Hypothesis I like that people are mean to you here

[junebug]

I called myself "kinda mid-tier" in one of my friend groups and had literally everyone arguing with me that I was beautiful and amazing and then I come here and get called average or even below. it's nice that we kind of don't care about feelings here because it leads to actual improvement.

I also discussed weight loss with some people irl and they were all like "but you look normal..." or "what you're already skinny" but if you ask for weightloss advice here people just kind of assume you're fat and give you tips regardless

 

[nomi]

I called myself "kinda mid-tier" in one of my friend groups and had literally everyone arguing with me that I was beautiful and amazing and then I come here and get called average or even below. it's nice that we kind of don't care about feelings here because it leads to actual improvement.

I also discussed weight loss with some people irl and they were all like "but you look normal..." or "what you're already skinny" but if you ask for weightloss advice here people just kind of assume you're fat and give you tips regardless

it's more realistic, ppl irl only tell you what you wanna hear it's so annoying
getting bullied motivates me

 

[junebug]

it's more realistic, ppl irl only tell you what you wanna hear it's so annoying
getting bullied motivates me

exactly

also I used to be very sensitive to criticism and like a month or two on the site completely fixed that. I think in January I would've cried if I got below average on anything but now it's just like "ok what are my steps from here"

 

[chudlite67]

I called myself "kinda mid-tier" in one of my friend groups and had literally everyone arguing with me that I was beautiful and amazing and then I come here and get called average or even below. it's nice that we kind of don't care about feelings here because it leads to actual improvement.

I also discussed weight loss with some people irl and they were all like "but you look normal..." or "what you're already skinny" but if you ask for weightloss advice here people just kind of assume you're fat and give you tips regardless

u are skinny tho

 

[junebug]

u are skinny tho

I appreciate it, but there are still places on my body where I want to drop just a little more.

 

[nomi]

exactly

also I used to be very sensitive to criticism and like a month or two on the site completely fixed that. I think in January I would've cried if I got below average on anything but now it's just like "ok what are my steps from here"

deadahh, I lost around 20lbs bc of .com my looks haven't changed dramatically but I def look better compared to when I first joined

 

[junebug]

deadahh, I lost around 20lbs bc of .com my looks haven't changed dramatically but I def look better compared to when I first joined

damn mirin. I'm trying to drop roughly 8 right now before my beach trip lol

 

[nomi]

damn mirin. I'm trying to drop roughly 8 right now before my beach trip lol

good luckk you got this junebug <3

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Woah didn't know you were into that too lol

 

[johnarcabob]

I called myself "kinda mid-tier" in one of my friend groups and had literally everyone arguing with me that I was beautiful and amazing and then I come here and get called average or even below. it's nice that we kind of don't care about feelings here because it leads to actual improvement.

I also discussed weight loss with some people irl and they were all like "but you look normal..." or "what you're already skinny" but if you ask for weightloss advice here people just kind of assume you're fat and give you tips regardless

I mean yeah cus it feels like you're talking to a wall when you're just sending forum posts to someone that you don't know, so you just kinda say whatever you want

 

[junebug]

I mean yeah cus it feels like you're talking to a wall when you're just sending forum posts to someone that you don't know, so you just kinda say whatever you want

yeah, no irl consequences to calling someone an ugly fat fuck

 

[Starlet]

I called myself "kinda mid-tier" in one of my friend groups and had literally everyone arguing with me that I was beautiful and amazing and then I come here and get called average or even below. it's nice that we kind of don't care about feelings here because it leads to actual improvement.

I also discussed weight loss with some people irl and they were all like "but you look normal..." or "what you're already skinny" but if you ask for weightloss advice here people just kind of assume you're fat and give you tips regardless

Genuinely the other day I heard a fat girl calling herself fat and like ok, but then her friend comes and goes “WHAT don’t say that about yourself you’re not fat” like bruh

 

[junebug]

Genuinely the other day I heard a fat girl calling herself fat and like ok, but then her friend comes and goes “WHAT don’t say that about yourself you’re not fat” like bruh

maybe girls want in on looksmaxxing spaces because all they get from their homegirls is glaze and we all know almost none of it is true

 

[giga.mia]

maybe girls want in on looksmaxxing spaces because all they get from their homegirls is glaze and we all know almost none of it is true

Exactly
You start to see through everyones soft bs they say to you, it’s all copium and a subtle tactic to prevent you from becoming the best you can be. It’s so funny to see it play out in real time

 

[Arya]

Genuinely the other day I heard a fat girl calling herself fat and like ok, but then her friend comes and goes “WHAT don’t say that about yourself you’re not fat” like bruh

srs jf someone says what do u even say u cant say yeah ur fat

 

[junebug]

srs jf someone says what do u even say u cant say yeah ur fat

just change the subject

 

[junebug]

Exactly
You start to see through everyones soft bs they say to you, it’s all copium and a subtle tactic to prevent you from becoming the best you can be. It’s so funny to see it play out in real time

I hate to say it but so many girls are just against each other
I wish I had more girl friends but I had to worry about so many of them being seconds away from sliming my ass out for the tiniest reason
You could atomize your homeboy's entire bloodline and he'd be mad at you for maybe an hour

 

[Starlet]

srs jf someone says what do u even say u cant say yeah ur fat

Idk maybe that’s why some people irl would and have described me as a mean bitch cause I lowkey would or try to spin it positive that idk “there’s options you could lose it” or ask them questions like “oh have you been trying to diet recently?” blah blah. Or also realistically I’d probably just stay quiet or give a one word response like “yeah” . Depends on the relationship you have with them but I hate lying and I think you could turn it into a conversation. It’s just ridiculous to me telling a fat person they’re not fat and she was literally acting like it was such a bad thing she said that and she was concerned for her

 

[Arya]

Idk maybe that’s why some people irl would and have described me as a mean bitch cause I lowkey would or try to spin it positive that idk “there’s options you could lose it” or ask them questions like “oh have you been trying to diet recently?” blah blah. Or also realistically I’d probably just stay quiet or give a one word response like “yeah” . Depends on the relationship you have with them but I hate lying and I think you could turn it into a conversation. It’s just ridiculous to me telling a fat person they’re not fat and she was literally acting like it was such a bad thing she said that and she was concerned for her

i know, they can literally see that their fat and its good for them overall to lose weight and u want that if u care about them but if u say something its bitchy
but sometimes i say ikr same i need to lose weight too and then it goes like a convo