me, which is probably a hot take but it took me a while to actually snap into reality when it came to it