Serious i lost my best friend

[arisu]

idk what happened exactly
he was the only friend i actually thought loved me
i tried to drink my sadness away and i ended up super drunk and hungover and still sad
it’s so fucking over idk what to do

 

[Splankу]

idk what happened exactly
he was the only friend i actually thought loved me
i tried to drink my sadness away and i ended up super drunk and hungover and still sad
it’s so fucking over idk what to do

There’s nothing you can do
Find another

 

[arisu]

There’s nothing you can do
Find another

it’s not that easy

 

[perculez]

There’s nothing you can do
Find another

if ur homeless just buy a house

 

[loserfoid]

aww im so sorry

dms r always open if u need smb to talk to

 

[arisu]

aww im so sorry

dms r always open if u need smb to talk to

thanks

 

[True Spaniard]

idk what happened exactly
he was the only friend i actually thought loved me
i tried to drink my sadness away and i ended up super drunk and hungover and still sad
it’s so fucking over idk what to do

What happened for that to occur?

 

[arisu]

What happened for that to occur?

i don’t know
we have been arguing a lot
this week he was acting weird and being very absent
i sent him a yt video yesterday he left me on delivered
he sent me one today but when i tried to start a conversation he just left me on read
i think he’s mad at me but i don’t wanna be the sensitive bitch to be asking “are u mad”, if i did something wrong he could’ve just told me

 

[True Spaniard]

i don’t know
we have been arguing a lot
this week he was acting weird and being very absent
i sent him a yt video yesterday he left me on delivered
he sent me one today but when i tried to start a conversation he just left me on read
i think he’s mad at me but i don’t wanna be the sensitive bitch to be asking “are u mad”, if i did something wrong he could’ve just told me

Are you sure theres no feelings behind your "friendship"? Its very odd for a person to switch that fast out of the blue, I suppose youve known him for a while for you to consider him your bf

 

[arisu]

Are you sure theres no feelings behind your "friendship"? Its very odd for a person to switch that fast out of the blue, I suppose youve known him for a while for you to consider him your bf

we dated for a while, he was my first love
but he broke up with me bc he realized he didn’t want me and now he is studying to become a priest
i’m not fully over it

 

[loserfoid]

we dated for a while, he was my first love
but he broke up with me bc he realized he didn’t want me and now he is studying to become a priest
i’m not fully over it

a PRIEST???

 

[True Spaniard]

we dated for a while, he was my first love
but he broke up with me bc he realized he didn’t want me and now he is studying to become a priest
i’m not fully over it

Thats what i had supposed, its prolly bc he felt overwhelmed or annoyed at the fact you guys are not together anymore and he cant deal with that so he just will not respond to you

 

[arisu]

a PRIEST???

yea why??

 

[loserfoid]

yea why??

just a funny like

idk its a funny occupation to hear about one going into

not very kind and religious that he abandoned u like that tho im so soffy

 

[arisu]

Thats what i had supposed, its prolly bc he felt overwhelmed or annoyed at the fact you guys are not together anymore and he cant deal with that so he just will not respond to you

but we broke up in February bro
and I tried to get him back in march/april but he rejected me
and we never talked abt this after
i doubt he still wants me

 

[arisu]

just a funny like

idk its a funny occupation to hear about one going into

not very kind and religious that he abandoned u like that tho im so soffy

yea
i’m terribly sad tbh i just wanna know what happened

 

[loserfoid]

yea
i’m terribly sad tbh i just wanna know what happened

im so sorry, u deserve so much better

 

[True Spaniard]

but we broke up in February bro
and I tried to get him back in march/april but he rejected me
and we never talked abt this after
i doubt he still wants me

Feelings can comeback any time and everybody has their moments, its not rare, wait some days to see is if he gets his head around it

 

[arisu]

Feelings can comeback any time and everybody has their moments, its not rare, wait some days to see is he gets his head around it

now that i think about it, you might be right
these past few days before he started acting weird he started saying a bunch of stuff that might indicate he is starting to have certain feelings for me

 

[True Spaniard]

now that i think about it, you might be right
these past few days before he started acting weird he started saying a bunch of stuff that might indicate he is starting to have certain feelings for me

Do you still like him romantically?

