Lifefuel / Motivation I love being nice to people

[Byro]

It’s not a thing I strive to do alot as I find it a waste of time but helping people out especially when they are going through struggles kind of fixes a bit of me and helps me feel like a better person and repent for past mistakes I have done.

 

[Post-punkcel]

It’s not a thing I strive to do alot as I find it a waste of time but helping people out especially when they are going through struggles kind of fixes a bit of me and helps me feel like a better person and repent for past mistakes I have done.

What I learned from personal experience is that captain save a hoe syndrome most of the time just makes it easy for people to take you for granted and to deceive you

 

[alacrity]

It’s not a thing I strive to do alot as I find it a waste of time but helping people out especially when they are going through struggles kind of fixes a bit of me and helps me feel like a better person and repent for past mistakes I have done.

A friend to all is a friend to none

 

[Byro]

What I learned from personal experience is that captain save a hoe syndrome most of the time just makes it easy for people to take you for granted and to deceive you

Not just saving girls dude I’m no white knight n***a I’m saying in general being nice doing good deeds makes me feel better as a person. Yes I have helped girls before in that mindset but like I was speaking in a more general sense

 

[Byro]

A friend to all is a friend to none

Then wouldn’t a god be no friend nor father as he is omnibenevolent. Your philosophy is illogical because I still have people I dislike

 

[Post-punkcel]

Not just saving girls dude I’m no white night n***a I’m saying in general being nice doing good deeds makes me feel better as a person. Yes I have helped girls before in that mindset but like I was speaking in a more general sense

n***a thinks I don't talk to people outside this forum, n***a some friends played in my face despite the shit I've done for them

 

[Byro]

n***a thinks I don't talk to people outside this forum, n***a some friends played in my face despite the shit I've done for them

You’re too much of a pessimist DWBI. instead of asking for returns just be happy that you helped them and hold pride to yourself you did that despite their lack of reciprocation

 

[Post-punkcel]

You’re too much of a pessimist DWBI. instead of asking for returns just be happy that you helped them and hold pride to yourself you did that despite their lack of reciprocation

It's kind of hard to not be in these trying times

 

[lazerdim]

You’re like a breath of fresh air I admire your way of thinking

 

[alacrity]

Then wouldn’t a god be no friend nor father as he is omnibenevolent. Your philosophy is illogical because I still have people I dislike

I meant in Ina way that if your just chill with alot of people you cannot get into a deep bond with them

 

[Byro]

It's kind of hard to not be in these trying times

Just got to keep pushing bro I been dragged through the mud and back and I still get back up no matter how hard the hit. Cheating. Fights. Distrust. Friendships. Family the whole nine yards you just got to power the fuck through man.

 

[Byro]

I meant in Ina way that if your just chill with alot of people you cannot get into a deep bond with them

Hmm idk about that there is many people I say I have deeper understanding and connection to despite having many people im nice to

 

[jest]

being kind and nice is the best

 

[alacrity]

Hmm idk about that there is many people I say I have deeper understanding and connection to despite having many people im nice to

Just let me cope brah, plsss

 

[Byro]

Just let me cope brah, plsss

It’s okay realistically think how you want to. I’m not stopping you the world doesn’t have a meaning I’m just trying to live a good life and not worry about stuff to much. Dwell on the past and you might get stuck there.

 

[TFC]

It’s not a thing I strive to do alot as I find it a waste of time but helping people out especially when they are going through struggles kind of fixes a bit of me and helps me feel like a better person and repent for past mistakes I have done.

you are not a good person

A good deed is not atonement for bad behavior. Bad behavior must be made up through apologies, acceptance, and ultimately not doing the bad thing again.

A good deed has nothing to do with this process.

 

[alacrity]

It’s okay realistically think how you want to. I’m not stopping you the world doesn’t have a meaning I’m just trying to live a good life and not worry about stuff to much. Dwell on the past and you might get stuck there.

That's why I try to be nicer to ppl, but since I've only been chill with ppl, I haven't made a single friend yet

 

[Byro]

That's why I try to be nicer to ppl, but since I've only been chill with ppl, I haven't made a single friend yet

Look for people that need help. I struggle with social cues alot but at this point I’m just so low inhib I have forgotten embarrassment. A girl today was sat alone and I just thought to myself my heart hurts whenever I’m in that situation so I’ll keep her company. Best conversation I have had today easily and I made someone’s day a little better she even snapped me about it

 

[Nenestar]

i help people who deserve it

 

[Post-punkcel]

i help people who deserve it

On what criteria does someone deserve it ?

 

[Byro]

i help people who deserve it

I do it whether they deserve it or not. Life is not a constant gradient theyre highs and lows and to help that person get to that high you gotta dig them out of that low

 

[Nenestar]

On what criteria does someone deserve it ?

if they are not some cringe loser tbh. but very rarely (basically never) i go out of my way to help someone (they need to ask)

 

[Byro]

if they are not some cringe loser tbh. but very rarely (basically never) i go out of my way to help someone (they need to ask)

gotta be better than that man. i try my hardest to be nice to everyone even though people say im arrogant and egotistical.

 

[Nenestar]

gotta be better than that man. i try my hardest to be nice to everyone even though people say im arrogant and egotistical.

i'm fine the way i am. nobody complains. you don't need to be the mr. nice guy all the time, i just chill

 

[drchad]

It’s not a thing I strive to do alot as I find it a waste of time but helping people out especially when they are going through struggles kind of fixes a bit of me and helps me feel like a better person and repent for past mistakes I have done.

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[Deleted Member 104328]

It’s not a thing I strive to do alot as I find it a waste of time but helping people out especially when they are going through struggles kind of fixes a bit of me and helps me feel like a better person and repent for past mistakes I have done.

Same but I don’t think it’s a waste of time since you’re making somebody else’s day easier even if it’s just a little show of kindness.