I need guidance from someone who knows what their doing AMA

[the incel]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

 

[Jayan_3]

Hard to tell bro

 

[the incel]

Hard to tell bro

aye man if you need any more info ss of texts a picture of me lmk

 

[Jayan_3]

aye man if you need any more info ss of texts a picture of me lmk

I am nd and npc man ,i don't think I can help sorry man

 

[KittyBreath]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

why would u give a fuck if u get played just fuck and move on if you dont get played great now you have a partner quit being a pussy bitch and man up

 

[polgrev]

why would u give a fuck if u get played just fuck and move on if you dont get played great now you have a partner quit being a pussy bitch and man up

Yeah this

Don’t get attached and you’ll be fine

“Oh she’s playing me” if you still hit, then you have nothing to worry about

 

[wildfrost11]

is this 8th grade

 

[submissivechud]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

she likes u g

 

[the incel]

why would u give a fuck if u get played just fuck and move on if you dont get played great now you have a partner quit being a pussy bitch and man up

thank you that’s what i needed to hear. Fuck getting attached

 

[the incel]

is this 8th grade

junior year

 

[wildfrost11]

junior year

hope it gets better cant really guve advice as im not reading alladat

 

[krieg]

I’m a 6:3 white male

 

[lydia]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

ask her what she wants with you. if she avoids the answer or gets upset, she's using you. you deserve clarity. if she only looks for you at night and in secret, it's not real interest

 

[AmyTrynaLooksmaxx]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

Is she like the sweet type or does she tease you it’s hard to tell if you don’t say what she’s like

 

[meh.guy]

@genio

 

[HerculesJr.]

why would u give a fuck if u get played just fuck and move on if you dont get played great now you have a partner quit being a pussy bitch and man up

 

[the incel]

ask her what she wants with you. if she avoids the answer or gets upset, she's using you. you deserve clarity. if she only looks for you at night and in secret, it's not real interest

Is she like the sweet type or does she tease you it’s hard to tell if you don’t say what she’s like

she teases me otp but in person she was sweet

 

[the incel]

ask her what she wants with you. if she avoids the answer or gets upset, she's using you. you deserve clarity. if she only looks for you at night and in secret, it's not real interest

she didn’t even reply js screenshotted it and sent it to my friend

 

[lydia]

she didn’t even reply js screenshotted it and sent it to my friend

she didn't reply. that’s your answer. tbh, cut contact. if she wanted something real she'd talk to you

 

[the incel]

she didn't reply. that’s your answer. tbh, cut contact. if she wanted something real she'd talk to you

maybe what i said came off as harsh but I really am just trying to not care

 

[lydia]

maybe what i said came off as harsh but I really i’m just trying to not care

do what's best for you and prioritize yourself

 

[HerculesJr.]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

Is this you but swap the faces of the guy on the left and the guy on the right

 

[The Centipede]

Sounds like you have feelings. Just be careful, don’t let her take advantage.

 

[The Centipede]

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Is this you but swap the faces of the guy on the left and the guy on the right

Both look like aliens or some shit

 

[the incel]

do what's best for you

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Is this you but swap the faces of the guy on the left and the guy on the right

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Is this you but swap the faces of the guy on the left and the guy on the right

damn near

 

[the incel]

Sounds like you have feelings. Just be careful, don’t let her take advantage

yes I did have feelings she was the first girl I had a positive experience with in person. Unfortunately I came to the conclusion that i’m no where near the first option.

 

[lazy]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

This probably isn’t the best place to ask

 

[the incel]

do what's best for you and prioritize yourself

 

[genio]

Im truecel

@genio

 

[meh.guy]

Im truecel

I just saw need advice and ur a smart guy, we are both truecels

 

[lydia]

it won't let me reply to your message directly, but I've seen it. tbh it's for the best for both of you, you'll understand eventually

 

[the incel]

it won't let me reply to your message directly, but I've seen it. tbh it's for the best for both of you, you'll understand eventually

no dw it’s clicked in my mind I just wished we could talk so i could better understand my mistakes and improve especially on reading people. I just want to be as aware as I can so if i ever get this opportunity again I won’t just throw it away.

 

[lydia]

no dw it’s clicked in my mind I just wished we could talk so i could better understand my mistakes and improve especially on reading people. I just want to be as aware as I can so if i ever get this opportunity again I won’t just throw it away.

well, that's a much healthier way to look at it. everyone makes mistakes when it's their first real experience with someone. don't beat yourself up over it. just take what you've learned and carry it into the next opportunity

 

[the incel]

okay but I get very little opportunity to begin with and idrc about “messing it up” because I never looked good enough to be loved only lusted over. Maybe I can change to meet this baseline atleast i hope

 

[the incel]

okay but I get very little opportunity to begin with and idrc about “messing it up” because I never looked good enough to be loved only lusted over. Maybe I can change to meet this baseline atleast i hope

@limnoria

 

[lydia]

okay but I get very little opportunity to begin with and idrc about “messing it up” because I never looked good enough to be loved only lusted over. Maybe I can change to meet this baseline atleast i hope

i think you're being way too hard on yourself. if someone spent time with you, talked to you, and wanted to be around you, that's already more than just lust. maybe it didn't work out the way you hoped, but that doesn't mean you're unlovable. one experience isn't enough to define your worth

 

[GermanAngel]

If she wanted to she would you should cut ties

 

[Luxe]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

Always be ready to let go

Trust me dude

 

[Brandedbateman]

kinda felt like this last year just enjoy the oxytocin lol but don't get to attached and at the end of the day who cares we only live once

 

[übermenschgrimreaper]

I’m a 6:3 white male who’s always been unattractive. I started talking to my old talking stage again with a few days ago having my first kiss and intimate moments. She is the kind of person with every guy in her phone talking to everyone while i’m a neurodivergent unconfident dude. she snuck over with her friend and we were making out again and again i just really wanna know if im being played so i wont get hurt. no bs please i need help

genuinely I know those type girls trust me it’s not worthier don’t waste ur time and fall in love with her just to be hurt search for a girl that only obviously has eyes for u

 

[zennn]

shes a bitch

there you go

 

[übermenschgrimreaper]

i think you're being way too hard on yourself. if someone spent time with you, talked to you, and wanted to be around you, that's already more than just lust. maybe it didn't work out the way you hoped, but that doesn't mean you're unlovable. one experience isn't enough to define your worth

yea but there’s many people also many girls who just want physical love and trust me they’re desperate they don’t care who the person is or what they look like they just want compliments reassurance and a bit intemacy and then they’re gone. Ik what im talking about my friends are like this and it’s awful to watch that guy after guy caught feelings and then got dumped

 

[lydia]

yea but there’s many people also many girls who just want physical love and trust me they’re desperate they don’t care who the person is or what they look like they just want compliments reassurance and a bit intemacy and then they’re gone. Ik what im talking about my friends are like this and it’s awful to watch that guy after guy caught feelings and then got dumped

i get what you’re saying, and yeah, there are definitely people who only want attention, validation or temporary intimacy. but there are also plenty of people looking for something genuine. i don’t think it’s fair to assume every connection is doomed just because you’ve seen bad examples. people catching feelings and getting hurt happens, but that doesn’t mean real love or real interest doesn’t exist. sometimes it just takes meeting the right person