I like this boy alright

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Lets call him Richy. Now, Richy probably likes me back, he stalks all my social media and always wants me to sit next to him. And there's another girl, let's call her Ellie. Ellie likes Richy, Richy has kissed Ellie and they cuddled for like 1 night at a party. Ellie asked Richie about it the next day and he pretended not to know what Ellie was talking about. Now, i know Ellie but I wouldnt say I'm friends with her and to be quite frank I dislike her, but she doesn't know that. Do I break girl code and get with Richy despite her situation or...

 

[Bideltoid]

Lets call him Richy. Now, Richy probably likes me back, he stalks all my social media and always wants me to sit next to him. And there's another girl, let's call her Ellie. Ellie likes Richy, Richy has kissed Ellie and they cuddled for like 1 night at a party. Ellie asked Richie about it the next day and he pretended not to know what Ellie was talking about. Now, i know Ellie but I wouldnt say I'm friends with her and to be quite frank I dislike her, but she doesn't know that. Do I break girl code and get with Richy despite her situation or...

I can't believe that earths finite resources are being wasted by people like you, richy and Ellie.

 

[LaWi]

Depends on how good you are with Ellie, if you’re really close friends, hang out often, support and text each other and if she‘s done lots for you, stay with her according to most morals and "girl code"

But honestly if I were you, go for Richie, you won’t know when you’re going to find someone again and I think relationships are more important than friendships (also depending on your relationship obviously and how long you’ve been friends with the person like I said)

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

I can't believe that earths finite resources are being wasted by people like you, richy and Ellie.

Give me a break yeah

 

[Angel]

girl code isn't real

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Depends on how good you are with Ellie, if you’re really close friends, hang out often, support and text each other and if she‘s done lots for you, stay with her according to most morals and "girl code"

But honestly if I were you, go for Richie, you won’t know when you’re going to find someone again and I think relationships are more important than friendships (also depending on your relationship obviously and how long you’ve been friends with the person like I said)

Im not rlly friends with her at all so ill probably go for him, thank you for the advice!

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

girl code isn't real

No it isn't but it's the closest thing I could find to explain this specific set of morals lol

 

[Bideltoid]

Give me a break yeah

Don't worry, inevitable is coming, you dumb fuck.

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Don't worry, inevitable is coming, you dumb fuck.

What could possibly be going on in your life that makes you feel so strongly about mine

 

[rand anon]

Y would u want Richie after that maynnn

 

[Bideltoid]

What could possibly be going on in your life that makes you feel so strongly about mine

Nah, I just get disgusted by people who don't put themselves over others.

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Y would u want Richie after that maynnn

I mean good point, but like Ellie is kinda a bitch so im telling myself he'll be different to me although we both know that prolly ain't true

 

[TonyDr]

Do I break girl code and get with Richy despite her situation or...

Just do a throuple so you can watch on the chair sis

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Nah, I just get disgusted by people who don't put themselves over others.

I mean i am though, I'm texting Richy as we speak lol

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Just do a throuple so you can watch on the chair sis

Good idea

 

[Bideltoid]

I mean i am though, I'm texting Richy as we speak lol

WOW SO COOL, GO GIRL
genuinely I don't give shit. not wasting my precious time on you
Good luck though with richy

 

[Hivemind]

Lets call him Richy. Now, Richy probably likes me back, he stalks all my social media and always wants me to sit next to him. And there's another girl, let's call her Ellie. Ellie likes Richy, Richy has kissed Ellie and they cuddled for like 1 night at a party. Ellie asked Richie about it the next day and he pretended not to know what Ellie was talking about. Now, i know Ellie but I wouldnt say I'm friends with her and to be quite frank I dislike her, but she doesn't know that. Do I break girl code and get with Richy despite her situation or...

Oh yeah let's chase the guy who will pretend he doesn't know you after cuddling with you. Omfg

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Oh yeah let's chase the guy who will pretend he doesn't know you after cuddling with you. Omfg

No listen you make a great point, like you really do, and I'm aware im probably being a dumbass but I like to tell myself hell be different to me because Ellie is highkey a complete asshole

 

[Hivemind]

No listen you make a great point, like you really do, and I'm aware im probably being a dumbass but I like to tell myself hell be different to me because Ellie is highkey a complete asshole

Eh that's nothing new to me. Probably a handsome guy.

 

[LeoK]

Girl code isn’t a universal rule, especially if you’re not actually friends with her. If Richy genuinely likes you and you’re interested in him, Ellie doesn’t get to claim him because they kissed and cuddled once. That said, the bigger issue is Richy pretending it never happened. Before you get involved, make sure he isn’t the type to avoid accountability or lead people on. If he’s clear about his intentions with you and isn’t stringing Ellie along, then date who you want. Just don’t ignore the red flag of how he handled that situation

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Girl code isn’t a universal rule, especially if you’re not actually friends with her. If Richy genuinely likes you and you’re interested in him, Ellie doesn’t get to claim him because they kissed and cuddled once. That said, the bigger issue is Richy pretending it never happened. Before you get involved, make sure he isn’t the type to avoid accountability or lead people on. If he’s clear about his intentions with you and isn’t stringing Ellie along, then date who you want. Just don’t ignore the red flag of how he handled that situation

This is great advice, tysm!