 

[arisu]

Do you still like him romantically?

yes sadly

 

[loserfoid]

now that i think about it, you might be right
these past few days before he started acting weird he started saying a bunch of stuff that might indicate he is starting to have certain feelings for me

well not to give excuses but some ppl (ive been in a situation like what im describing) get extreme emotions n then dont know how to react n js ditch ppl

theyre shitty bht thats how some ppl are

 

[True Spaniard]

yes sadly

Theres really no point on having a "friendship" like that when youre still somehow attached emotionally to him, you both gotta be upfront about your feelings

 

[Gesandt]

idk what happened exactly
he was the only friend i actually thought loved me
i tried to drink my sadness away and i ended up super drunk and hungover and still sad
it’s so fucking over idk what to do

 

[arisu]

Theres really no point on having a "friendship" like that when youre still somehow attached emotionally to him, you both gotta be upfront about your feelings

i can’t get in the way of his vocation
if i try to confess he will get angry at me for sure

 

[arisu]

well not to give excuses but some ppl (ive been in a situation like what im describing) get extreme emotions n then dont know how to react n js ditch ppl

theyre shitty bht thats how some ppl are

he was bipolar disorder
he’s done similar stuff before
so yea maybe

 

[loserfoid]

i can’t get in the way of his vocation
if i try to confess he will get angry at me for sure

“is it better to speak or die?”

i dont mean that quote literally in this case but

would u rather tell him n if hes mad hes mad or live in forever regret

 

[True Spaniard]

i can’t get in the way of his vocation
if i try to confess he will get angry at me for sure

Then ill sadly tell you theres no point on having a relation with him like that, its gonna most probably cause you damage at the end of the day, you can still try, and if he doesnt want to be your friend anymore his loss, you at least were upfront about what you felt not like him

 

[arisu]

Then ill sadly tell you theres no point on having a relation with him like that, its gonna most probably cause you damage at the end of the day, you can still try, and if he doesnt want to be your friend anymore his loss, you at least were upfront about what you felt not like him

i will try to talk to him
last time we actually talked we had a semi-argument
he’s prob resentful

 

[Splankу]

if ur homeless just buy a house

Nah you can get used to other people pretty quickly tbh

 

[arisu]

Nah you can get used to other people pretty quickly tbh

bro if finding a best friend who u can trust was so easy i wouldn’t be suffering bc of it for years

 

[perculez]

Nah you can get used to other people pretty quickly tbh

maybe thats the case for u but for some of us even talking to ppl is quite hard let alone getting friends

 

[loserfoid]

maybe thats the case for u but for some of us even talking to ppl is quite hard let alone getting friends

exactly

i hate ppl

please excuse me for being antisocial

to quote that one album title

 

[Splankу]

maybe thats the case for u but for some of us even talking to ppl is quite hard let alone getting friends

Hmm I guess
I feel like getting over people is kind of easy tbh idk maybe just for me like you said but eh

 

[Rololongs]

idk what happened exactly
he was the only friend i actually thought loved me
i tried to drink my sadness away and i ended up super drunk and hungover and still sad
it’s so fucking over idk what to do

Just move on don't let the bring you down

 

[Rololongs]

And I also understand moving on is hard too

 

[arni]

idk what happened exactly
he was the only friend i actually thought loved me
i tried to drink my sadness away and i ended up super drunk and hungover and still sad
it’s so fucking over idk what to do

I hope you can find him

 

[LeoK]

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Losing someone you thought genuinely cared about hurts so much. Drinking only numbs it for a little while and usually makes you feel even worse afterward.If you don’t know exactly what happened, I’d honestly try talking to him first. A calm conversation might clear up a misunderstanding or at least give you some answers instead of wondering. And if things still don’t work out, you’ll know you tried.Please take care of yourself today and don’t go through this alone. This won’t hurt this much forever

 

[arisu]

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Losing someone you thought genuinely cared about hurts so much. Drinking only numbs it for a little while and usually makes you feel even worse afterward.If you don’t know exactly what happened, I’d honestly try talking to him first. A calm conversation might clear up a misunderstanding or at least give you some answers instead of wondering. And if things still don’t work out, you’ll know you tried.Please take care of yourself today and don’t go through this alone. This won’t hurt this much forever

you’re so kind