i hate talkimg stages

[swanneo]

So they can talk to other girls and don't actually have to treat u like a real gf also easier to just use you in general without labels

well yes keep this in mind hannah ^

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

i haven't even had that

Online sex is really stupid especially if you are a virgin
Don’t worry, you are 15

 

[bby]

well yes keep this in mind hannah ^

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

So they can talk to other girls and don't actually have to treat u like a real gf also easier to just use you in general without labels

Yeah if your not overly possessive its over

 

[Penalizer69]

Yeah if your not overly possessive its over

If they want to they will. It's @over0

 

[bby]

Yeah if your not overly possessive its over

ropefuel

 

[pompompurino]

Yeah if your not overly possessive its over

ong if u don’t wanna kill anyone who talks to ur shyt do u even want them fr

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

ropefuel

one day I will call you and tell you everything I know + what to do

 

[Byro]

we should get rid of tjem theyre so dumb and pointless

You are right talking stages are silly “talking stage” is the fact of dating but there is no dating?? it’s a testing phase before the actual dating surely it would be better to become friends before dating before labelling it as something romantic.? Just my opinion

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

ong if u don’t wanna kill anyone who talks to ur shyt do u even want them fr

bro even if he was the last guy in the world, if they still want him then I want em gone

 

[pompompurino]

ropefuel

wait wait don’t actually take that seriously, what i said was a joke as well. being possessive is wrong and extremely exhausting on both people, a relationship is built on trust.

 

[Duchesse]

i shouldve specified, i hate long talking stages

dating after 1 day is unironically better

 

[Penalizer69]

one day I will call you and tell you everything I know + what to do

 

[bby]

You are right talking stages are silly “talking stage” is the fact of dating but there is no dating?? it’s a testing phase before the actual dating surely it would be better to become friends before dating before labelling it as something romantic.? Just my opinion

just hurts so much more bc u view them romantically but theyre able to do whatever they want and u cant get mad or express that ur upset bc ur not technically dating

 

[我愛羅]

Age

what are you even saying

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

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Noooo im the boss around here

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

dating after 1 day is unironically better

I agree, the best relationships I have had were born without pretense and developed very quickly

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

what are you even saying

How old are you more or less

 

[我愛羅]

How old are you more or less

uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I’m 5 years old

 

[Deleted Member 70402]

wait wait don’t actually take that seriously, what i said was a joke as well. being possessive is wrong and extremely exhausting on both people, a relationship is built on trust.

this is only in our dreams rip

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I’m 5 years old

Yeah me too

 

[bby]

wait wait don’t actually take that seriously, what i said was a joke as well. being possessive is wrong and extremely exhausting on both people, a relationship is built on trust.

i wish i was able to set boundaries

 

[candycaro]

I HATE IT like why are guys so against labels

They’re not

 

[Penalizer69]

Yeah me too

Creepy old man stranger danger

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

talking stages are tiring (especially for me and some others), useless because they become specious and stagnant

 

[bby]

They’re not

a lot of them arw

 

[Byro]

just hurts so much more bc u view them romantically but theyre able to do whatever they want and u cant get mad or express that ur upset bc ur not technically dating

The fact of that is if you are putting romantic energy in and they aren’t reciprocating you are just getting played I got led on by a girl for like 6 months for her to just get with a new guy without any repercussions. Talking stages are a stupid construct that doesn’t make sense being FRIENDS before dating makes sense because you can keep things Yk not serious but the stage where you genuinely want to explore there deeper emotions and connect with them and put an effort in is where you should ideally date talking stages are nothing but glorified stages of puppy love with no repercussions

 

[我愛羅]

Yeah me too

u are literally lying

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

u are literally lying

How old am I

 

[pompompurino]

i wish i was able to set boundaries

sometimes u rlly want to please the person ur with and i understand that, it’s hard when u want to make a person rlly like u. BUT u have to be firm with it and stand ur ground, u cannot just let someone walk all over u. if they truly like u, some boundaries wouldn’t ruin what u both have.

 

[bby]

The fact of that is if you are putting romantic energy in and they aren’t reciprocating you are just getting played I got led on by a girl for like 6 months for her to just get with a new guy without any repercussions. Talking stages are a stupid construct that doesn’t make sense being FRIENDS before dating makes sense because you can keep things Yk not serious but the stage where you genuinely want to explore there deeper emotions and connect with them and put an effort in is where you should ideally date talking stages are nothing but glorified stages of puppy love with no repercussions

do u want me to kill myself

 

[candycaro]

a lot of them arw

“If he wanted to he would”. Just means he didn’t wanna label *you*. Which isn’t a you problem. Find a guy that actually likes you (easier said than done).

 

[Deleted Member 65979]

i haven't even had that

brutal, shit happens so randomly tho

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

u are literally lying

Was that your first jfl?

 

[Byro]

do u want me to kill myself

Just the truth lmao

 

[我愛羅]

How old am I

idk???

 

[我愛羅]

Was that your first jfl?

uhmmm no I did another one to someone else I think

 

[bby]

sometimes u rlly want to please the person ur with and i understand that, it’s hard when u want to make a person rlly like u. BUT u have to be firm with it and stand ur ground, u cannot just let someone walk all over u. if they truly like u, some boundaries wouldn’t ruin what u both have.

dude im a people pleaser even with ppl i have no relationship with like random strangers idk whats wrong w me

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

uhmmm no I did another one to someone else I think

better, gold reactions are tiring

idk???

5

 

[Byro]

dude im a people pleaser even with ppl i have no relationship with like random strangers idk whats wrong w me

Get some grit maybe people pleasing sucks balls I hate it I love this forum so I can be brutally honest and actually help people to choose what to do with the information I give them

 

[我愛羅]

better, gold reactions are tiring



5

*gold react*

 

[Deleted Member 75153]

*gold react*

I’m 25, get lost now

 

[bby]

Get some grit maybe people pleasing sucks balls I hate it I love this forum so I can be brutally honest and actually help people to choose what to do with the information I give them

easier said than done bud

 

[Byro]

easier said than done bud

Touche but the first step to Yk improving is action

 

[GayGymMaxx]

we should get rid of tjem theyre so dumb and pointless

You're female so you can just say "let's fuck" and it will work

 

[pompompurino]

dude im a people pleaser even with ppl i have no relationship with like random strangers idk whats wrong w me

nothing ur just very caring but u have to start standing up for urself

 

[Deleted Member 65979]

You're female so you can just say "let's fuck" and it will work

id honestly think theyre trolling me and say no to save aura

 

[swanneo]

dude im a people pleaser even with ppl i have no relationship with like random strangers idk whats wrong w me

i totally get this. its very hard not to do this haha you kind of have to rewire your whole way of thinking

 

[GayGymMaxx]

id honestly think theyre trolling me and say no to save aura

n***a wat

 

[Byro]

n***a wat

Ngl if I was a girl I’d do that for black mail id be rolling in the cash